Post: #26

(01-04-2016 07:13 PM)Borealis Wrote:  

(01-04-2016 10:30 AM)amity Wrote:  

(01-04-2016 10:11 AM)Borealis Wrote:  I normally would agree with you guys and move on. I don't really want to contact her again but the thing is she's part of my extended social circle so I will definitely be seeing her from time to time. I don't want things to get awkward and knowing women she will definitely be gossiping about me to my friends behind my back.

Best bet is to keep personal contact with this girl to a minimum, at least for the moment.
You care too much, too invested in a girl who's displayed no real value to you yet.
If we can tell that here then you can bet your ass the girl can tell it too.
Keep moving on with your life and keep mingling and meeting other girls and hopefully banging a few along the way if possible.
That way when you get back in touch with her again in a while, whatever neediness was there will have largely disappeared.
She will pick up on this and your chances of something happening will have increased by then, should you still be interested in her.
Women who wouldn't give you the time of day will suddenly show interest in you when it's clear you haven't got the blindest bit of interest in them.
And there's the rub.
The difference being that the ball is now in your court, rather than hers.

So what would be your suggestion the next time I see her? Act completely different? Ignore her? Say "hey what's up long time no see" and walk away?

Act like nothing happened. Still be the same guy who you have always been. Don't hold a grudge, don't act butthurt.

Smile and be confident.

Post: #27

So I guess I will contact her again in a few weeks and if nothing happens I will drop her. Thanks for all the advice guys really appreciate it!!!!

Post: #28

(01-04-2016 11:06 PM)Borealis Wrote:  So I guess I will contact her again in a few weeks and if nothing happens I will drop her. Thanks for all the advice guys really appreciate it!!!!

Did you...read any of the replies in this thread, or...?

Post: #29

(01-05-2016 04:10 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  

(01-04-2016 11:06 PM)Borealis Wrote:  So I guess I will contact her again in a few weeks and if nothing happens I will drop her. Thanks for all the advice guys really appreciate it!!!!

Did you...read any of the replies in this thread, or...?

Yes I read every single reply in this thread. Did you even read one?