Post: #1

Hey guys... what do you think of this? I live in buenos aires where social circle game and social proof are the most important things in pickup... so I was thinking of just making a ton of friends, mostly cute/hot girls.

I'm can be pretty social and I think it will be easy and stress free. And I can learn alot about girls by hanging about them that way too. Honestly I actually want to be a real friend not just so I can sleep with their friends.

I think that me trying to game every cute girl makes it hard to have them as friends and also sub-communicates to my brain that I don't have an abundance mentality to hot girls so I better try and get with every single one I meet.

Good idea?

Post: #2

I dont know how things work in Argentina but my method to fuck women is universal and has worked pretty well till now, just approach, approach, approach, take them to your house and fuck them or at least try it. Making female friends is a long process.

Post: #3

Yeah Pitt is right. Aggressive day game and approaching will eventually get you laid.

I think you should make friends so that you have friends. You dont want your entire experience to just be a bunch of approaches and bangs, do you?

I don't know, maybe you do. 90 percent of my social circle at the moment in Bangkok is chicks and, while it's cool, sometimes I find myself wishing I had a crew of cool cats to roll with.

Post: #4

(07-10-2011 04:37 AM)pitt Wrote:  I dont know how things work in Argentina but my method to fuck women is universal and has worked pretty well till now, just approach, approach, approach, take them to your house and fuck them or at least try it. Making female friends is a long process.

Agreed. The amount of time and emotional drain it takes for a woman to become a "friend" will suck 5 years out of your life for each one you "befriend". Being friends with a woman is the hardest thing any man can do - because if she is hot, you are lying to yourself, and if she is not - she is emotional baggage you have to deal with to keep as a friend.

I personally never believed that hot women and I can be platonic friends. It's just a way of trying to inflict pain on my own testicles...what's the point?

That whole social circle shit is in your head. If that was the only way to get laid in Argentina (or anywhere), there would be a LOT LESS people in Bs. As. So, change your game venues, the times you game, the locations you hit...change your approach tactics.

If you are not getting laid, it's not just a social circle obstacle - it's you not dominating enough and building instant attraction the right way.


Go out there and penetrate sets, befriend the AMOG, or mother hen of the group....plow, and game, isolate target.

Language is your only barrier here, not some psychological nonsense that you have to be in a perceived "social circle" used as an excuse to not go out and approach.

Follow Pitt's advice.

Mixx

Post: #5

All of my lays in BsAs where either same night lays or day 2 lays where I made out with them at least on day 1.

The making friends to get laid route in the longest path you can possibly take to the same end goal.

Your map is faulty. It's like looking at the map and deciding to fly from alaska to russia by flying east.

Post: #6

I'd say it's not a bad idea, though. Hey, friends are friends, and if they happen to be hot/cute, fun to be around, and add to your social proof/social circle, what's not to like? Somewhat had this happen recently; I'm not on the market due to a few factors, but one cute girl moved from being a future prospect to definite friend territory, and even so spending time with her gets me laughing and other women seem more likely to approach when I'm sitting chatting with her whether or not her new BF is around. I'm cool with that.

Post: #7

(07-10-2011 11:30 AM)Stitch Wrote:  I'd say it's not a bad idea, though. Hey, friends are friends, and if they happen to be hot/cute, fun to be around, and add to your social proof/social circle, what's not to like?

yeah OK...I find it hard to believe that any man can be a platonic friend with a woman that is all of the above you described and not have ANY desires to fuck her unless he is gay. You can keep lying to yourself all you want, but if a hot girl whom you are strictly platonic friends with decides to suddenly fuck-you, you'd be doing cart-wheels! Not to mention that hot girls are high maintenance, emotional train wrecks!

The ONLY way I can see this happening is when a guy has LOTS of hot women he is already fucking! (think NBA/NFL athlete or A-list celebrity). Therefore, has no sexual need to be fulfilled - he gets hot girl ass whenever he wants. However, this is not the case here. We are talking of someone in a foreign country, with language/cultural barriers, no social circle, and very low supply of pussy.

The only reason you are a "friend" is because you feel that eventually she will cave-in, and you will catch that one night of opportunity: you get a sympathy fuck, a drunk fuck, or a rebound fuck because you are conveniently there.

You know what they call guys like that? ORBITERS!

And if you study any Argie men; that's what they all wait around for (they will not admit it). They are orbiters.

Mixx

Post: #8

Language is no problem (parents were both argies), in fact I've gotten this line 3 times from girls recently "you're from the US? shit you speak spanish better than me!" haha not sure how to reply to that I just laugh.

But I don't know, I've talked to alot of hot girls here and ask them how they met their boyfriend and its usually a story of months of "remandola" (literally it means rowing, and it means like struggling and making slow progress) until the girl finally decides that she likes him or whatever and they hook up and get into a relationship.

But you are right about lying to myself... I want to be authentic and if I girl is super banging and I just go ahead and act like I just want to be friends its hard. But there are alot of stories of guy friends who made girl friends and had them talk them up to their other friends that lead to lays.

I don't know I'm split.

I have this idea of making a bunch of friends from different groups and inviting them all to my place for a party, I feel thats a good idea.

Post: #9

Hey, if you can live yhriugh the bullshit of mslung female arguye pkatonic friends, in the hopees that one day, she'll tell ALL her GF how she got a sneek peak at your foot long cock, mire power to you. Thats a mighty exhausting effort for what will surely be a mediocre piece of ass.

Mixx

Post: #10

Gotta disagree, MiXX. Sure, if she'd suddenly flip a switch and wanna go for it, great, but if not and she's still fun to be around I got no trouble with that. Isn't one of the cornerstones of solid game being able to not care if you're successful or not? So what's the problem with having a hot girl around who makes you laugh and be able to not care, particularly if she offers social proof? I've got a couple female friends that I'd probably accept if they offered, but wouldn't have any trouble going out with them as wing.

Post: #11

Sorry for my bad typos man, I was using my iphone, and it is extremely shitty to update posts on it.

Give your theory a try, I think you can make it if you supplement it with something to bang on the side to hold you down. Pro or average girl.

MIxx

Post: #12

Yea thats true, I don't have any "fijas" (fuck buddies) right now as I got of a relationship 3 months ago and the year and half I was with my ex I was faithful and it kinda killed my social circle a bit since I went out way less.

I'm kind of insecure about fucking a pro again (did it on my first month single) cause I feel I should be able to get laid without paying. But I guess if I was secure about myself I could go ahead and do it and not care.