(03-27-2017 09:09 PM)CleanSlate Wrote: FYI -- my masculinexpat twitter account has been locked for whatever reason and I am trying to unlock it with a new phone verification (can't use my old Thai phone number). Twitter twats have been trigger happy with security shit these days...
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Will let you know once I unlock my twitter. Hopefully soon.
(03-27-2017 11:44 AM)TravelerKai Wrote: I wonder why Thailand refused to give you another visa though. Seems strange. I read recently that the big dip in Chinese tourists have them concerned and they did not make much tourism money this past season.
I have no idea. It could have been any reason.
I have my suspicions that they checked my onward ticket and saw that it was a rented ticket from flyonward.com, that it had expired after a 24-48 hour period and decided not to issue a new visa.
Or it was all about money -- they announced last December they would issue single entry tourist visas for free between then and the end of February. But since they were losing money, this embassy might have decided to just not issue visas for free anymore.
Some of the BKK veterans seem to think it was just someone being in a bad mood or power tripping. But I'm not convinced it was only that.
(03-27-2017 11:46 AM)stpete Wrote: Great post. When you refer to a different sense of humor. That might work for some and not for others. What do you mean?
Is it sarcasm? Playful banter? Witty banter? And they get offended?
I'm not sure how to explain it. There are a lot of nuances that get lost in translation. But for example, when they ask me if I'm seeing other Thai girls, and I jokingly agree and amplify, they get upset and leave (or block me online). It's like they want me to say "no I'm absolutely not seeing anyone else, I'm 100% single and lonely and you're the only girl for me" in a dead serious tone 
Filipinas would playfully hit me and say "you're such a player" and Indos would giggle and say "well then I'll come see you every day so you won't have time for other girls" 
There are always exceptions. Probably just got a wounded up batch of Thais or I just happened to be on a bad run. I did meet a few Thais with better English who actually "gets" me. They tend to be older than 25 though.
Gentlemen, this is what we call "Overgaming in Asia."
Let's establish some key facts first:
1. Asian women are competitive and prone to being jealous as well. (AWALT) but the difference is in HOW they express the competitiveness.
2. All Asian women for the most part get very jealous. Thai women are notoriously jealous, more so than outright competitive. The differences are in HOW they express the jealously.
Agree Amplify, Negs, Sarcasm, Dark Humor (Dusty, Cr33pin, or Leonard D humor), Dread Game, Caveman, and Asshole Game techniques do not work on "un-molded" Asian women. You cannot initially use Advanced Western Style game on Asian women in Asia.
The only exceptions to this rule are as follows:
Post-University working professionals that work with foreigners and speak great English. (eg. lawyers, doctors, finance, corporate business managers, etc.) Of course they tend to be 25+, have money, and you are far from the first foreigner using Western jokes on them. They understand literary devices, and can mentally put together your attempts at sarcasm because they can think/dream to themselves in English.
For younger women with much less exposure, experience, and English knowledge, you must keep it simple. If you want to have a deep discourse on political discussions, talk to your RVF buddies. When with the girls, we are talking about:
Food
Simple Culture stuff
Their native language (shit can go on forever, but take breaks and make them help you with flash cards and sentences)
Weather
Clothes
Hair
Skin care
Vacation places
Flowers and Nature(animals)
Friends
Family (not drama, but who is their brother, cousin, grandfather, where they live, blah blah blah)
School
Directions on how to travel or walk/bus/taxi somewhere (Logistics basically)
Rent prices
Prices of various goods
Their neighbors
Their old classmates
Dogs, cats, chickens, ducks, etc. (If they are from the country)
Motorbikes or cars
Weddings of family members and friends (don't bring up on a chick you would not LTR)
When it is time to escalate physically, segue from clothes, hair, and skin and compliment them first.
If you are past the fucking stage, continue to pull from these topics. When done rinse and repeat. No Asian woman will ever tell you the exact same thing verbatim on any subject. There is always something else. Even if there wasn't, who gives a good flip. I would personally know the answer to many of those questions before asking them. Let them talk until they are tired. The objective is to keep them busy being and dealing with you. This makes them feel closer to you.
The strategy is to just spend time with them and build trust, rapport, and relationship. If you are a good listener it will work. Doing this in the West is 100% Friendzone bait, but not here.
Obviously, you need to be able to read women initially and figure out if she is a hardened slut or not. If she is, do not do much of this. Again, that should be obvious. Out of control female hypergamy is why those advanced game techniques are needed in the West. It's not always needed in the East, because these societies are still male dominated.
This sounds simple as fuck, but almost every Westerner fucks this shit up when they start gaming in Asia (myself included). You have to detox your mind and run a game more suited and traditional wise, mixed with their local culture.
Moving on...
Back to Thai chicks and their jealously. While all Asian women are like that, they express it in different ways.
For example, you gave an example of how Pinays are when talking about previous girls. They are known for their curiosity regarding this and get super jealous and competitive. Chinese on the other hand don't want to know about your past girls for the most part and is considered poor manners in their culture to ask. That said, some super jealous types will still ask because they want to know how much pressure they need to apply to you to force you into a more dedicated or serious relationship with them. In some cases, letting both Pinays and Chinese know you have other girlfriends, is advanced preselection game.
Does this work with Thai women? Not really. Plenty will wave you off if that is the case and they are not too worried about it. Some of this is Sexual Marketplace driven but some of this is also cultural. They have alot of foreigners to choose from compared to other Asians and they are used to being around them. I can cause a car accident in some places in China. Could I cause a car wreck due to curious Thai people rubbernecking trying to look at me? No. Thais can flip back and forth between outsiders and being committed to Thai guys. Other Asians may not be willing to do that and develop a fetish or preference for outsiders.
Instead of Agree/Amplify, just deflect. Save your face. If they ask a stupid question, change the subject. If they press you hard, ask them to give you some face or ask them why are they trying to make you lose face. It spins their hamsters out of orbit when you use Alpha Asian man game on them.
If you get a smartass, that says, "What do you know about face?" Tell them, that you know they are being rude and not giving you any. If that leads to a fight, say good night or separate for a bit. I promise you she will come back to you. If not, NEXT! That would mean she is a Tiger looking for easy prey and thought you were a sucker. That kind of bitch can keep steppin. You don't need a bitch that would demand you get on your knees and apologize. She needs to go find a beta bitch male.
This is another reason why dominating women, breaking them in, biting them, speaking as if they belong to you, and blowing their brains out with sex, has value. Every minute apart will drive them nuts, but this is a subject for another topic.
Don't be so eager to demonstrate value to any Asian woman (Money, status, social value, etc). To some degree, you need to match intensity. If she is super excited about you, there is no need to show off. If she is hardly interested in you, you could throw her a bone as a last ditch effort to see if that grabs her attention, but do it knowing it could cause her to next you or you to next her.
Understand that if she is talking to you, she saw something she liked. Reel her in like a lake fish, not a shark in the ocean.
Thai people in general are less crass than Chinese, Korean, or Filipino etc people. They love people that are humble, like Japanese people are. Preselection bragging is not exactly being humble. Use their cultural quirks against them. They love all that smiling and whatnot. Use that against them. When you can take things they give you and work it to your advantage, that's how you know you are winning.
Now. For LTRs or girls you like ALOT. (All this is post-regular-banging). You can slowly introduce them into your ways. Humor, language use, value system, etc. Don't add degeneracy and hedonistic stuff if you know that is against their value system. (like certain Asians will never do anal sex)
You will be able to enjoy their company in a different way if you get to that stage, but until you build strong bond, there is no point in trying to indoctrinate a stubborn/skeptical 20 year old into anything. They are looking for you to train them into something initially. They want a regular bond first.
I hope this makes sense.
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