Post: #26

I want to date an honest woman, and also want to be honest to her. I'm not ashamed of my age. I state it exactly like it is and without apology or qualification. If you don't make a big deal out of it, she won't make a big deal out of it. Any girl that discriminates against you because of your real age isn't worth a relationship in my book.

Post: #27

If you prefer being honest, be honest, but yes, this may make you lose out on some opportunities.

If you prefer to lie, lie.

You think she's never lied and will never lie to you about anything?

Get real.

Do what you want to do, make no excuses, and have no shame about it.

It's a cold war out there, man.

Post: #28

I am a recently turned 30 year old. I certainly have had times where my age comes up with young women and detracts from my value. Certainly, every year I have gotten better and better and am higher "value", though the social stigma of dating someone not in their 20s is real. Of course, some chicks will be totally cool with it, but some will not. I am still dating girls in the 18-20 year old age range regularly, but stating that it does not provide any limitations is a false statement. Stating, however, that your age prevents you from getting 18-20 year olds is also a false statement. If you want to better your chances with MOST girls in the 18-20 year old range, I feel that saying you are in your 20s will improve your chances. Being in your 30s certainly does not eliminate those chances, however.

Post: #29

(12-06-2016 12:36 PM)DRE Wrote:  I am a recently turned 30 year old. I certainly have had times where my age comes up with young women and detracts from my value. Certainly, every year I have gotten better and better and am higher "value", though the social stigma of dating someone not in their 20s is real. Of course, some chicks will be totally cool with it, but some will not. I am still dating girls in the 18-20 year old age range regularly, but stating that it does not provide any limitations is a false statement. Stating, however, that your age prevents you from getting 18-20 year olds is also a false statement. If you want to better your chances with MOST girls in the 18-20 year old range, I feel that saying you are in your 20s will improve your chances. Being in your 30s certainly does not eliminate those chances, however.

This is largely due to where you are geographically too. In America, there's a stigma about large age range differences. In France, many parts of Asia, etc, women value and respect a gentleman who treats them well who is older than them. The culture radically changes a girl's outlook as to if an older man is "approved" or not for dating.

Post: #30

There's a few different tactics you could take with a girl inquiring about your age:

. Lie

This is self-explanatory, but basically if you don't see any sort of future beyond a ONS, no sense in really going into too many personal details anyway.

. Make 'em guess

You should do this anyway, it's more fun to make a girl work for an answer than to be boring and give them straight answers to all questions like a fucking job interview.

If she guesses you're younger than you are, it's a sign she's either "being nice" or will be more forgiving of your being older since you don't look your age.

If she guesses you're older than you are, it's not ideal but don't let it rattle you. Maintain frame, and pivot to put pressure on her.

If she guesses your exact age, you can make some remark about how she should work at a carnival with such skills. You can sexualize the conversation by saying something along the line of, "Hmm, I wonder what other hidden talents you have..."

. Exaggerate/"Agree & Amplify"

As mentioned above, it's always better if you make a girl work for an answer rather than come right out with the truth. If you're self-conscious about your age, you can jokingly give an answer that's way older than you are.

Quote:You: How old are you?

Her: I'm 23. How old are you?

You: How old am I?

Her: Yeah.

You: You wouldn't believe me if I told you.

Her: Come on, tell me!

You: (with a sly smile) I'm 87 years old.

Her: Shut up!

You: Don't I look great for my age?

Her: Amazing.

You: Yeah, I think it's from avoiding sunlight, well that and all the 23 year old blood I feed on.

Her: I'm glad I'm not the only one who likes to bite (blah, blah, blah)

It sounds stupid, but this type of corny banter works. As long as you don't make a big deal out of your age, for the most part neither should she.

Post: #31

Don't.
they will always ask if they want to know.

"when did you graduate" is the most low key form that they will do it.
"how long have you lived here" is another good one girls will use.

Post: #32

Lie for the first month but make sure you bang her good, then reveal and hope she wants to keep going cause of your sex game. Worked for me

Post: #33

(12-09-2016 02:52 AM)LeoneVolpe Wrote:  There's a few different tactics you could take with a girl inquiring about your age:

. Lie

This is self-explanatory, but basically if you don't see any sort of future beyond a ONS, no sense in really going into too many personal details anyway.

. Make 'em guess

You should do this anyway, it's more fun to make a girl work for an answer than to be boring and give them straight answers to all questions like a fucking job interview.

If she guesses you're younger than you are, it's a sign she's either "being nice" or will be more forgiving of your being older since you don't look your age.

If she guesses you're older than you are, it's not ideal but don't let it rattle you. Maintain frame, and pivot to put pressure on her.

If she guesses your exact age, you can make some remark about how she should work at a carnival with such skills. You can sexualize the conversation by saying something along the line of, "Hmm, I wonder what other hidden talents you have..."

. Exaggerate/"Agree & Amplify"

As mentioned above, it's always better if you make a girl work for an answer rather than come right out with the truth. If you're self-conscious about your age, you can jokingly give an answer that's way older than you are.

Quote:You: How old are you?

Her: I'm 23. How old are you?

You: How old am I?

Her: Yeah.

You: You wouldn't believe me if I told you.

Her: Come on, tell me!

You: (with a sly smile) I'm 87 years old.

Her: Shut up!

You: Don't I look great for my age?

Her: Amazing.

You: Yeah, I think it's from avoiding sunlight, well that and all the 23 year old blood I feed on.

Her: I'm glad I'm not the only one who likes to bite (blah, blah, blah)

It sounds stupid, but this type of corny banter works. As long as you don't make a big deal out of your age, for the most part neither should she.

Gonna have a go with exaggerating as I've always defaulted to making them play guessing games



while leaving lying as a last resort.

(08-04-2016 01:17 PM)godzilla Wrote:  Yea in your late 20's you have nothing to worry about. Girls like older men btw, but her friends might whisper the "creep" word once you reach 30.

I usually just tell them the truth sometime after we fuck.

I just go, "oh yea im sorry i lied, Im 32."

They usually think for a sec and then realize they like it.

Doing my occasional odd street approaches as my tits-seeking missile in my pants needs hot targets and I'm starting to get asked about my age again so I'm gonna have to be even more creative.





Without going into too much detail this is even while retaining my 18 year old appearance.