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What to say when she has a bf...
http://diaryofmycock.tumblr.com/post/3001448347

Check it. Disregard the title, it's no homo for the most part. nsfw.

Money line: the proper response to her saying she has a bf is "that's okay, he can watch."

I had to write this down somewhere just so I don't forget to use it one day myself BananaBananaBanana
08-13-2011 02:30 AM
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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
Couldn't get to watch the video.

Other responses:

The classic Mystery response "We've known each other for ten minutes and you're already telling me about your problems?"

"Well done" - plough on

"He's not my fucking boyfriend" - plough on

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08-13-2011 09:43 AM
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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
"It's okay I'm not the jealous type."

I don't remember whose line that is.

When a Polish girl tells you she has a boyfriend, your response should be "Okay goodbye." Don't waste another second talking to her!

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08-13-2011 03:14 PM
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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
^^

Polish girls are that loyal to their BFs Roosh? So bad it's pointless to game on? That's something I've never seen as the norm in women.

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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
That's fine. I have an ex gf I can introduce him to.

Does he like to watch?

That's not what I asked. I assume you already did.

Sometimes before I say any of the above, I recently started using Sasha's "real or imaginary" (which is the only real thing i liked about that video) if they mention the BF (never ask them if they have a bf) then lead to the above lines.

Edit: I like Roosh's response a lot Ill add it to my repertoire.
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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
(08-13-2011 03:26 PM)MiXX Wrote:  Polish girls are that loyal to their BFs Roosh? So bad it's pointless to game on?

Not all of them. But those who aren't won't tell you they have a BF. Same in Romania.
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08-13-2011 04:56 PM
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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
If she tells you she has a bf, she's loyal. Don't waste another second with her.

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08-13-2011 09:42 PM
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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
I don't waste time remembering those old, cutesy "boyfriend breaker" lines. For one, they tend to be corny and ineffective or, worse, unnecessarily smarmy and bitter ("congratulations!" or "good for you!"). And, secondly, it's entirely too much work trying to shake a girl from a boyfriend she's so obviously and intentionally declared to you. Even if she is amenable somewhere deep down, it's going to require the work it would take to meet 15 girls and fuck whatever percentage of those girls you ordinarily would fuck. I've had girls straight up admit they've cheated on their boyfriends before and still be a fucking headache trying to shake loose. Generally not worth it.

Instead, I've been trying to figure out new ways to leverage the boyfriend situation to my advantage. This was inspired completely by accident, when a girl recently:

1. Told me she had a boyfriend; but
2. Added, with a cool and friendly disposition, "but do you like any of my friends?"

That was an interesting and rare twist of events. I've been starting to think if you bundle the group together conceptually, and try to get one of the others ones, it's possible to have the BF girl help you in a group setting. Say, as a bad example (because I'm about to get picked up to go out), "Well, you guys seem pretty alright, that's why I was trying to hang with one of you." This could be especially effective if, like me, you usually work dolo at night and generally work a whole group before honing in on a target, periodically servicing the line to prevent cockblocks. A remark like that might nudge her to sell you to the other friend, which seems probable if she thinks you're cool, wants to hook up one of her friends (which girls like to do), and you haven't made a hard move on her yet (committing you), but instead just showed general friendliness and charm toward the group.

Or, if the girl is alone, say straight-up with a grin on your face: "that's nice that you have a boyfriend. Maybe you can help me meet a cool girl tonight. I'm not kidding." That will get her little trickster machinations going. Instant female wing for a night? It's possible.

I'm going to test this kind of stuff out and report back.

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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
(08-13-2011 09:55 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  I don't waste time remembering those old, cutesy "boyfriend breaker" lines. For one, they tend to be corny and ineffective or, worse, unnecessarily smarmy and bitter ("congratulations!" or "good for you!"). And, secondly, it's entirely too much work trying to shake a girl from a boyfriend she's so obviously and intentionally declared to you. Even if she is amenable somewhere deep down, it's going to require the work it would take to meet 15 girls and fuck whatever percentage of those girls you ordinarily would fuck. Not worth it.

There's a lot of sensibility in your game.

Most girls who volunteer their BF status are doing so because they either really have BF or they have no plans to make themselves available to.

Some women will be straight forward with it and let you know they have a dude, but you "can still be friends", which means she's open to just fuckin you on the side.

However, most will game on and not let you know they have a dude, if they are really that interested in you.

Most of these comebacks are lame as fuck, and my guess is Adam Dunn's batting average is higher than those who try to game past the "I have a BF" declaration.
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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
I like this one...

Her: I have a BF.
Me: I have a ping pong table. (the more random the object the better I've found)
Her: What?
Me: Oh, my bad. I thought we were talking about shit that didn't really matter.
08-13-2011 11:45 PM
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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
Did my comment get removed on this thread?

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08-14-2011 07:28 AM
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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
Only one?

You need at least three.
08-14-2011 08:18 AM
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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
While Pilate's response is a good zing, I think we should not suggest we are at all bitter or upset by her declaration. So if you're going for the zing then it should be said with a smile on your face.

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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
What to say after you have made out and her girlfriends come to grab her and take her away, because she has a boyfriend?


I thought it was a done deal, but the fact that her girlfriends know it happened might screw my game
08-14-2011 12:24 PM
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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
My dear Fellas,
I'm in a situation similar to this one right now and I need some experts opinion.
Let me start with:
I just met a Russian girl in my building super hot 9.5, we've been exchanging looks for days, anyway of course after I found my balls I went and approached her... she was friendly and so interested ( she kept asking question, she spoke more than 50-60% of the first 30 minutes conv. ), anyway so in the middle of our conversation she brings up the "boy friend" and she said it so smoothly and in between lines as if she thought I already knew about it !! Anyway, so she kept saying that he is a jerk who doesn’t treat her well and she wants to leave him but she have no idea how because they’ve been together for 3 years now (Shoot me)… so I invite her to come and drink in my apt and she told me that her sister came to visit her but she would love to come if she can bring her!! This kinda sucked because i knew I wouldn’t be able to bang her.
she claims she never cheat on her boyfriend.. But she's drinking with me in my apt in a Saturday night and left at 3 AM ( nothing sexual happened expect me touching her hips a couple of time).
Do you guys think it's worth it for me to invest my time on her? Or should i just let her go! She is a 9.5 for real Wink

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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
(08-14-2011 12:55 PM)AN87 Wrote:  Do you guys think it's worth it for me to invest my time on her? Or should i just let her go! She is a 9.5 for real Wink

I would not let her go without first going for a make-out...a few times . If you see she is just trying to get validation from you by feeling she is desired by you, and not giving up a tongue-kiss....blow-her off and move on.

Lots of women will do this. They will seek validation, attention from strange men, so that they can continue fucking their existing boyfriend who does not fulfill that need.

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Quote:Lots of women will do this. They will seek validation, attention from strange men, so that they can continue fucking their existing boyfriend who does not fulfill that need.

Mixx

Exactly!!
thanks for the advice!!

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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
I just texted that russian chick:
Me:hey, where are you?
her: I'm home going to my bf birthday lunch but my sister is staying home!.
Me( trying to see her an make out with her before she sees her boy friend): wanna come over a have a cig.
Her: I don't have any smokes left.
(she knows I don't either becasue I quite smoking 3 weeks ago..but i still bum a cig once or twice a week).


I can interpret this into a million thing..
ie:
1)is she hooking me up with her sister now?
2)lunch at 4 PM?? with the boy friend?? shouldn't she be sucking his cock now for his bday if he's a bf??
I don't get it.. please advice !!

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(08-14-2011 02:50 PM)AN87 Wrote:  2)lunch at 4 PM?? with the boy friend?? shouldn't she be sucking his cock now for his bday if he's a bf??

it's not that I want her to be sucking his cock haha!! i'm just wondering if you guys ever had an issue like this???

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(08-14-2011 02:50 PM)AN87 Wrote:  I just texted that russian chick:
Me:hey, where are you?
her: I'm home going to my bf birthday lunch but my sister is staying home!.
Me( trying to see her an make out with her before she sees her boy friend): wanna come over a have a cig.
Her: I don't have any smokes left.
(she knows I don't either becasue I quite smoking 3 weeks ago..but i still bum a cig once or twice a week).

If you were trying to get her over under the guise of smoking a grit, you should have had them on deck.
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(08-14-2011 02:50 PM)AN87 Wrote:  I don't get it.. please advice !!

I don't want to psych you out brah, but have you seen the boyfriend?

You might want to take it easy until you do. You could be texting some giant Siberian that knows where you live's girlfriend during his birthday blowjob.

If she's really a 9.5 she knows this.

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RE: What to say when she has a bf...
Just meet a real nice girl, what I would consider a strait 9. She´s on here way, 29 yr, has a nice sitting DD cup and a firm bottom. She not so tall, but a real charmer and sweet innocent face, But then she is tattoo up, with here ex husband name, now she has a BF, but I meet here last week. We talked, laughed, and had a general good time. Then she thought we should do some MDMA, and so we did. Snorting that stuff, getting a real fuzz, and suddenly we started kissing for a bit, until some cock blocking actors joined the scene.
Anyway got here number, with a nice message the next day. "hey gorgeous here is my number". I didnt replay hope just to her again. My friend is associated with here friend, so thats was the plan. Anyway she never showed, had to go out with here BF. So i started gaming new potential girl, and made a hook up, (7). Anyway wrote here the next day, " Dear Loa, enjoyed our last meetup. Now im chillin with my Cus heading to"posh habour village", Just got this new number. kiss Fresh..

She hasnt replied jet. Does my game suck, Or is it only easy to take them 7 girls home.

This 9, could be a 10, has a BF but I really want to spray here full of my own emptyness...

Sorry for my bad english.
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