Post: #1

Just like the heading.

Recently started to see this woman who hasn't got the tits I'm the most pleased with, but gladely she seems to have noticed that herself - that they are not the best at the present moment.
Everything else with her body is great though and nothing to complain about.

So yesterday we went out and had a drink when she revelead to me that she had been to this clinic to take measurements and all those things and soon she might get the boob job done. Said it was gonna cost quite a bit and that.

Then she asked me about my opinion and looked really insecure. I would like her to get the job done but same time I don't know if I wanna come off as too superficial about it.
I ended up saying that I'm just interested in her ass anyway and we laughed it away.

I will see her again tomorrow or on Monday and I suppose she'll bring this up again.

So, how would you guys recommond that I handle a question like that?

Cheers!

Post: #2

Say you like her as she is, but you know that lots of women think about doing plastic surgery, and the ones you know who did it were happy with the results. Tell her you'll support her either way.

There's no way this answer can fail. If she finds a way to take it wrong, next her for being a bitch. Otherwise, you're telling her she's fine either way, and you support her either way. Even if she's only the flavor of the week, this is the way to approach it with her. With an answer like this, she'll probably do it if she can afford it. She wants to feel like she's OK if she doesn't do it, but she will be even better if she does.

Source: been there, done that

Post: #3

She's insecure. It's probably something she's been self-conscious about for at least 8-15 years. How much her self image is tied to what other girls think, how guys react... That's a mine field for guys without game. But a playground for players

I like big tits. And those insecurities are going to be there with or without the DDD's. In any relationship with a woman, one night stand or monogamous LTR, you're often tasked with emotional maintenance. Chicks are always checking the temperature and getting input from other people on how to feel - and if you're her alpha - she's going to come to you with that shit all the time, because by the very nature of alpha - the man she surrenders herself to - she wants your approval.

Rather than deflect it, I would actually tell her what I thought..but amplify it.
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"Really?"
- be impressed, so that you can smooth out her insecurities
- I might even throw in a little affection at this point just to cement the idea that she's doing the right thing.

" How big?"
- give her a chance to shine

"Just a little? I know you want more than that"
- You need to get her to realize moving from a B to a C is a waste. She needs to go as big as possible w/o looking terribly fake to get the most value. (And even if they're huge and fake...she could get a lot of value out of that)

"I can barely keep my hands off of you as it is."
- reaffirm her sexy, but also keep reminding her that's why she's around.
- also gives her a bit of the emotional thing that she's really looking for.

"You're probably gonna keep me on the side as your backdoor man while you try to land yourself a rich hog. I'm not mad at ya ma."
- set it up so that you have her in a sexual role/and she sees you as her Alpha Fucks, but you are acknowledging her hypergamy.

"Call me after the healed, so we can take them for a test drive"
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Because I like big tits, I would actually try to smooth over her insecurities. I know it sounds horrible, but I'm real with myself.

Overall, anytime a girl has bouts of insecurity, about anything - your job is to be calm. You being calm pulls her back to that calm state. It's just like when you sooth children or get a crowd to not riot.

Strong authoritative voice and demeanor, simple words - soothes the savage beast.

WIA

Post: #4

Game distilled into one line is telling people what they want to hear.

This girl your seeing, by telling you that she's been to a clinic to get a boob job, is looking for an affirmation that getting a boob job is the right choice.

So therefore the player would tell her that she's perfect the way she is but you would support her in her decision to get bigger boobs

Post: #5

When it comes to a woman asking me about a medical operation or a major transition into new field of study/ college / job, if I am not planning on spending my life with this girl, I tell her that I have no opinion or I refuse to give her my opinion.

But that's just my take on stuff like this. I practically forced an ex girlfriend -- a long time ago -- to get an IUD. One month later she tried to jump off the top of her fucking house.

Post: #6

From what I hear about the operation, it hurts like crazy during the recovery.

So it's kind of a one shot thing.

She wants your opinion now so that afterwards she doesn't have to hear "aw, looks nice but you should have gone bigger (or smaller)".

I guess just give her your honest opinion. And it goes without saying that she has the last word and she should be doing it because it's what she herself wants to do.

Post: #7

Post: #8

"We could just throw a knock into you and they will enlarge naturally and do the job they were intended for!"

Wait for response then bang.

Post: #9

(06-11-2016 07:30 PM)monster Wrote:  So therefore the player would tell her that she's perfect the way she is but you would support her in her decision to get bigger boobs

This is a joke, right?

Post: #10

So we talking Beyonce big?

Post: #11

"I would never marry such a woman nor would I make her the mother of my children."

Post: #12

Yeah one word. ..proceed.