Post: #1

I thought that after reading about the game and understanding the true nature of women it will change me, but as soon as I met a new woman that was exactly how I like, I started to have feelings for her even though I know for sure that I don't want to have an LTR with her. What is the purpose of the red pill if you can't implement it? Had she gamed me?

Post: #2

Don't take this the wrong way, but if you have to ask whether you are beta, the answer is yes.

Do you think alphas like Donald Trump or Sean Connery ask if they are beta? No! The thought is laughable.

But we all gotta start somewhere. Stick around, keep learning and practicing game. Lift. Eat clean. Don't get in any LTRs until you really understand how women work (look up hypergamy if you haven't already).

You're in the right place.

Post: #3

Game, despite your preconceptions, is not about being an emotionless sociopath.

It's about understanding and reacting to the inherent psychology of women to achieve the best results possible.

If there was no emotional aspect to the thrill of the chase, the conquest and (if one sees fit) delving into a mini relationship or LTR, then we'd all hang up our boots.

The key is control (as best possible). Once you start to have some semblance of control over your emotions, without letting them rule you, you'll increase your confidence and take on bigger challenges - read: better quality women.

You'll also keep the one's you want around you for longer.

Post: #4

Not that kind of control

Post: #5

(12-17-2015 07:07 AM)boets Wrote:  I thought that after reading about the game and understanding the true nature of women it will change me, but as soon as I met a new woman that was exactly how I like, I started to have feelings for her even though I know for sure that I don't want to have an LTR with her. What is the purpose of the red pill if you can't implement it? Had she gamed me?

Let me get this straight....

You meet a woman who is "exactly" what you like in a woman, and instead of being stoked and enjoying a relationship with her, you deny yourself that great life pleasure and turn to an online forum to ask if the very act of having feelings in the first place is "beta?"

You're that caught up in what a group of men you don't even know think about you and your very human, very normal emotions? You're that sold on what others say is the "nature of a woman" that you can no longer think for yourself and instead allow your every life decision to be guided by dogma?

The answer to your question is yes.

You are most definitely beta.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #6

I don't think only reading about women's true nature is enough, to fully swallow the red pill.
My guess is you should continue to date more women, and see who they are by yourself.
Your betaness will then dissolve by itself.

Post: #7

Alpha / Beta is not a binary thing, it is a spectrum. Even some of the veterans of this forum have beta tendencies. Game serves to rid us of these, but it is near on impossible to stamp them out completely. Also being "beta" is not an entirely bad thing either:

http://www.rooshv.com/its-okay-to-be-a-beta-male

http://www.rooshv.com/not-all-women-of-t...alpha-male

Post: #8

(12-17-2015 10:17 AM)Unkown_Killa Wrote:  http://www.rooshv.com/not-all-women-of-t...alpha-male

Wow this makes so much sense. Always wondered when id see betas with girls here in northern Europe...