Post: #1626

How my life would have turned out if I was born 40 years earlier.

I grew up in a typical working class small town in the midlands, I had a good family background and no major health problems. I attended a typical primary school and got a good education. I was average at English language, poor at creative subjects like art but excelled at maths and science.Discipline was strict both at home and in the classroom. I was encouraged to spend a lot of time outdoors by my parents and got plenty of exercise.I pass the 11 plus exam and got streamed into the higher ability group and went to the local grammar school. I score well above average and stay on into higher education and finally university. After graduating I go into the medial profession. I'm rewarded directly for my hard work. I gradually move up over the decades and earn well above average income.
Outside of working life I quickly meet an above average local woman thanks to the fact I have all the obvious indicators of being a good long term provider and family man. I get married at the age of 24 and end up having 3 children. I spend the rest of my life working, providing for my family and being a productive member of society.

How my life actually turned out
Being good at school was a major hinderance from the first day I arrived. Bullied by the less academically able kids was a near constant feature. This was fueled by lack of old fashioned discipline both inside and outside of the classroom.

I was constantly given "advice" on how to solve this problem. Unfortunately my well meaning but totally clueless parents were giving 25 years out of date advice that just didn't work in the modern world. Belittled as a cry baby for reporting bullying or fobbed off with a "just stick up for yourself" only to be treated like a criminal for responding with even the slightest physical contact.

Discipline inside the classroom was massively inconsistent, 2 kids could do the same thing wrong and get completely different "punishments". One female teacher at the age of 7 had her "favourites" (always girls) who could do no wrong.

There was no 11 plus exam anymore, mixed ability teaching was standard. The lowest ability kids struggled to keep up and the highest ability kids like myself sat around bored while the teachers were dealing with the ones who could barely read the instructions.

A lot of teachers were clueless when it came to enforcing discipline, one attention seeking idiot could destroy a lesson for the rest of the class and receive nothing stronger than a 15 minute detention in return.

By the age of 13 I was completely disillusioned with school and started to rebel. I managed to strike a balance between social acceptance and education by it meant that I massively underachieved.
I stayed on in education after 16 but it became clear that the schools primary goal was to get me in university no matter what. School never taught me once how to find a good job...….

I left school at 18 and went on a training program on schools advice which turned out to be a scam. I spent 2 years mixing temporary and part time work with long spells of unemployment. At one stage I was being paid more on benefits than actually working. I also discovered the qualifications that I got from school were not worth the paper they were written on out in the real world. I ended up working in a factory from the age of 20.

Then there was the women...…………………..

Clueless with girls due to a poor social life in my early to mid teens relationships with women were usually few and far between. I was terrible with breakups and regularly friend zoned. I was constantly told what a good person I was only to be ignored in favour of players and bad boys. Things came to a head when I lashed out and hit a women who cheated on me in my early 20s.

Meanwhile at work...………

I always believed the harder you work the better you get rewarded. Unfortunately it was the opposite in the modern work place as management just simply pushed the harder jobs in my direction while giving the people who didn't care and have no work ethic an easy life.

My 20s just got worse, I drank heavily surrounded by other 20 something males in the local pubs doing little more than watching football and gambling. By my late 20s half my friends were getting married/kids and half were doing nothing with their lives. I didn't feel like I belonged to either group.

At 27 I quit my job to go backpacking alone, I went on 3 trips over the next 6 years returning home for temporary work in between. I settled back into a better paid job in my earlier 30s with the lessons I'd learned in my 20s

Women suddenly seemed different...…………

I seemed to have a bit more luck with women in my 30s than 20s but I didn't know why at the time. Women who never paid attention to me at school were suddenly adding me as a friend on Facebook.
At 35 I started seeing an older women with kids behind her partners back. She was going to cheat anyway and I was never expecting it to be more than just a fling. This went on for 4 years and as time went on I became more and more attached to her. Eventually she left her partner promising we'd be together but suddenly finished with me at the time I was going through a family crisis at home.

Devastated and searching for answers...…………

I discovered the manosphere / red pill by accident while looking for online dating advice about 6 months later. I had a major crisis trying to get my head around with what I was reading and it took over 2 years before I fully digested the red pill.

I'm current 41 years old and making positive changes to my life...…..

Post: #1627

I'm 40+ guy living in a socialist feminist utopia, been following the forum (mainly datasheets) for a couple of years

Post: #1628

Adam here, first time poster. You guys have a great forum community, looking forward to participating. Thanks!

Post: #1629

Hi, I'm a 47 yr old guy in So CA. Was married for 18 years before wife decided to start fucking other men and ended up leaving me for one of them. This was back in 2015. Got 4 kids, who have lived with me the majority of the time. I am on the verge of finally getting the divorce filed.

I am hoping to get some lovin going soon, once I get the divorce filed and start getting out there more.

I have started working out and hope it helps pull the ladies my way.

Post: #1630

chudmarani, 39, I have had my good share of date/make out in my home country during my youth. Now I am living in the US and trying to learn the murican version of the game here. I need your help guys. Thanks!!

Post: #1631

Hello all. I look forward towards learning how to improve my game.

Post: #1632

Hey all. Brand new user.

I've come here because I have really poor luck with the ladies. It seems like the PUA stuff is dead now; I think perhaps because guys were manipulating women for sex rather than a committed relationship (sometimes); but in any case I'm just very confused and scared to approach a woman anymore...in large part due to the #MeToo movement and claims of rape/harassment being thrown around. Personally, I would never do that, I've always been respectful...but, as many PUA people would have said, it gets you nowhere.
While it is true I do want to have sex with these women, I, unlike many PUA artists, am actually interested in a committed relationship (with the right person).
I'm not a virgin or anything but I also wasn't the one who pushed for the sex; I merely made conversation and one thing led to another. I just don't know how to even approach women any more; it's become terrifying.
Like, at work, there is this amazingly sweet and cute girl, although considerably younger, she is very shy and she sort of broke out of her shell with me...and even put her arm on my shoulder...I want to ask her out on a date...which should be fine...but it isn't fine because of too much risk now. I have no idea what to do.

On a side note, I'm a church dude, so I'm also trying to reconcile the concept of the church preaching on abstinence while coming across factoids about how a large percentage of Christian women still do it (the numbers range from 68%-90%; either way shockingly large).

Are we in a time where the only thing we can do is let the girl decide and pursue? Because let's face it, that kind of woman is extremely, extremely rare, or, they all go for the same extremely wealthy, suit and tie ferrari riding Fortune 500 CEO thinking she's the only one.

Post: #1633

The website won't let me create a thread?

I've already registered but what do I need to do to create a thread?

Thanks

Post: #1634

Hello everyone I just discovered this site and found it very informative and helpful, and decided I would benefit from registering. I hope to learn a lot and engage in productive discussions.

Post: #1635

Pimpin since day 1 Echo here making these bitches echo my name

Post: #1636

Sup fellas!

I'm juice, I'm 26, and I'm looking to enhance my game this year with the objective to meet beautiful women and have great adventures. Holla at me if you're in Denver.

Post: #1637

I have been registered in Brazilian realist forums since July 2015.

I am from the South of Brazil!

Post: #1638

Hello everyone, I am a long time lurker and decided to join in. I am here primarily to improve myself and get advice from red pill men. My objectives for my first year on here are:
- Go on a date (get better socially, especially with women)
- Get a job at my school and/or internship (do my very best in school)
- Follow Convict Conditioning for a year (do my very best with this program)

Post: #1639

Hi. Been doing daygame for a couple of years but been slack recently. Currently living in Brisbane Australia and looking for wings here. PM if you are keen.

Post: #1640

Whatup, I have been a reader of Roosh since before he got all political, and have followed his development from pickup to politically contentious. I agree that feminism has created an unprecedented opportunity for men to bang lots and lots (and lots) of random women who are now at large, completely unprotected by husbands and families. Hot, young feminists roam around in public, wanting the same thing we do, which is to bang a hot stranger. It's a piece of cake for me to claim 6's and below, just because if I stay alert, those are the levels that usually make it obvious to me. I can't imagine that happening in a conservative society, where all the bangable women are married and bearing children at a young age. Conversely, any place where heterosexual feminists congregate in large numbers, like an Occupy Wall Street, a Bernie Sanders rally, or a liberal college town, will be a goldmine of free pussy, angry and needing to vent some frustration.

The most important thing I've noticed is that having good logistics makes it way easier to score with 7's and 8's. Looking attractive, having a wingman that is good-looking, or friends that know a lot of people, or living in a popular neighborhood, or going to university, creates the added advantage that ensures a trickle of 6's and the ocassional 7. Also, context makes it way easier to score. That is why dancing is such a fruitful activity. Go with friends or solo to a place where a DJ is playing afro-carribean music and lots of young women are dancing, and you'll be surrounded by drunk prospects seeking male attention. Dance with them, and you're one song closer to her bed. Go to a transit subway in a western metropolis, where career-minded women glued to their iPhones studiously avoid direct eye contact, and your game has to be completely on-point to score.

On a personal note, I've experimented with game and had trouble with wasting time on girls that had raised red flags and I should have dumped long ago. Something about the ego not wanting to give up.

(03-10-2011 04:13 PM)Roosh Wrote:  If you want to introduce yourself do it here.

EDIT: I am in my early 30s, live in a major metropolis.

Post: #1641

Been studying game for about 2 years.
I joined because I had some burning questions.
I am an incel, though I prefer the term forever alone as it is not used as slander like the former.
I am looking for ways that a very low, 4/10 SMV guy can find a girl. Through all the game i've never gotten anything, mostly daygame, online I never get past first few messages and I despise nightlife.
I am not interested in banging 100 chicks or flags from every country, instead I am here looking for ways I can get a wife, so good countries to try, places where short black guys can at least have a decent enough value, and other ways to overcome this issue.

Post: #1642

Hi I've been approaching for nearly a year, still not getting laid yet, but it's worth it for the rush of being able to TAKE ACTION.

Like The Jab above, I am an incel, I find it inconceivable how at 6'2 I have never attracted women in my whole life.

Post: #1643

1. Basic info
Avatar: Rendok
Age: 42
Location: Brisbane, Australia
Height: 177cm
Weight: 75kg
Race: Caucasian

2. Game stats
Years in the game: 8
Lays: 20+
Avenue to lays: day game 80%, social circle 10%, night game 10%

3. What are my goals for 2019?
- Improve general health through more exercise and better diet;
- Being able to number close girls in everyday situations as opposed to only when I go out specifically for day gaming;
- Managing my time more efficiently;
- Hike three more mountains above 2000m.

4. Why am I here?
- To connect and meet with like-minded men on the same path

5. Who would I like to meet from RVF?
- Someone who lives in Brisbane that is on the same path

6. Acknowledgements
- Erik von Markovik (my biggest influencer in terms of game)
- Richard Branson (my biggest influencer outside game)
- Roosh (for creating this blog)

9. Final words
If you're in Brisbane, hit me up. I respect anyone dedicated to self-improvement, so I’m open to liaising with RVF brothers from all walks of life. Feel free to send me a private message and we’ll take it from there.

Post: #1644

Hello everyone, I have recently read the book of rational male. Then, I started researching topics on game, pickup. One thing led to another and I stumble upon this forum. I have a lot learn and I think the answer I am looking for is here. If you are in Vancouver, hit me up. Thank you.

Post: #1645

Yo

Post: #1646

(02-10-2019 05:45 PM)Hombre de hielo Wrote:  I have been registered in Brazilian realist forums since July 2015.

I am from the South of Brazil!

Is it true that Rio Grande do Sul has exceptionally gorgeous women? I remember seeing that Cythia Dicker and various other Sport Illustrated models originated there, and reading that it is a genetic goldmine.

Post: #1647

(02-18-2019 06:17 AM)felix_vagabondo Wrote:  

(02-10-2019 05:45 PM)Hombre de hielo Wrote:  I have been registered in Brazilian realist forums since July 2015.

I am from the South of Brazil!

Is it true that Rio Grande do Sul has exceptionally gorgeous women? I remember seeing that Cythia Dicker and various other Sport Illustrated models originated there, and reading that it is a genetic goldmine.

I'm from the metropolitan area of Porto Alegre.

I do not believe it's a state / country thing...

The tendency for women living in cities with low pollution and the average distance between the Equator and the poles (more or less close to the Tropic of Cancer and the Tropic of Capricorn) to have a better facial appearance than the rest.

The decisive factor should be the skin receiving a pleasant temperature continuously!

Post: #1648

I've been following Roosh for years, and created an account here a while back. I recently got out of a relationship, gained weight, stopped working out, spent countless hours watching porn, and turned into a generally comprehensive turd. I would like to use these forums to create a progress thread to monitor my game/fitness progress within a community of like-minded men.

Post: #1649

Hey guys, mike here

Post: #1650

Hello Gentlemen.

I am 36 Years Old. I live in Estonia but I grew up in Texas. I started gaming feminist american women about 8 years ago but became bored easily with their games.

I moved to Estonia about 5 years ago. I am now married to a beautiful, feminine, submissive wife. I have 2 beautiful children. My work is location independant. None of that happened by chance it all took planning, work, sacrifice etc.

I have become bored of Estonia and its cold winters and lack of dynamic topography or warm beaches. I will be moving to Spain or Portugal or their islands later this year.

I train Jiu Jitsu, Lift weights, Swim Laps, practice yoga. I also enjoy bowhunting, spearfishing, surfing, sailing. I enjoy books and read often. I am interested in Crypto Currency.

I hope to meet like minded men on this forum and to both learn and give what info I can provide of value.

Iconoclast007