Post: #1

In Colombia, from my apartment, I have been throwing out 15 to 20 percent of the girls that come over. Before it was 5 percent....but as you get older you just don't bother with any girl who gives you crap.
Brazil is a lower percentage. They play less games.
In Asia there are very few you throw out. In Eastern Europe it is in between Brazil and Colombia. What are your experiences?
I just find dating or needing 2 or 3 dates too much now. Very few women are worth it.
Total, I might have told 100 women in my life to leave my place at once.

Post: #2

I had a girl in Beijing who kept trying to get her hands on my passport. It had come out of my pocket when we undressing before sex. She wanted to see the passport ID page. It was playful to a degree, but I didn't like her attitude.

It was getting late and I needed to sleep and she wouldn't stop making attempts to grab the passport, so I tossed her out.

She sent me a message later: "No one has ever done that to me before."

Generally Asian girls are well behaved and I allow them to stay the night.

Post: #3

When traveling abroad solo, I usually find an excuse to get rid of the girl after sex. I don't want a random girl from the bar stealing my passport or my cash in a foreign country. I tried being honest and telling them that I prefer to sleep alone, but in my experience, the best way to get rid of them is to say "I need to write a report for work, and I have a videoconference with our office in (random city), maybe you can spend the night next time".

When I'm at my apartment in Montreal, I don't mind if they stay.

Post: #4

(09-16-2016 07:44 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  but as you get older you just don't bother with any girl who gives you crap.

I agree. When you're 18, you will climb Everest for some ass. But after a while, you figure out that it's not worth a bunch of horseshit and drama just to get laid by some squirrelly bitch that's gonna stalk you or try to get your pesos.

My last time in Colombia, I was in San Gil and this college Austrian girl shows up at the hostel that is fit and beautiful. We talk for a long time and I think it's about to go down between us. She's very interested and I definitely am.

And then she asks what I do for a living, and I tell her I work for the offshore oil industry. Well, lucky for me, she's some sort of engineer for green wind energy or some shit and suddenly thinks I'm the son of satan for working for those "capitalist pig oil bastards." That's what she actually said.

So, there's 8 or so travelers all around the pool, and they're all immediately interested in our conversation that has just turned to shit.

So I ask, "How did you get to South America, Princess? In a fucking rowboat? I think there was likely some petrol involved on your journey."

So, no. I didn't get laid and I hated that dumb bitch after that. And I was ok with it. I've discovered that my pride means more in my older years than some dumb bitch's tits.

Post: #5

Honestly, I've never thrown a girl out of my place.

What gets so irked that you throw them out?

Post: #6

(09-16-2016 08:31 PM)Suits Wrote:  I had a girl in Beijing who kept trying to get her hands on my passport. It had come out of my pocket when we undressing before sex. She wanted to see the passport ID page. It was playful to a degree, but I didn't like her attitude.

I also had one who was interested in looking at my passport, in a similar playful way. I made the mistake of letting her see where I put it, in a place I also had some cash:

(12-25-2015 03:12 AM)GlobalMan Wrote:  A girl took some cash out of my desk while I was showering, which I noticed was gone while she was showering after me, I looked in her purse and there it was right on top. I took my cash back, took her cash, threw her purse and clothes out in the hall way, grabbed her out of the shower and pushed her out the door. But that's just good times in Bangkok. Live and learn.

Post: #7

(09-16-2016 09:17 PM)BrewDog Wrote:  

(09-16-2016 07:44 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  but as you get older you just don't bother with any girl who gives you crap.

I agree. When you're 18, you will climb Everest for some ass. But after a while, you figure out that it's not worth a bunch of horseshit and drama just to get laid by some squirrelly bitch that's gonna stalk you or try to get your pesos.

My last time in Colombia, I was in San Gil and this college Austrian girl shows up at the hostel that is fit and beautiful. We talk for a long time and I think it's about to go down between us. She's very interested and I definitely am.

And then she asks what I do for a living, and I tell her I work for the offshore oil industry. Well, lucky for me, she's some sort of engineer for green wind energy or some shit and suddenly thinks I'm the son of satan for working for those "capitalist pig oil bastards." That's what she actually said.

So, there's 8 or so travelers all around the pool, and they're all immediately interested in our conversation that has just turned to shit.

So I ask, "How did you get to South America, Princess? In a fucking rowboat? I think there was likely some petrol involved on your journey."

So, no. I didn't get laid and I hated that dumb bitch after that. And I was ok with it. I've discovered that my pride means more in my older years than some dumb bitch's tits.

lmaooo great response

Post: #8

(09-16-2016 07:44 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  In Colombia, from my apartment, I have been throwing out 15 to 20 percent of the girls that come over. Before it was 5 percent....but as you get older you just don't bother with any girl who gives you crap.
Brazil is a lower percentage. They play less games.
In Asia there are very few you throw out. In Eastern Europe it is in between Brazil and Colombia. What are your experiences?
I just find dating or needing 2 or 3 dates too much now. Very few women are worth it.
Total, I might have told 100 women in my life to leave my place at once.

Which countries in particular have you been to where local girls require 2-3 dates to bed?

Post: #9

I was actually so mad yesterday I was gonna post something about some dumb bitch that wouldn't leave my condo! And here's a whole thread about it! Love RVF.

Nothing that major but had a girl stay over for first time - we woke late coz of pawing all night- was still a weekday so wanted to be left alone to work and go to gym.

I said, "OK, so I have to work today" . She said "OK. Where is 7/11? " across street. "Do I need card to get out?" No, just press ground. "I need cigarettes and snacks. Want anything?" Err.... no?? "Can I have card to get back in?" Hmm.... yeah...?

She gets cigs and snacks. Then sits there on sofa eating snacks. I start working on laptop. After 20 minutes of silently getting angry, I ask her "So what are you doing?" "Oh just writing some ideas down. Going to get my phone charger back from friends at 3:30 pm" (just around corner from where I live) I walk into bedroom to get away, punch wall a bit and come back in. "So! I really have to work today!" Bitch says, "So?" and just stares at me incredulously.

"So... I can't really work when you're here. I need to go to the gym too"

"So you want me to leave?" (Um yeah bitch!)

What makes these girls think that it's OK for them to just fucking hang around all day until it's time for them to go do their thing, completely fucking interrupting my day?? It happened before in Thailand but in the evening. Some girl just puts on TV and even after I'm telling her "yeah I have to work" she was just like "It's fine" Fuck that made me so mad! Don't tell me it's fucking fine! I'll decide what's fine or not!

Must be a cultural thing. And the fact both were 21 max. I guess at that age, life's more about socialising and "hanging out" rather than taking responsibility for work and life.

Post: #10

(09-17-2016 01:49 AM)Sandstorm Wrote:  I was actually so mad yesterday I was gonna post something about some dumb bitch that wouldn't leave my condo! And here's a whole thread about it! Love RVF.

Nothing that major but had a girl stay over for first time - we woke late coz of pawing all night- was still a weekday so wanted to be left alone to work and go to gym.

I said, "OK, so I have to work today" . She said "OK. Where is 7/11? " across street. "Do I need card to get out?" No, just press ground. "I need cigarettes and snacks. Want anything?" Err.... no?? "Can I have card to get back in?" Hmm.... yeah...?

She gets cigs and snacks. Then sits there on sofa eating snacks. I start working on laptop. After 20 minutes of silently getting angry, I ask her "So what are you doing?" "Oh just writing some ideas down. Going to get my phone charger back from friends at 3:30 pm" (just around corner from where I live) I walk into bedroom to get away, punch wall a bit and come back in. "So! I really have to work today!" Bitch says, "So?" and just stares at me incredulously.

"So... I can't really work when you're here. I need to go to the gym too"

"So you want me to leave?" (Um yeah bitch!)

What makes these girls think that it's OK for them to just fucking hang around all day until it's time for them to go do their thing, completely fucking interrupting my day?? It happened before in Thailand but in the evening. Some girl just puts on TV and even after I'm telling her "yeah I have to work" she was just like "It's fine" Fuck that made me so mad! Don't tell me it's fucking fine! I'll decide what's fine or not!

Must be a cultural thing. And the fact both were 21 max. I guess at that age, life's more about socialising and "hanging out" rather than taking responsibility for work and life.

From what you wrote, you never told her explicitly to leave. You were just dropping subtle hints, however I think she was trying to test the boundaries. Shoulda just told her to leave bruh.

Post: #11

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Post: #12

(09-17-2016 01:49 AM)Sandstorm Wrote:  I was actually so mad yesterday I was gonna post something about some dumb bitch that wouldn't leave my condo! And here's a whole thread about it! Love RVF.

Nothing that major but had a girl stay over for first time - we woke late coz of pawing all night- was still a weekday so wanted to be left alone to work and go to gym.

I said, "OK, so I have to work today" . She said "OK. Where is 7/11? " across street. "Do I need card to get out?" No, just press ground. "I need cigarettes and snacks. Want anything?" Err.... no?? "Can I have card to get back in?" Hmm.... yeah...?

She gets cigs and snacks. Then sits there on sofa eating snacks. I start working on laptop. After 20 minutes of silently getting angry, I ask her "So what are you doing?" "Oh just writing some ideas down. Going to get my phone charger back from friends at 3:30 pm" (just around corner from where I live) I walk into bedroom to get away, punch wall a bit and come back in. "So! I really have to work today!" Bitch says, "So?" and just stares at me incredulously.

"So... I can't really work when you're here. I need to go to the gym too"

"So you want me to leave?" (Um yeah bitch!)

What makes these girls think that it's OK for them to just fucking hang around all day until it's time for them to go do their thing, completely fucking interrupting my day?? It happened before in Thailand but in the evening. Some girl just puts on TV and even after I'm telling her "yeah I have to work" she was just like "It's fine" Fuck that made me so mad! Don't tell me it's fucking fine! I'll decide what's fine or not!

Must be a cultural thing. And the fact both were 21 max. I guess at that age, life's more about socialising and "hanging out" rather than taking responsibility for work and life.

Likely she just didn't get the hint. Girls do this. Do you blame her for wanting to spend time with you?

She probably didn't even realise you wanted her to leave.

I've had this before, and every time I've made it explicit, they get it and make a move. Goes like this:

Me: "OK, I need to work today"
Girl: "Ok" *doesn't move*
Me: "No I mean, I need to get work done alone today. I need to focus. But let's hang out again soon"
Girl:" Oh ok.... I will go home then"

If they're really clingy...

Girl: "It's ok, I will just stay and watch TV?"
Me: "Not today, sorry. Need to focus. But lets catch up again soon"

etc.

Can't expect them to read your mind, and can't blame them for wanting to be with you. Gotta communicate clearly.

Post: #13

Yeah I was expecting her to take the hint or say.... "should I leave?" In fact, I was just expecting her to leave lol!

Next time I'll implement a follow up like like RichieP said:

Me: "OK, I need to work today"
Girl: "Ok" *doesn't move*
Me: "No I mean, I need to get work done alone today. I need to focus. But let's hang out again soon"
Girl:" Oh ok.... I will go home then"

Post: #14

Had a date through Tinder. I met her outside, went to her place, we ended up in bed but she kept playing coy and pushing me off. I thought, ok, she's not that into me or maybe a crazy cockteaser, so forgot about her. Just cut off contact.

A couple of weeks later she texts me, we talk on the phone and she wants to come and drink at my place. OK. We drink some, it's late, she gets into bed with me. Same shit. I keep getting the LMR but it's persistent.

Finally I just kick her out at like 3am, say "don't get into bed with a guy unless you're going to fuck him."

Post: #15

The whole "I need to work" thing is way too vague and I would take it as "I'm gonna be busy with my computer, keep yourself busy". I'd got with something like "Lets hang out another day, I need to work now." because it's subtly telling them to leave and meet another day. "I have a meeting in 20 minutes and need to go".

@SP5: What is it with these girls that want to tease but not fuck? I wonder what goes into their heads,what do they want?

Post: #16

A better question, is how many woman have you let stay over.

For me, the answer has been two. I seldom let a woman stay over at my place when abroad, unless I want to spend more time with her. Usually, since my time is short in each country, I like to taste the local fruit more than once.

I let a Ukrainian woman stay over once because I actually enjoyed spending time with her, outside of sex, and she knew when to leave in the morning. She didn't hover. Another woman (Estonian), was allowed to stay at my place, but I actually slept in a different room. I just don't enjoy sleeping with women that I wouldn't date. A woman can be very attractive, but unless I want to date her, there aren't many uses outside of sex.

I usually invite them over, have some wine, have sex, let her stay for a little bit, then call her a cab. Simple, clean break.

Post: #17

(09-17-2016 11:24 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  @SP5: What is it with these girls that want to tease but not fuck? I wonder what goes into their heads,what do they want?

I don't know for sure why a woman would get undressed down to underwear and into bed with a man and then push you away over more than an hour.

Low libido plus need for attention? Extreme friend-zoning?

They want you to caveman it, use more muscle? Rape fantasy/fitness test? That's not worth it, for sure. It's how you can go to jail, even though where this happened (Middle East) there was about zero chance of that.