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RE: Has Learning Chinese been beneficial at all (I mean, to the levels you expected)?
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RE: Has Learning Chinese been beneficial at all (I mean, to the levels you expected)?
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RE: Has Learning Chinese been beneficial at all (I mean, to the levels you expected)?
^ I am exaggerating.
But let me put it to you this way. I had a coworker who lived in Beijing for 10 years and never went beyond teaching english for someone else. He never started his own business or anything. He capped out in that company at like 15k RMB. He could speak good chinese and was pretty fucking bright.
That is why I am so adamant about hard skills.
Coming to China and speaking Chinese and expect a job because you speak Chinese is like going to America and expecting a company to employ you just because you can speak the language. It isn't a good strategy and you will suffer in the long term.
That said, learn Chinese. It's super fucking useful. You will bang SO many more chicks based on your language skills. All the best players in China speak solid Chinese. Also, many foreigners love to employ bilingual westerners over bilingual Chinese because of shared culture, so it will help you to speak Chinese.
I'd LOVE to have a business here where my team was full of perfectly bilingual foreigners. There would be so much less silly bullshit you'd deal with.
My verdict:
Learn Chinese to make your life in china easier, don't just learn Chinese because you think you'll magically be able to work for a company because you speak Chinese.
Much of this conclusion is based off the observations of some friends who have been in china for 10+ years, so I'm not just pulling this out of my ass.
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RE: Has Learning Chinese been beneficial at all (I mean, to the levels you expected)?
NYC Chinatown is full of Cantonese speakers. Some Mandarin speakers around, but not like the amount inside the non-cantonese restaurants that are scattered around.
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| 07-13-2016 09:51 AM |
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RE: Has Learning Chinese been beneficial at all (I mean, to the levels you expected)?
(07-13-2016 08:10 AM)Mr.GoodThread Wrote: Thanks for the info. fellas. I think the answer that I was looking for was somewhat touched upon in the 2nd to 3rd reply. If you are a Beta male, weak, and a loser in your own home country, then learning Chinese will only make you a good Chinese speaker. It will not make you a lady slaying pimp. A person needs those "hard skills" first.
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No one said you need to have hard skills to fuck chicks. Remember, china is a conservative country that doesn't have a huge player scene, so beta nerds CAN (and do) do well here. I know a few fat white guys who would not get laid back home who have more dates than they have time for coming their way.
This segues into a larger point. You don't (and shouldn't) bring too many western game principles to the game here or you'll end up with your dick in your hand. You don't need to be very alpha to get laid here. In fact, being too alpha might make you seem like a player and the chick will bounce.
There are a bunch of beta english teachers who have 0 hard skills but slay chinese girls. Honestly, banging chinese girls isn't that fucking hard.
Approach (or use online) and grind it out. You'll have a harem of 2-3 girls in a month if you grind it out.
The discussion of hard skills pertains to money in china. If you wanna make serious bank you better start your english business or come here with skills that the locals don't have.
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RE: Has Learning Chinese been beneficial at all (I mean, to the levels you expected)?
(07-13-2016 10:27 AM)Rang off the Pipe Wrote: He never specified which part of the city, but Kai is absolutely right there. Flushing is the the place to find the most diversity when it comes to the many regions of China. However, there are many Mandarin speakers (Mainland China or otherwise) who come to the city for classes and/or work. It's just a matter of getting into the right social circles (typically networking events and language groups), to run into these people. Believe me, there are many.
Yeah people have to realize that almost every Chinatown in America was started by Hong Kong and South Chinese people that speak Cantonese. Someone knowledgeable can even tell based upon the food menu and the taste of the food. Some Cantonese people even sound funny when speaking Mandarin, or just as awkward as you might be.
Mandarin is business Chinese. Period. Cantonese and the many dialects are closer to original Chinese language. Cantonese has 5 or so tones, unlike Mandarin. The writing/hanzi is the same though.
Some Chinatowns have areas with Taiwanese or recent Mainlanders but they tend to be smaller enclaves or sections. In Houston, the Vietnamese Town is mixed with HK/South Chinese joints. Their languages are not too far off and they like alot of the same things. Only a more recent built section of Chinatown is full of Taiwanese and Mainland Chinese stores and places. The old NYC Chinatown area is like mentioned above as well.
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RE: Has Learning Chinese been beneficial at all (I mean, to the levels you expected)?
Yep. Language skills = being able to talk to people around you. Business skills = able to create and capture value.
the following plan:
1. Learn Chinese
2. ???
3. Profit
Does not tend to yield consistent ROI
Combine it with something valuable that will actually result in people paying you money.
(This post was last modified: 07-14-2016 11:05 AM by RichieP.)
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