Post: #26

Quote:If you want to have a serious discussion here, then mutual respect is required. By ridiculing me in this manner, you're not contributing to an orderly conversation, so I would expect you to refrain from doing so in possible future replies. Based on what I've read from you thus far, I expected better conduct from you.

Sorry if that's how that came across, I wasn't ridiculing you at all.

Quote:For the content of your remarks: I obviously don't think my personal behaviour has any greater effect on women than other guys' behaviour. I made it clear that it is about the amount of sex with changing partners, not who those partners are.

But it's not about the amount. What about girls who are permanently fucked up after just one guy, often a long-term boyfriend at that? I've known plenty of those. What about enormously fucked up women who are virgins? Samseau has even written one of the RoK classics on this matter.

Again, there seems to be a confusion between the cause and effect here. A woman ends up having a terrible sexual life (either by chasing Alpha guys who dump her or by herself dumping Betas who can't incite tingles in her, or (more rarely) staying a spinster who can't be attracted to anybody) because she has already been damaged from the very beginning. Her normal attraction responses have never developed, making her unable to feel the fear of consequences from picking wrong partners and unable to appreciate the good guys. The guys that she ends up having sex with - whether it's 3, 13 or 30 of them, might entrench her oxytocin disorder, but they are not the cause of it. They are its consequences.

It's one thing to have sympathy for fucked up girls because they grew up in a destroyed and feminist society (agree 100% - I never get angry at them for being like that), but it should not lead to projecting nonexistent mechanisms onto them. Neither you nor other guys have the capacity to make them more or less corrupt, and there is nothing inherently noble or protective about either passing on them or fucking them. Convincing yourself otherwise amounts to fetishism - which, again, I am not judging, but I do maintain that it does not provide any of its claimed societal benefits.