Post: #1

Have you guys ever run into this?

I met this chick at a night club. She was cool but not super hot and we happened to be talking and dancing and having fun together. I was gaming her just like I would any other girl and got her number. I was gaming her with a lot of escalation and sexual intention so there's no ambiguity here.

After getting to know her better I can tell shes actually a really cool fun and intelligent person to hang with. To expand my social and circle and to meet more people (and more girls) and have fun.

The problem is I'm a bastard who just wants to pump and dump hotties while building a harem. I'm getting the impression it would be better to have this girl around in my life in a friend capacity because friends last a long time while hoes come and go. I don't want to start fucking her and then have it all blow up when she finds out I'm banging her hot friend which is what will inevitably happen.

I'm pretty sure she likes me though. How can I diffuse the situation without hurting her feelings and ruining a possible friendship?

Post: #2

Just my experience. If you dont fuck her now, you wont fuck her later

Post: #3

First of all, this should be in the newbie forum.

The sad truth is you can't really be friends with a girl. And it's beyond bad juju to ever try, and a complete waste of time.

That being said, I have one or two female friends.

They're not friends in the traditional sense, however. No matter how "cool" she is, a woman will never be able to achieve a sense of camaraderie. It just doesn't happen.

As far as expanding your social circle, if she wants to bang you, she probably won't introduce you to her friends.

However, if you just game her like every other girl, she'll be putty in your hands and you can either bang her or not. Friendship implies a give and take. Your post says you want to control the situation.

There is no "friend game" where you "game her less" because she's "cool".

Just game her like normal because she's hot and you might want to bang her some day and do your own thing in the meantime.

On a side note, I think you have gotten caught up in a fantasy of "what could be" with a pretty lady. It happens to me all the time. But I know from experience that this stuff never works out. Just stick to the basics and you won't get burned like those blue-pill saps.

I promise...god didn't stop making pussy after her made her.

Post: #4

If she wants you, she wants you.
You can hang out and string her along, never ever hinting at more and she'll stay your "friend"

There is not really much to it.

Well there's the despicable dishonorable deplorable and disgusting nature of a fake friendship, but women have managed to use men that want to sleep with them since the dawn of civilization.

WIA

Post: #5

Yeah I'm overthinking things. Just give her the D lol..

Post: #6

(01-20-2016 03:12 PM)forever_beta Wrote:  Yeah I'm overthinking things. Just give her the D lol..

That's a different dynamic.

Pick a side.

WIA

Post: #7

Tell her to "introduce" you to another girlfriend of hers

Post: #8

forever beta, I think if you reverse game, you can effectively friend zone this lizard. Talk about lame stuff like trying to send 'Babe, you are so hot!!" to lame Instagram big booty wenches.
Talk about your belief that a woman who dates you should always cook a fresh meal for you and hand wash your underwear. Tell her you don't like eating pussy and you always cum too fast but the burden is on the lizard you date to beat you to orgasm.

Deliver all of this in a nasally voice. Report what happens after.

Post: #9

Just limit your interactions with her to group situations.

BBQ on the beach, include her and she brings friends.
House party, include her and she brings friends.

Just don't take her out on a date and be surprised when she ghosts you for not giving her the D.

Post: #10

Don't say anything that can be sexually construed. If she does (say something...), have it fly right over your head.

Post: #11

Call her "bro" or "buddy"
Thats my go-to for politely letting a chick know I have no sexual interest in her.

Post: #12

talk about other girls, say how you're into them, how much you like them etc. basically what girls say to their orbiters etc.

Post: #13

Any hot girl I can't fuck they become friends out of consequence to expand my circle of connections(hot girls always know other hot girls), but to intentionally friend zone a girl that's below par?

Come on man let her down and tell her to hop off unless she's inviting you to parties with other girls ASAP. Again this won't make her a friend just another connection. Women make horrible friends in the long term and a real friendship like you would with a male friend is impossible.

Just tell her that you want to hang out and party don't say anything about relationships or embarrassing yourself if you're truly trying to extract value here with access to other broads, but my gut is telling me this isn't the kind of girl who has those kinds of connects.

Post: #14

Tell her she reminds you of your Mom