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Any Other Vegabounds Out There with No Home?
I'll be making my final transition by December, meaning I will no longer have an apartment in the states, nor will I own any personal belongings, or have physical place to call my home. I will be traveling country to country, living out of a suitcase, for probably the future duration of my life. I've done the whole family thing, big home, fancy stuff, barbecues, and it's not a life that makes me happy. Quite the opposite.
I'm looking for others guys out who are also vagabonds, who are in the same situation as me. Meaning, they do not live in one place, but are rather nomadic and go country to country when their 30/60/90 day visa visa expires, but never return to the States/Canada/UK. I'm not talking about location independence guys living in one place like Manila, Bogota, Warsaw, leasing an apartment. I'm talking about guys who go to x country and when they are bored, go to another country without much planning at all.
So far I have met and know of these members:
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I don't have the luxury of living with any of my family members when times get rough, like many guys I've met in the past, so I'm also looking for guys who are in the same position, who have been grinding it out year after year with no other place to go. It would be good to connect on whatsapp and talk about a few things and bounce some locations and ideas off of you. Especially on what countries you go to when money gets tight and how you handle mileage points, loyalty programs, etc.
Again, I'm not looking for guys who live in a foreign country; I'm looking for lone-wolf wanderers who don't live anywhere.
Anybody else out there from this forum? Let's talk.
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RE: Any Other Vegabounds Out There with No Home?
(07-06-2016 09:48 PM)Schlep Wrote: @ Linux
I'll be making the jump myself in late October. Sold everything I own and donated the rest to charity. Plan on spending the rest of my life living out of a suitcase and bouncing around to different countries. Learning new languages and new cultures, meeting cool guys and make friends. And, of coarse the woman. I'm in my early fourties. Have had the big house, new car, marriage and everything that goes with it. That life is no longer for me.
The last six months I've done nothing but prepare for my new life. Almost to the point of being obsessed with this.
I'll be taking a three week vacation in September to recharge my batteries and party.
Wish you the best of luck on your journey my friend.
That's fucking awesome man. We should really try to meet up later this year so I can hear your story. I'm in the same boat. Last step is going to be selling my car, or maybe I'll just put it in reverse and let it go off a bridge. Not sure yet.
Tonight I had dinner with a friend in his early 80's. He owns about 12 different homes, so I'm sure he has about 7 million net worth. I asked him what kept him from cashing in all his chips, retiring, and traveling, instead of living in a city he hates around people he hates. And he told me, "I guess I didn't realize I was getting old."
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RE: Any Other Vegabounds Out There with No Home?
(07-06-2016 05:33 PM)LINUX Wrote: ll
I don't have the luxury of living with any of my family members when times get rough, like many guys I've met in the past, so I'm also looking for guys who are in the same position, who have been grinding it out year after year with no other place to go. It would be good to connect on whatsapp and talk about a few things and bounce some locations and ideas off of you. Especially on what countries you go to when money gets tight and how you handle mileage points, loyalty programs, etc.
Again, I'm not looking for guys who live in a foreign country; I'm looking for lone-wolf wanderers who don't live anywhere.
Anybody else out there from this forum? Let's talk.
Although I do have family to fall back on if a worst case scenario comes to pass, I don't have a permanent home anymore. It feels weird to not have a home or any possessions. So I would probably find value in what I learn from you guys in terms of mileage points, rewards programs, and what to do when money gets tight.
But, honestly, I can imagine unpacking and repacking every 30-60-90 days can be a pain in the ass, plus getting an apartment lease longer than 3 months can potentlally save you tons of money as opposed to airbnb for shorter periods of time. Of course I haven't actually put the rubber on the road yet, so this is mostly conjecture -- but I'll share my experience as I go along -- the good, the bad, and the ugly.
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RE: Any Other Vegabounds Out There with No Home?
(07-06-2016 10:52 PM)CleanSlate Wrote: Although I do have family to fall back on if a worst case scenario comes to pass, I don't have a permanent home anymore. It feels weird to not have a home or any possessions. So I would probably find value in what I learn from you guys in terms of mileage points, rewards programs, and what to do when money gets tight.
But, honestly, I can imagine unpacking and repacking every 30-60-90 days can be a pain in the ass, plus getting an apartment lease longer than 3 months can potentlally save you tons of money as opposed to airbnb for shorter periods of time. Of course I haven't actually put the rubber on the road yet, so this is mostly conjecture -- but I'll share my experience as I go along -- the good, the bad, and the ugly.
One thing I do now, is always make friends with the landlords in the places you visit and rent the apartments off the books. I do that Colombia and I met a guy in Bali that agreed to it also, usually you can get the place for 1/3 of the Airbnb price, especially if you send other guys his way and give him some business now and again and he sees that you're not going to trash the place and disturb the neighbors. I'm not too worried about packing and unpacking since I will only have a suitcase. I practically take nothing on my travels now except a suit, gym clothes, some cigars, and Viagra.
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RE: Any Other Vegabounds Out There with No Home?
Me reading this thread:
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RE: Any Other Vegabounds Out There with No Home?
I'm not as far along as you are, but getting closer. I work OCONUS as a contractor for 2-3 months at a time then travel for 2-3 months until the next work rotation. I have no apartment, just a small secure storage unit and pickup truck to transport my range equipment when I want to go shooting (I have to maintain firearms proficiency for work). I have a few generous friends in the US who let me stay at their place for a few days here and there. So far my pattern has been:
-come home from work rotation
-spend 3-5 days refitting/catching up on admin stuff like taxes, vehicle registration, medical appointments, shooting practice, etc.
-take off to another country with a very loose plan and a network of contacts for 2-3 months
-arrive home 3-5 days before the next rotation to prep/pack, shoot some more
I have very little in the way of possessions. Several firearms, a shitload of ammunition, steel and cardboard targetry. Tactical gear. Skis (which I'm going to sell), skydiving equipment and BASE jumping equipment. No furniture. All my clothes will fit in a medium-sized rolling duffle bag.
All my travel is centered around skydiving and BASE jumping activities. Primarily in Europe, but I've been to South America and Asia as well. I'm in the process of adjusting my work schedule so I will work less and have April-September off of each year. I don't factor pussy into my travel decision making process as much as I used to.
I've flirted with the idea of getting a small room in a shared house in the US just to keep my stuff and have a place to crash, but I've tried that in the past but it's a money sink and is too tempting just to stay on the couch and drink beer.
I sometimes get a bit melancholy before leaving to travel solo, but man as soon as I enter the airport my mood improves, there is a spring in my step, I start talking to strangers, and I get excited about what adventures may be ahead! For me, there is nothing like an airport to open your mind to the possibilities that the world holds.
To be completely honest, sometimes I do question my lifestyle and get a bit depressed when I compare myself to the people with whom I went to university, my brothers, and childhood friends, all of whom are doing the house/wife/kids thing. For me, the social programming has been very hard to shrug off but I still manage to drive on. I've been feeling the pressure from friends and family more and more as I approach 40.
I'm lucky that the BASE jumping community is out of the ordinary to begin with and many of my fellow jumpers deal with the same thoughts.
I will be in jumping in Europe from September 11-November 1 this year (probably Italy, Switzerland, and who knows where else). If anyone wants to hang out and chat over beers, hit me up. It really helps me to talk with other like-minded people about this; it motivates me to to continue to take action and realize that it's ok to do your own thing in the little time we have on this big blue ball.
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RE: Any Other Vegabounds Out There with No Home?
I guess I've been living the vagabond lifestyle since November 1, 2013. My rent on the beach in South Beach was getting out of control with the economy coming back after the recession, and even though I liked my lifestyle I asked myself "Why should I keep living in one place when I can use Airbnb and live anywhere in the world for less than what I'm paying now?" I sold all my furniture on Craigslist, threw away a ton of shit I didn't care about anymore, and moved the few remaining things I valued into a small storage unit that I pay ~$40/month for in South Beach. Been living out of a single suitcase since that day.
My situation is definitely somewhat unique though, as I have a serious job in the US, so I go back and forth to my office every couple months. This is how I constantly fund the lifestyle. So I'll book like 2 months in SE Asia or Latin America, then fly back to NY to work in my office for a week or so, then fly off to somewhere else after that.
It would be so fucking weird to not do this anymore and to go back to a normal life again. So I guess just be warned that it'll mentally be hard to go back once you've become accustomed to this lifestyle.
Edit: Oh and credit cards/churning/mileage programs are definitely your friend with this lifestyle where pretty much everything can be put on a credit card earning miles. I pay for very few flights these days and mostly use miles to bounce around wherever I want with a lot more flexibility than paid flights.
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RE: Any Other Vegabounds Out There with No Home?
I work in the maritime industry, so it's rather easy for me to do this lifestyle, although I'm not sure many realize what opportunity they have as most of them just go home during their time off.
I'm required to work at a minimum 3 months per year, this is the only time I return to the States as I can pretty easily support myself the rest of the year off the money I make in this time. "Returning" to the states is actually just returning for a week or so, as the job itself is usually somewhere overseas although I don't consider this traveling as the majority of the time is spent working or sleeping.
No home though, I'm either sleeping on ship while at work or hostels, airbnb, etc. Kind of starting to want to settle down again and get an actual place, an actual relationship, a normal life - but then I read something like this and it reminds me, fuck that life.
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RE: Any Other Vegabounds Out There with No Home?
(07-07-2016 01:13 PM)Jnx Wrote: I work in the maritime industry, so it's rather easy for me to do this lifestyle, although I'm not sure many realize what opportunity they have as most of them just go home during their time off.
I'm required to work at a minimum 3 months per year, this is the only time I return to the States as I can pretty easily support myself the rest of the year off the money I make in this time. "Returning" to the states is actually just returning for a week or so, as the job itself is usually somewhere overseas although I don't consider this traveling as the majority of the time is spent working or sleeping.
No home though, I'm either sleeping on ship while at work or hostels, airbnb, etc. Kind of starting to want to settle down again and get an actual place, an actual relationship, a normal life - but then I read something like this and it reminds me, fuck that life.
Can you drop a datasheet on how you got into this? This seems like a very interesting lifestyle.
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RE: Any Other Vegabounds Out There with No Home?
(07-07-2016 01:08 PM)Dr. Howard Wrote: It would be interesting to keep/operate a business that is like a safehouse for US nomads. Not like an apartment type of thing but more like a self storage/mailing address/return to base station in America. When nomads returned for a few days (don't make it more than 30 for taxes) they would be able to pick up the US bound stuff they couldn't take with them, collect mail and papers before "re-deploying" themselves out of the country again. Essentially keeping your US presence on life support until you need it.
The UPS Store mailbox does most of this for me. I've cultivated a relationship with the guys that work there (ski passes here and there, telling them to drop my name at a few bars for a free round or two) and they go the extra mile for me. Hold my packages a bit longer, will keep and eye out for and forward specific bits of mail that I need right away, sign for stuff for me, etc.
Plus the way that the UPS store mailbox address is formatted makes it looks like a residential/apartment address and doesn't give me any problems when I need to list a "physical" address.
The only thing that would make it easier is if I could do vehicle registration/emissions renewal online.
There are a few websites geared for retired people who live in RVs and travel full time. These services scan all your pieces of mail, forward mail, and take care of vehicle registration for you. This varies state by state, one that comes to mind is escapees.com, which is out of Texas.
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