Post: #1

So I was posted up by myself out front of a pretty good house party that was a mixture of high school and local college kids chilling with my 18 pack and having a cig.

This girl comes up and asks "do i know you" we exchange names,she buys a beer for 2 dollars, I get her number, and she chills with me for a minute. She keeps asking "what do you want me to give you for another beer?" I shrug off this question and give her a beer because she gave me 2 bucks for the first one. She then says I'll give you a hug and a kiss and we start making out. A minute later her friends are yelling at her that she has to leave so I make out with her, grab her ass, and pick her up and put her on the hood of the car then she dips.

Would it be smarter to leave it at that and see if I run into her at another party or should I hit her up to chill with me sometime?

Post: #2

Contact her and get her to hang out with you. If she declines, you might meet her again randomly anyway, but don't count on that.

Post: #3

This sounds mad young.

But basically the best chance for the bang was that initial pull. If they pulled her off of you, the play was to text her that night, and seeing if she wanted to come through.

So now you've run into the typical newb issue, where you think a makeout and a phone number means more than just a chance encounter.

Rather than think on a binary path, you need to go from black and white to grey. It's not A or B, it's both.

You got a raffle ticket as to whether this chick thinks the makeout means more than just a makeout. Shoot her a text to hang/come through. That's it.

WHEN you see her again, the inclination for new guys is
A) this chick is so in to me, so I'll just pick up where we left off. It's in the bag Bro!

No.

B) fuck that bitch, she's just playing games. I'm going to ignore her.

No.

You will see her again.

When she's with people, talk to her, and meet her people then roll out. Good seeing you again.

When she's solo, you reapproach,
*steal her frame*
Say stuff like she would say

"Hey that was crazy last week"
"Sorry for not getting back to you"
"So busy, life is crazy"
"I'm usually never like that, don't want you to get the wrong idea"

That takes away what chicks typically say when confronted with their lust.

After defusing the situation and giving her a reason to relax - you need to rebuild the vibe.

"Usually I'm not that dude, but I kinda felt this INSTANT connection..."

From there you reestablish the vibe.


Interested in how the day game guys would have handled this common night game scenario

WIA

Post: #4

Alright thanks west Indian Archie. I hit her up on snap chat and she never opened it so I'll leave it at that for now unless I run into her by chance somewhere. In which case thanks for the tips cause I would have never handled it like that to be real with you.

I knew that moment was the optimal time to capitalize on the situation but I had to get home by one so I didn't have time to stay out and party more. I could have asked her to uber with me to my crib though.

Next time I'll try that..it's generally gonna be far from where ever I'm at though and for sure a good distance away from most girls houses.

Post: #5

(10-10-2016 07:31 AM)SteezeySteve Wrote:  Alright thanks west Indian Archie. I hit her up on snap chat and she never opened it so I'll leave it at that for now unless I run into her by chance somewhere. In which case thanks for the tips cause I would have never handled it like that to be real with you.

I knew that moment was the optimal time to capitalize on the situation but I had to get home by one so I didn't have time to stay out and party more. I could have asked her to uber with me to my crib though.

Next time I'll try that..it's generally gonna be far from where ever I'm at though and for sure a good distance away from most girls houses.

No doubt. It's not a big deal. Sex isn't a big deal when everyone is cool about it.

In this scenario, the girl was very pro-active.
- She initiated
- She re-initiated with you.

But

- you gave her a beer instead of making her "pay" for it.

It still ended up in some fun, but your front end skills, your in the moment skills, as well as your back end skills all need an upgrade.

So some takeaways
- Girls find me attractive, so attractive that they'll initiate conversations with me
- Girls like a little mischief
- Don't be pressed, thirsty, anxious
- When she's in to you, find a way to make more time with her

My only concern was the age and alcohol thing. I would want that chick to sober up. You also missed an opportunity to run game/impress the friends. Chances are good that if she thought you were cute, some of her girlfriends might of as well. Social proof/pre-selection. Sounds like you're in a small town - so building a rep would be helpful. And also facilitate some "secret society" hook ups.

There's probably more here to tease out and think about.

WIA