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RE: Monogamy needs to be propped up in order to survive
(12-15-2016 05:40 PM)roberto Wrote: (12-15-2016 01:37 AM)TheMost Wrote: Ran a population simulation. Allocated 2 women to every man. No divorce, marriage until death. All the standard vital statistics you find in the actuarial tables; lifespan, puberty, menopause, etc. Someone mentioned being "ready" to marry and have kids around age 35. Guess what the simulation found... when every marriageable woman is married off at age 18, every man gets his 2 (young) wives sometime between age 35 and 40. Sounds incredible? Unbelievable? Just have to run the simulation and watch how the dynamic interactions between male and female play out. Write your own simulation, or I can point you to one already on the web. Mankind is polygamous by nature; monogamy is contrary to our biology.
None of the above makes any sense to me. If you have a simulator that allows you to 'watch dynamic interactions between male and female' then I think you've cracked artificial intelligence.
Got a link to the one on the web?
As promised, here is the link to the simulator. It is a source file, you run it with the newlisp interpreter. The knobs and settings are at the top, where you can easily find and modify them.
http://pastebin.com/GH1v3CDt
Here is some sample output from one run:
Quote:Year 240. population 1253812 (0.44) 59619 births (0.45) 1611 deaths (0.55) 14658 marriages (m: 27 f: 17)
Quote:Year 240 ;240th year in the simulated universe
population 1253812 ; all living males and females
(0.44) ; 44% of the population is male
59619 births ; people born in year 240
(0.45) ; 45% of births were male
1611 deaths ; people who died in year 240
(0.55) ; 55% of deaths were male
14658 marriages ; couples that married in year 240
(m: 27 f: 17) ; the male and female numbers mean slightly different things. In year 240, every man at age 27 and older is married. Average age of women at marriage, was 17.
You might think it is unrealistic for 45% of births to be male; but when a man gets past the age of 40, he sires twice as many girls as boys. (35% of births) The simulation takes into account age of the father.
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RE: Monogamy needs to be propped up in order to survive
I wasn't advocating a society where every man has 2 wives. Only showing that it is possible. Once a man realizes that EVERY man could have 2 wives without too much hardship, it doesn't seem so bad when the occasional man takes more than 1 wife, as in normal polygamous societies, where most men have 1 or no wives. The point is that polygamy doesn't mean any man has to go without. That is the big road-block in the mind of many men. Once polygamy is accepted, the adulterous "courtly love" nonsense is easier to suppress, and we are 90% of the way to patriarchy. Allowing polygamy tilts the playing field toward men. All men, not just a lucky few. Hypergamy and SMV do have adaptive value; it just needs to be reined in. It has got out of hand.
The Victorians understood the concept of sexual sublimation. As to men waiting to 35 (or 27, as the most recent simulation gave), patriarchy is fairly effective at keeping a lid on young men's hormones. Look at China, where 90% of young men are sexless Gamma males. This is structural; once they hit a certain age, they become alpha assholes, and the society supports them in it. The patriarchy effect works across species, check out what happened when mature male elephants were added to a herd of young male elephants that were running around raping the females, etc. http://thesestonewalls.com/gordon-macrae...s-and-men/
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RE: Monogamy needs to be propped up in order to survive
(12-14-2016 09:03 PM)Roosh Wrote: This is an old study that was thoroughly debunked by someone (don't have the link but I remember reading it). It keeps popping up because it's great clickbait.
http://genome.cshlp.org/content/early/20...4.abstract
I wouldn't make any grand theories are random studies that pop up. Google "replication crisis" to see how most are bullshit.
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RE: Monogamy needs to be propped up in order to survive
(12-16-2016 06:26 AM)TheMost Wrote: The Victorians understood the concept of sexual sublimation. As to men waiting to 35 (or 27, as the most recent simulation gave), patriarchy is fairly effective at keeping a lid on young men's hormones. Look at China, where 90% of young men are sexless Gamma males. This is structural; once they hit a certain age, they become alpha assholes, and the society supports them in it. The patriarchy effect works across species, check out what happened when mature male elephants were added to a herd of young male elephants that were running around raping the females, etc. http://thesestonewalls.com/gordon-macrae...s-and-men/
It was once fairly normal to consider the young adulthood stage for men to be one where men "made their place in the world" ... getting a career/business/trade going and establishing themselves financially to the point where they could demonstrate ability to support a family. Not all succeeded. For some, there was a military career ... some would be successful, some wouldn't come back. It's a very different mindset than young men wearing flashy clothes and dancing at nightclubs to peacock themselves to young women and get laid. There are big frame differences at which the feminists have been chipping away very deliberately for decades. Of course young men still had sex drive in those situations, but they didn't get laid all the time and when they did it was with a different type of woman than the type they would consider marriage material.
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RE: Monogamy needs to be propped up in order to survive
At some point we'll need to reckon with the fact that socially-impost monogamy is largely a European phenomenon that only arose naturally in Europe.
Prior to contact with Europe, multiple marriage was common across the Americas (North, South, Central, Caribbean), Africa, and most of Asia. Only in East Asia did we get anything approaching the socially imposed monogamy of Europe, and even then distinctions arose because of the widespread acceptance of official concubinage.
Europeans remain the only people to have organically developed a system of socially imposed monogamy in which all men, no matter how powerful, could take only one wife and in which all relations outside of that were officially taboo (read: no open concubinage of harems as seen in the east - mistresses must be kept on the low). Many did not impose as strict a penalty on out of wedlock births as Europeans either.
Were it not for European influence (specifically, European laws and religious customs) spreading to these places, they would all still be without the socially imposed monogamy we see taken for granted today.
This is an important point because, in my view, it goes to the likelihood of monogamy being successfully propped up among different people in different parts of the world. We mustn't forget that monogamy is not something that was common to all peoples - it originated largely in one place and has been enforced and spread primarily by individuals/cultures from that place. We can't assume that everyone else is willing or able to prop up socially imposed monogamy in the way it's originators and primary propagators have done.
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