Post: #26

Op, why do you what guys from the forum think about it? If it works for you, keep doing what you are doing.

Sex without procreation is pointless anyway. Some guys fuck models, other guys fuck the same girl for 10 years, then there are guys who fuck goats. Without procreation, the net effect on society is the same. Zero.

Do whatever works for you.

Post: #27

Dating married women is a no no in my book, so many young girls to be gamed.

As soon as she got married, I would have cut her off completely. I am not into sharing women, let alone keeping women like that around for 10 - 20 years as a crutch.

You don't have plates, otherwise you wouldn't have posted this thread. It sounds like you have feelings for this married woman.

Jariel wrote a good piece about girls wasting your time, I would rather be single than waste my time with low value women.

Post: #28

I don't understand this thread. Is the girl a regular thing for 10 or 20 years? Does OP want to know if it's oneitis or not? If not, why is the title what it is?

And if OP is so hung up on this girl or connects with her so well, why is he going to ditch her when she hits the wall when, if I'm doing the math right, she's already married and knocking on 40?

My impression is OP is not only wasting his time with an older low-value woman who probably has hit the wall, he has become a plate for her to spin. He's getting gamed. And like Brodiaga said, that's fine if that's what he wants. But if he really wants it, why make this thread at all? And why get upset with jariel when he addresses OP's post as it was written at face value? Sure he was going hard, but OP says there was a misunderstanding with what he wanted and jariel didn't get it—so what is he looking for?

What's the point of this thread?

Post: #29

(02-08-2016 09:23 PM)germanico Wrote:  Cant she be just a friend that you like spending time with from time to time and who mutually enjoy fucking each other?

Game is not complicated. It becomes complicated when you throw a bunch of rigid terms. "Oh, I care for this woman, was that beta?" "Oh, I fucked other women, she must be just a plate in my rotation."

Its just sex. Enjoy it. Shes just a woman, enjoy her company too.

Well put Germancio. While OP definitely has oneitis for said girl, there's a lesson to be learned in this. Girls will fade in and out of your life. Most of them know that you're a player and won't change. Some are hopeless romantics and think they can change you, or you'll wake up one day and see the error of your ways. There's the ones that know you knock it out well and that's all they want. Whatever the girl's motivations are it's up to you to know the limitations between the two of you.

Post: #30

(02-08-2016 04:06 PM)jariel Wrote:  Well any chick who has been readily available to be your jump-off for two decades is by default low-quality.

She is probably fat and/or facially unattractive.

I don't even need to know the particulars of your life, if every time you find yourself in a drought, you go running back to her old pussy, because that speaks for itself.

What you're talking about is worse than oneitis, and please miss us with the harem talk because you're no king.

You're running loser game, I would check where your life is at the moment, because wherever it is, that's why you are in a certain state, and subsequently, she's still around.

Just a note, I'm getting a little over guys coming here and bullshitting us about how they've fucked so many chicks, yet they're still stuck on some pussy they previously had, but trust them, it's not oneitis, it's not pedastalization.

I have never met anyone who finds themselves in that predicament under those circumstances.

Dudes who get a lot of pussy have a "next" mentality.

It's just natural when your dick has been in so many holes, it's inherently desensitizing.

Guys in the bag you speak of usually don't have options, and their choices are clear indicators that they don't have options.

The fact that you've had a girl in your life for 20 years, but you don't want a real relationship with her?

20 years and she doesn't have the juice to get and keep a man instead of just being a warm box for your dick when you need it served up?

I don't know man, FOH, she's a loser female and you're no player to me.

I'm done.

Interesting what you wrote and I kinda agree with you but I have a friend who is been banging this dominican girl for the last 8 years, she has been living in Spain for most of this time and he probably sees her once a year. She is married and her husband knows that she had a fling with my friend, my friend even fucked her at her place while her husband was there (the couple was no together during that time, they had a minor beef). The husband can't leave her, she tells my friend that he has no other options and because of that I am sure she takes advantage of it. Dude is straight lame.

This girl was a 9 when he first met her, right now I would give her a 6, my friend tells me that he had the best sex with her and my friend had easily more than 300 women, she says the same about him, that he was her best sex and that she will always have her pussy available for him.

I guess there are some bitches that will get you addicted for life.

Post: #31

(02-09-2016 05:32 AM)pitt Wrote:  

(02-08-2016 04:06 PM)jariel Wrote:  Well any chick who has been readily available to be your jump-off for two decades is by default low-quality.

She is probably fat and/or facially unattractive.

I don't even need to know the particulars of your life, if every time you find yourself in a drought, you go running back to her old pussy, because that speaks for itself.

What you're talking about is worse than oneitis, and please miss us with the harem talk because you're no king.

You're running loser game, I would check where your life is at the moment, because wherever it is, that's why you are in a certain state, and subsequently, she's still around.

Just a note, I'm getting a little over guys coming here and bullshitting us about how they've fucked so many chicks, yet they're still stuck on some pussy they previously had, but trust them, it's not oneitis, it's not pedastalization.

I have never met anyone who finds themselves in that predicament under those circumstances.

Dudes who get a lot of pussy have a "next" mentality.

It's just natural when your dick has been in so many holes, it's inherently desensitizing.

Guys in the bag you speak of usually don't have options, and their choices are clear indicators that they don't have options.

The fact that you've had a girl in your life for 20 years, but you don't want a real relationship with her?

20 years and she doesn't have the juice to get and keep a man instead of just being a warm box for your dick when you need it served up?

I don't know man, FOH, she's a loser female and you're no player to me.

I'm done.

Interesting what you wrote and I kinda agree with you but I have a friend who is been banging this dominican girl for the last 8 years, she has been living in Spain for most of this time and he probably sees her once a year. She is married and her husband knows that she had a fling with my friend, my friend even fucked her at her place while her husband was there (the couple was no together during that time, they had a minor beef). The husband can't leave her, she tells my friend that he has no other options and because of that I am sure she takes advantage of it. Dude is straight lame.

This girl was a 9 when he first met her, right now I would give her a 6, my friend tells me that he had the best sex with her and my friend had easily more than 300 women, she says the same about him, that he was her best sex and that she will always have her pussy available for him.

I guess there are some bitches that will get you addicted for life.

Sounds like your friend is looking to get shot or killed from eventual beta/omega rage husband. Men willing to fuck married women like this will learn the hard way at some point. Any man willing to underestimate another man like that will eventually get what is coming to him.

Post: #32

What I would like to know is what country is this woman from and the country the OP is from? It may help form some perspective. In some places, it is not all that strange having a fuck buddy like that. The married fuck buddy sounds like typical American woman bullshit, but it would be nice to know more details.

Post: #33

It's just sad really. Dark even. Sex with same girl for more than 10 years with no babies. I suppose it's not as bad as those "LTR for 9 years" breakup stories though. But it's just fucked up, it's like against life itself. At least single mother culture in some communities is leaving people with sons and daughters, even if it causes other hardships.

I don't feel qualified to advise, but I think at some point someone has to get knocked up.

Post: #34

(02-09-2016 08:02 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

(02-09-2016 05:32 AM)pitt Wrote:  

(02-08-2016 04:06 PM)jariel Wrote:  Well any chick who has been readily available to be your jump-off for two decades is by default low-quality.

She is probably fat and/or facially unattractive.

I don't even need to know the particulars of your life, if every time you find yourself in a drought, you go running back to her old pussy, because that speaks for itself.

What you're talking about is worse than oneitis, and please miss us with the harem talk because you're no king.

You're running loser game, I would check where your life is at the moment, because wherever it is, that's why you are in a certain state, and subsequently, she's still around.

Just a note, I'm getting a little over guys coming here and bullshitting us about how they've fucked so many chicks, yet they're still stuck on some pussy they previously had, but trust them, it's not oneitis, it's not pedastalization.

I have never met anyone who finds themselves in that predicament under those circumstances.

Dudes who get a lot of pussy have a "next" mentality.

It's just natural when your dick has been in so many holes, it's inherently desensitizing.

Guys in the bag you speak of usually don't have options, and their choices are clear indicators that they don't have options.

The fact that you've had a girl in your life for 20 years, but you don't want a real relationship with her?

20 years and she doesn't have the juice to get and keep a man instead of just being a warm box for your dick when you need it served up?

I don't know man, FOH, she's a loser female and you're no player to me.

I'm done.

Interesting what you wrote and I kinda agree with you but I have a friend who is been banging this dominican girl for the last 8 years, she has been living in Spain for most of this time and he probably sees her once a year. She is married and her husband knows that she had a fling with my friend, my friend even fucked her at her place while her husband was there (the couple was no together during that time, they had a minor beef). The husband can't leave her, she tells my friend that he has no other options and because of that I am sure she takes advantage of it. Dude is straight lame.

This girl was a 9 when he first met her, right now I would give her a 6, my friend tells me that he had the best sex with her and my friend had easily more than 300 women, she says the same about him, that he was her best sex and that she will always have her pussy available for him.

I guess there are some bitches that will get you addicted for life.

Sounds like your friend is looking to get shot or killed from eventual beta/omega rage husband. Men willing to fuck married women like this will learn the hard way at some point. Any man willing to underestimate another man like that will eventually get what is coming to him.

I agree, I keep on telling him that some of these dominican dudes may look soft but they would kill you for any small shit and that if I was him I would cut off contact with her, he thinks that her husband is scared of him because he saw him rolling with a bunch of other guys.

Post: #35

I can't bang the same woman for more than two years why would I do it for ten.

Post: #36

OP,

I think the reason J was so hard on you is because your post is basically asking “what do I want”? No one else can answer you on that. We can’t tell you how to live your life, nor should you be seeking approval of others for the seemingly poor decisions you’ve made regarding this broad. Jariel is right; the only woman who should be in your life for over 20 years should be the mother of your kids.

I think you need to re-read your original post and answer those questions yourself. There are no hard and fast rules, only principles which we adhere to. J is correct in that this display shows scarcity mentality. If you need to ask others how you should “feel” about a certain situation then it’s time to take a step back and reflect, as you seem to be missing the forest for the trees.

Quote:Im trying to make clear that sometimes even the most red pill men have favourite girls they keep on the side their whole lives.

Why bother trying to “convince” anyone about what behaviors are (or are not) “redpill”? I’m trying not to be too harsh here but it seems you just want us to sign off on whatever course of action you take, “redpill” or otherwise. My two cents: work on your game, and drop this broad. Why? She seems like trash. If that offends you, know that you’ve got a oneitis on your hands.

Good luck.

Post: #37

I think that this is the type of question where only those you have also known a long time or very well can really judge it well. Even regarding the rules of Game, also to understand the desires and needs of you as an individual man, to take your character into context as there is no single answer to this and it will vary with the person as to what it could mean.

Post: #38

Just fuck her in the mouth dude.

Post: #39

(02-08-2016 08:47 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  Well, I admit it.

I have a plate that has been in my rotation for over 10 years.


She's staying in my rotation until she hits the wall.

You have a plate that's been on rotation for close to two decades all while being married and said plate hasn't hit the wall yet? This is in the U.S? With an American woman?

Post: #40

I don't see anything wrong with this, as the OP has described it and given his reputation.

Loving connections with women are awesome, and rare. Squeeze some joy out of them if you can.

Don't ridicule those than can, if you don't know what it feels like.

Post: #41

My gym buddy was telling me a story of his friend who walked in on his girl having sex with another man.

The dude stabbed the other guy and jumped off the balcony, taking his life in the process.

No pussy is worth your life.

Many guys deal with married women because it is low hanging fruit, it ain't game.

Post: #42

(02-10-2016 07:40 PM)Advent Persona Wrote:  

(02-08-2016 08:47 PM)Mercenary Wrote:  Well, I admit it.

I have a plate that has been in my rotation for over 10 years.


She's staying in my rotation until she hits the wall.

You have a plate that's been on rotation for close to two decades all while being married and said plate hasn't hit the wall yet? This is in the U.S? With an American woman?

Lol, was she 6 years old when OP first laid eyes on her?

Post: #43

Even though Suits vouches for this guy's skills, he is displaying something that we should all be commonly aware or cognizant of.

Naturals are prone to Oneitis.

It's the only thing that stands out to me about this OP. It was discussed at length in WIA's thread, which has been recently bumped up and reminded me about posting about this. Naturals are not game technicians. They are usually naturally excellent at one or two major areas of game, such as looks or mouthpiece. The other aspects of game is awfully suspect with them or outright absent. Oneitis, next mentality, etc. We should not forget that most of us have Manosphere/Red-pill/Neo-Masculinity ideology and mindset to go with our game skillsets. Most naturals do not exhibit any of this stuff. All the ones I know personally are bluepill as hell.

What do you guys think?

Post: #44

(02-12-2016 01:22 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  Even though Suits vouches for this guy's skills, he is displaying something that we should all be commonly aware or cognizant of.

Naturals are prone to Oneitis.

It's the only thing that stands out to me about this OP. It was discussed at length in WIA's thread, which has been recently bumped up and reminded me about posting about this. Naturals are not game technicians. They are usually naturally excellent at one or two major areas of game, such as looks or mouthpiece. The other aspects of game is awfully suspect with them or outright absent. Oneitis, next mentality, etc. We should not forget that most of us have Manosphere/Red-pill/Neo-Masculinity ideology and mindset to go with our game skillsets. Most naturals do not exhibit any of this stuff. All the ones I know personally are bluepill as hell.

What do you guys think?

I mean that explains why a lot of the naturals wife up and knock up a girl they become obsessed with at some point.

It's usually in the vein or mentality that they can mold her or that she has one outstanding quality. Some people become so jaded that the first genuine article becomes an obsession.

Corollary: These girls are crazy in their own way. Girls willing to inflict self harm to prove loyalty and their own obsession. They keep a tight leash as well.