Post: #1

It all started when i met her in a party. She went there with her ex as her BF at that time was at home. We exchanged numbers and she showed obvious IOI and we went on a couple of dates while she was with her BF, she was sending me pictures and all that stuff. She dumped him to get involved with me. I acted the right way i got a BJ in the third date. Then we fucked, i was a virgin at that time(Personal choice), something i confessed her later and she had no problem with it i think. I was really into her she was a really cool person, she was a dentistry student. For the first time in my life I fell in love, I actually cared for her, nothing I did in my past relationships where i treated girls poorly and I can pull real hot girls. All went cool for months, she wrote me letters, baked me cookies and cooked for me serious dishes. Until one night we go clubbing and when we went back to my place she got mad because we were about to fuck when i only went down on her for a few secs because i was so drunk and horny that i only wanted to fuck her. Few days later i found out that she was texting her ex, because "I was the perfect guy, all she always dreamt in her life" but we didn't have "sex chemistry", cuz during foreplay i'd tell her, lets do it and shit i didn't know by that time that she didn't like. But i fucked her really great, i have a big package and I treated her really well. I dumped her and she went to my place begging to not leave her. I forgave her and give her a chance. I changed my sex game completely and I gave her the best sex of her life (She told her girlfriends that), it wasn't that i couldn't do it, it was that we didn't know our preferences and we needed to work on that with time. I treated her nice, went to the beach for spring break, had a great time, we even talked about leaving the country as we both graduate (In Venezuela everyone with a major is leaving because the political situation).

But then, she started again with her attitude sending selfies to her ex, and telling another ex to hang out. I crashed my car with a truck and I was having a stressful time, but she didn't support me with a few favors i asked her, she told she was busy and i only gave her problems, she was focused on her career. Then we went to a party and when we came to my place i was drunk and fought with her over stupid things like i was always after her and i told her she doesn't appreciate what i've done for her. Days after that she sent her ex a picture of her that was disrespectful to me.

Then she found out i was snooping trough her phone, and she dumped me. She went all slut for my sister's boyfriend's best bud. She contacted him on Instagram and told him to get her number and write her. She told him at a party to grab her ass while dancing. They're now dating after she was a slut with all his friends.

Also her dad stole a tire of my car.

I've called her easy whore and told her her dad is a thief, she now hates me.

But I'm really confused because I think that if that day i gave her a good oral sex that day she wouldn't start to look after her ex. I mean I really loved her. Or maybe she will be sloot all her life as she did the same thing to her ex.

Did she loved me? Did she played me? Was it my fault?

I have game, I dress well, I have my own place and car, I bought her cool stuff as she doesn't have money. She made me really insecure about all and I went clingy after the first issue, I didn't wanted to lose her. I mean, I wanted to waste a few years with her in a serious relationship to see where we were heading, growing up professionally. I don't have any family where i live and she was my only emotional support. We even introduced to each others families.

Her background consists of divorced parents, her mother chase American dudes online to fuck then while she goes to Texas. She has diabetes and her grandmother is BiPolar.

What are your thoughts? I can explain further many other things.
I lost what I most wanted in my life, i already have the material stuff, i was only looking for something you can't buy. We shared many things in common. And all her exes were losers.

The thing is, i won't be the same anymore. I won't look girls the same way.
Something inside changed forever. I had the red pill, I did all my moves smoothly. She slept with me on weekends only to fuck her how i wanted. But i won't love the same way anymore. I mean you can be aware of hypergamy but still look for a cool chick to love.

Oneitis I guess. I already moved on, looking for a hotter, cooler girl. But this was my first heartbreak. We lasted two years.

Please, just slap me.

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Post: #2

Shouldn't post RL pics of girls you know here. Check forum rules.

Post: #3

She gave you red flags, you couldn`t understand. You should have moved on at the beginning.

Conclusion: She was just a slut. Don`t overthink, Even If you give the best sex,money, attention. These girls want to ride the cock carousel.

Also, Don´t believe everything that her friends mentioned. There are tons of avaliable girls. Something similar happened to me, this will be one of the best life lessons you could receive.

Post: #4

(09-12-2016 12:12 PM)Drix Wrote:  She gave you red flags, you couldn`t understand. You should have moved on at the beginning.

Conclusion: She was just a slut. Don`t overthink, Even If you give the best sex,money, attention. These girls want to ride the cock carousel.

Also, Don´t believe everything that her friends mentioned. There are tons of avaliable girls. Something similar happened to me, this will be one of the best life lessons you could receive.

She wrote that to her friend in a text message. She told everyone that.

Post: #5

(09-12-2016 11:58 AM)ljdzdz Wrote:  Did she loved me? Did she played me? Was it my fault?

Probably not. Maybe. Somewhat, but not entirely.

You'll be OK.

Post: #6

(09-12-2016 02:43 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(09-12-2016 11:58 AM)ljdzdz Wrote:  Did she loved me? Did she played me? Was it my fault?

Probably not. Maybe. Somewhat, but not entirely.

You'll be OK.

OP, why are you asking us (anonymous strangers on the internet) if she loved you? In the end does it even matter if she did? We are here to give actionable advice. What matters now is what you have learned here. That's what's important. After you get fucked over, regardless of how it happened, the abuser is gone and all that's left is the pedestal on which that person once stood. And then there's you. If you can't accept that you've been fooled, you'll never learn the lesson you were taught. Start by smashing that pedestal.