Post: #1

Last night, I was gaming a girl (about a 9 in looks) with my playful-cocky, arrogant dick game.

It was going well, but she kept telling me how she is ONLY looking for "friends" and would like to have my friendship.

I laughed and told her I don't give out my friendship to random strangers I meet at bars; secondly, friendship is something I only value if both parties have earned it.

She laughs " well, all I can offer is my friendship!"

Mixx:"Seeing as how you only know me ten minutes and want to give me your friendship, it must no be a very valuable one"

Target:"Man, what an ego you have, you are truly are difficult!"

Mixx:"well I'm certainly not easy like that chubby guy over there very eager to be your friend I'm sure"

Target:"you seriously gave a huge ego, if you don't want my friendship fine, you truly think you are the prince of England don't you?"

Mixx:"sorry, but I'm not like the majority of guys who pretend to be your friend 'cuz he was too chicken shit to man up and state his intentions clearly."

Target:" I cannot believe your ego, you have a huge blown-up head. Who do you think you are? You know what? you confuse your huge ego for confidence, I doubt you have any confidence at all and just think you do from an oversized ego! I'm not the girl for you"

Mixx:"You're probably right, I am way to much of a challenge for you. You should definitely go talk to that guy over there desperate to buy you a drink and (hopefully), win your acceptance and friendship"


Target:"I've had enough of you, you act like a spoiled brat who thinks he deserves teh world - grow up! goodbye"

Target walks away................


45 Minutes Later...target approached me, and interrupts a conversation with a new target.

Target "You know...I had to look for you and tell you that you will never get far in life with your attitude and ego"

Mixx:"Ok, I appreciate your opinion, but why did you come back and go out of your way to find me to tell me that?"

Target"I don't know...'cuz I personally hate you....and feel odd attraction..." <<-- she hates me???

Mixx:"Well, you already got my number, call me later this week..I may be free on Tuesday as I already have plans tonight..."

Target:"With her?"

Mixx - "maybe....."


I was already to far ahead with a new target (making-out), so I was not going to give in to her attention seeking needs.

What the fuck was she talking about my ego??? and how would you guys have handled it?

I think I could have done way better.....she caught me off guard by challenging my confidence as a fake-mask.

Mixx

Post: #2

Are you sure she said i feel that attraction towards you? Im not hating but there is something that is not right about this story.

Anyway, i get told that shit a lot, girls call me a big head and that i think that im too good looking. I was just thinking about this shit today, i mess up two lays due to that acting not too long ago. Resuming it was like, i call the girl, she picks up:

Me: You good
Girl: Who is this?
Me: That very good looking guy you met the other day or i just say the most good looking guy in this town

I noticed that this attitude is bad for girls that i just met but girls that have spoken to me few times just love that shit and start laughing... i had girls telling me that they just want my friendship and next minute we were fucking.

Post: #3

I am trying to remember the exact words, it was a long night, but yes, she actually said she hated me, and feels and odd attraction. ** Take note She said this when she already saw me making out with another target!!!

I don't remember ALL of the exact words, I wrote it as best I remember the interaction. It's not like I have video tape/film I can review

No need to doubt my story...this is Mixx, I'm already the man here with nothing to prove by fabricating a story.

You still did not tell me how you handled it, you just told me you ended up fucking later...how does that help me Pitt?


Mixx

Post: #4

What I think is the problem is that all your answers were spot on with regard to attitude and logic. Women hower do not respond well to logic. They don't want to be confronted with the case meaning of what they are truly communicating.

What I would have done would be to have been a bit more non-reactive. Rather than argue with here I would have just said "ok, well if that's how you feel then I wish you a pleasant night."

Post: #5

Mixx-

"It was going well, but she kept telling me how she is ONLY looking for "friends" and would like to have my friendship.

I laughed and told her I don't give out my friendship to random strangers I meet at bars; secondly, friendship is something I only value if both parties have earned it."

Obviously you have mad Game and your own "Game Style".

I play things a little differently, so take it for what it is worth.

I don't really go with a "confrontational" style (unless the situation warrants it).

In this situation, I would have maybe "played along" with her "friendship vibe" and taken her into deeper water on the night.

Then I would have drowned her in the latter stages of the night.

Basically, "shoulder roll" her friendship vibe, take it in, absorb it and then counter later.

Kind of like this (watch at :36 and :54):





This is of course assuming that I really thought I had a very legitimate chance, which it seemed like you might have. (And a million other factors ie was the night young?, were there tons of other fly girls?, was I feeling 120%?, did I need to be somewhere else? etc etc etc)

Essentially, she dictated the fight and you were fighting on her terms (exchanging punches).

Next time, use the jab, some foot movement, Rope-a-Dope a little and wait till the later rounds.

Post: #6

This is off topic but in reference to your vid G, im glad Michael Irving called out Floyd about ducking MP.

Maybe with enough pressure from his own people and other high profile athletes we will get to see, quite frankly the only big ticket fight left in boxing.

Post: #7

(08-13-2011 01:24 PM)MiXX Wrote:  What the fuck was she talking about my ego??? and how would you guys have handled it?

Seems like a typical attention whore to me, as she tried to force you to qualify yourself to her several times. She has probably never met a confident dude before, or maybe she was looking for some tough love with the guy who has huge ego. Tell her that you understand her frustration - probably she only met guys who had small ego, and led herself into the fake "size doesn't matter" belief. She's probably just not experienced enough to handle the love with a man who has ego larger than average

But I admit there was some good stuff you posted, and I've learned something. Usually I'm very blunt about those, responding something like "well, there should be even less useful things than your opinion about my personality, but I really can't come up with anything". You need to write a book or something.

Post: #8

I think what she meant to say is, "I'm a 9, I'm used to walking all over guys and being treated like the Princess of England, why aren't you doing what I want you to do!"

You probably could've banged her that night, but only a fool would've passed on a girl they already made out with.

I know it's not much help to you, but I don't see how you could've played it any better. By the way, did you bang that other chick? Probably a stupid question...

Post: #9

These are those situations where I agree and amplify.

"You're right, I don't know if you can handle my massive ego."

Post: #10

(08-13-2011 05:35 PM)CJ Wrote:  By the way, did you bang that other chick?

A gentleman never tells

So, yes, I did.

Mixx

Post: #11

(08-13-2011 01:24 PM)MiXX Wrote:  What the fuck was she talking about my ego??? and how would you guys have handled it?

1. I think she only came back b/c she saw you were making out with another girl. You were proving to her that she was wrong, and she was having doubts. She was trying to prove to herself that she was right... so she came back.

2. Hot bitchy chicks who are used to controlling/emasculating guys love to bust balls. Unlike you, I encountered these girls alot through my life, and still do. These types of girls tend to be very confident, or aggressive/masculine, or accomplished/very educated, or on the East Coast/California.

3. Why would you change the tone of your game midway?

4. Last night, I was cocky & dickheaded with this slutty-looking hot Asian chick. I didn't think twice. She walked away. No big deal. I talked to other girls, including a blonde and a brunette.

Post: #12

Overall I think you did good, but you may have over-gamed her by using too much cocky shit. It's good that you held your ground, but it seems you could have come off as taking yourself too seriously and defensive. Like she kept calling you cocky and you kept justifying it.

You could have flipped the script on her in a friendly and playful way, since that is your style.

Like "you're not gonna try to be one of those girls who pretends to be my friend then weasel her way out of the friend zone, are you?" Something along those lines.

Then continue jokes and change the topic.

Of course, hindsight is 20/20 and it's way easier to analyze game than to spit it off the top right then and there.

Post: #13

(08-13-2011 06:05 PM)Gmac Wrote:  These are those situations where I agree and amplify.

"You're right, I don't know if you can handle my massive ego."

I like that too. Agree and amplify is my go-to shit test passer along with ignore.

Anything that makes her laugh/forget or puts her on the defensive (in a playful way).

Post: #14

(08-13-2011 01:24 PM)MiXX Wrote:  Target "I don't know...'cuz I personally hate you....and feel odd attraction..."

Sounds like you did great.

(08-13-2011 01:24 PM)MiXX Wrote:  she caught me off guard by challenging my confidence as a fake-mask.

I'm surprised this happen to you more often. Modern women are always challenging a cocky, confident, man.

Post: #15

(08-13-2011 06:14 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(08-13-2011 05:35 PM)CJ Wrote:  By the way, did you bang that other chick?

A gentleman never tells

So, yes, I did.

Mixx

Lol!

Being a gentleman is overrated.

Wald

Post: #16

You are a patient guy Mixx, Ill give you that bro!

There is a difference between shit tests and downright rude behaviour IMO. I certainly would have told her to fuck off when she came back second time around, but my patience would have been wearing thin before that already. A simple

"Look, I have zero time for your attitude or your bullshit. You ruined your chances. Get lost"

would have been quite appropriate and very dismissive. No man would speak to you in that manner unless he fancies going outside, and while we tend to take a little more from women, there should be a line for them too.

There are times to plow through to land the lay, but IMO there are times when you need to walk away too out of principle. Do you really want to reward that sort of behaviour? Why are we looking for ways to make allowances for it or ways to deal with it so we can continue engaging with them them?

No piece of ass has the right to disrespect people in such a way. She sounds like an absolute waste of sperm.

Post: #17

I would have cut to a different conversational thread after her second bitching/sentence about ego or just brushed it off. Seemed like she was just flinging shit test after shit test, no reason to play that I'd just ignore it. Also I would have turned my back on her and walked away first after saying "I'm too much of a challenge for you." She sounds like the type of woman who's so used to having people do everything for her (hence why she was unused to a man with confidence and responded dysfunctionally with bitchiness rather than intrigue) so turning your back on her without giving her the last word or in her mind "closure" would probably get under her skin and either knock her off the pedestal or make her want to bang you, or both. Finally, when she tries to throw out those "lecturing lines" about ego and getting far in life I would have said "Thanks Mom!" or something else sarcastic and turned the tables to focus on her "vast, qualified and authoritative life experience" and her maturity and then either changed topics or walked away

Post: #18

I would have done the same as Gmac, agree and amplify. Really take the piss out of her 'Yeah we could do things like go to the cinema and not talk for 2 hours or watch Dawsons Creek boxset together' etc.

I think Mixxs responses were pretty good, saying how that guy over there wants your 'acceptance and friendship.' G-Manifesto I'm intrigued with the Rumble in the Jungle analogies. Can you elaborate how you would have taken her into deeper water then drowned her?

Post: #19

I think Mixx did this quite well, certainly better and bolder than I would have. It's a really strange shit test. Personally, I'd probably use some form of Agree & Amplify, like "It's good that you noticed, you need to get used to my massive ego."

Well, or this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lQHz2A1HWBk

Post: #20

(08-13-2011 01:45 PM)MiXX Wrote:  No need to doubt my story...this is Mixx, I'm already the man here with nothing to prove by fabricating a story.


Mixx

That smells like your huge ego .

Post: #21

(08-14-2011 07:53 AM)Jack_007 Wrote:  

(08-13-2011 01:45 PM)MiXX Wrote:  No need to doubt my story...this is Mixx, I'm already the man here with nothing to prove by fabricating a story.


Mixx

That smells like your huge ego .

Mixx, please do tell us if the girl actually calls you, that would make for a gran finale and a lesson for us all.

Post: #22

(08-14-2011 04:52 AM)dk902 Wrote:  I would have done the same as Gmac, agree and amplify. Really take the piss out of her 'Yeah we could do things like go to the cinema and not talk for 2 hours or watch Dawsons Creek boxset together' etc.

I think Mixxs responses were pretty good, saying how that guy over there wants your 'acceptance and friendship.' G-Manifesto I'm intrigued with the Rumble in the Jungle analogies. Can you elaborate how you would have taken her into deeper water then drowned her?

Basically Mixx was getting into a toe to toe exchange in the middle of the ring.

My point was to go along with her friendship vibe for the time being (again, tons of variables here.)

Get some drinks, get some more comfort going, let your personality shine.

Maybe switch venues to a place you have on Lock Down.

Get her into deep water.

Then go for the close in the later stages of the night.

Post: #23

(08-13-2011 01:24 PM)MiXX Wrote:  What the fuck was she talking about my ego??? and how would you guys have handled it?

I would have been skeptical about the whole exchange, but would have kept at it the same amount of time that you did.

How many attractive girls do you know that can actually carry out a conversation in the manner which you described? It seems a little too deep.

She's probably had quite of bit of practice laying the "you have a big ego" thing on dudes. Seeing as she's a nine, you probably aren't the first guy to run arrogant/cocky game on her. She's rehearsed it well.

They get a kick out of teasing dudes, so it's good you didn't waste to much time.

Aloha!

Post: #24

(08-14-2011 07:58 PM)Kona Wrote:  

(08-13-2011 01:24 PM)MiXX Wrote:  What the fuck was she talking about my ego??? and how would you guys have handled it?

I would have been skeptical about the whole exchange, but would have kept at it the same amount of time that you did.

How many attractive girls do you know that can actually carry out a conversation in the manner which you described? It seems a little too deep.

She's probably had quite of bit of practice laying the "you have a big ego" thing on dudes. Seeing as she's a nine, you probably aren't the first guy to run arrogant/cocky game on her. She's rehearsed it well.

They get a kick out of teasing dudes, so it's good you didn't waste to much time.

Aloha!

Agree with Kona here. All these sluts have one thing in common and it's called being "relevant" to everything and anything . When they are not relevant they react just like a dog that eats its own vomit.

Post: #25

(08-13-2011 06:14 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(08-13-2011 05:35 PM)CJ Wrote:  By the way, did you bang that other chick?

A gentleman never tells

So, yes, I did.

Mixx

Yep, I thought it was a stupid question! So, since you got a lay that night regardless, I don't think it matters. If she does call you, then I'd tell her, "Maybe you can teach me how to act then." The challenge is issued, her ego (oh the irony) won't be able to resist, and then you can work your Mixx Magic, to put her on her back.

I think she'd be a great candidate for a cum smiley too, where you pull out and draw a nice smiley face on her stomach. Then obviously never return her calls