Post: #1

The issue:

Banged a girl who lives in a city far away from mine last year, then saw her 2 times, last time was days before Christmas. Spoke last time on the phone on Christmas Day.
Thing is, that I had lied to her and told her that I was gonna move to her city (for work) only a month later and she begged me to hit her up when I had moved there. Seemed very into me.

I didn't hit her up again. But now I'm going to her city again for a couple of days and I guess there's a possibility I could have fun with her again if I play it well, but she might not have liked that I never contacted her when I said I was gonna do.
And now I've seen her with all these different sorts of guys on her Instagram, who look weak and, yeah, kinda "beta" and she shows these memes about "fuckboys" this and that. Seems like she's hanging out with some lame guy now who is liking all of her pictures, writes typical nice guy comments on all her posts and has even taken her to this kinda cheesy "sing-along".

So from her perspective she probably thinks that I've been in the same city as her for months and that I was just after sex.

Don't really know the best way to go about all this?
My idea just off the bat was that it would look something like this...

Say I text her:

Bruno: Hey Miranda..?
Girl: Yes? / who is this?
Bruno: Hi, Bruno here. Long time no see. Hows it going Miranda?
Girl: Ok? not much
Bruno: What are u doing in the weekend? i'll be going to *name of posh club*. would be cool to chat again

And then "do my thing" at the club so to say. But I guess she's gonna be wondering lots why I suddenly just hit her up and everything. And I will have to explain quite few things and make up excuses. And I don't know how many days in advance I should contact her before I see at some club or get her out on a drink or whatever. And I suppose she wouldn't answer if I called her straight away (seems like a common thing nowadays).

Would appreciate some help, thanks.

Post: #2

Play it like nothing happened and that you'd been living there for a while. Odds are it's a dud as it's been too long.

Post: #3

I had same thing happen to me. Deflect all the q's she has about the past, for example if you didn't want to hear about me you would've hanged up by now. Play along and don't explain yourself, it'll get her wheel spinning, just make it a fun night, and at the end she"ll open up like an oyster. Go get em kid