Post: #1

So I have been living in Porto Alegre for over 3 weeks and so far only got 1 bang from tinder so far.

I am getting tons of matches - if I do a liking blitz every 2-3 days I will for sure get another 25+ matches. Probably more matches than anywhere I have been.

No problem getting conversations going. Getting whatsapp is even easier.

But the girls won't meet up. As soon as I propose a meeting they go silent or make excuses without offering an alternative.

My Portuguese is terrible as I only learned it for a month or so (although I did bang a girl from day game here and she spoke no English at all):

My typical conversation on whatsapp looks like this (watered down but yo get the general idea:

Me: Oi, bom dia/tudo bem?
Her: Oi, tb e vc?
Me: Tudo bem, eu vou ir XXX hoje. E o que voce esta fazendo hoje?
Her: amigos/trabalhar/xxx
Me: Legal, nos podemos encontrar a X horas a noite...
Her... *excuse without alternative* or no response at all

These days I have about 60+ whatsapp numbers in my phone and I have taken to 'trolling' them every morning with 'oi, tudo bem?' and seeing who responds.

Anyone have an ideas? Are girls here simply mega attention seekers or is it entirely me? What should I do?

I tried a few things so far. Such as messaging all girls on tinder in English to see who says yes. The girl I banged spoke English well. Most of them don't however.

I also tried not taking their whatsapp but just trying to get them out on tinder but it doesn't work (so far)

Thanks for any advice!

Post: #2

Often they are scared by fear of not being able to communicate well so always write in/overstate your ability in Portuguese.

They are all together a flaky lot though and my best results were face to face.