RE: How do you get an Asian girlfriend?
I've definitely got Yellow Fever, and I think, more than any other guy I've ever known. A few years ago, I'd pretty much decided that was going to be a major focus of my life, and I'd say that I've been very successful (in that I've dated a lot of Asian girls for a few months, we called it girlfriend / boyfriend, and then broke up.) (This being the internet and all, you can take my claims for what you will.) I like having girlfriends vs. ONSs / FBs, so I think I can give you some thoughts...
It's best to think of Asian girls as having the same attitudes as white girls did in the past. The more Americanized they are, the more white their attitudes. Girls in Asia tend to act like white girls did 60 years ago, where FOBs tend to have attitudes like they would have had in the 60s, and so forth. Until you reach the 2nd generation girls who have no connection or contact with the old country, who basically act indistinguishably from white girls, except usually a bit more prudish and obnoxious. (To get an idea what I'm talking about google "Suey Park.")
It's also important to note that while there are certain commonalities (more so than other races IMHO), there are also some significant differences in type that lead to differences in what type of white guy they are attracted to. (e.g., ABGs tend to be attracted to tough white guys, where most other types of Asians are attracted to clean cut white guys.)
It's also important to note that Asians are highly assimilationist compared to almost everyone else, so even a FOB or BOBA that's spent the majority of their time in caucasian culture will rapidly (but superficially), adopt the values of the dominant culture of their environment. So, you may meet one that is more feminist in their rhetoric, but this is usually overcome with a little effort. For example, I dated a FOB for a while that was a graduate student at an elite university. Initially she was horrified by the notion of swallowing (common among Asian girls) and routinely spouted liberal / feminist crap, but within a few weeks she was swallowing loads daily and had pretty much changed her mind to my way of thinking.)
Your asking questions about how to get an Asian girlfriend, as opposed to how to fuck Asian girls. If one simply wants to bed as many Asians as possible, my advice is going to be different..
So with those caveats, here are my observations:
The good:
1. Asian girls are extremely loyal girlfriends. (As much as women can be loyal, anyway.)
2. Asian girls are very affectionate and very supportive.
3. Asian girls like sex. A lot.
4. Asian girls like white guys. A lot. (It is absolutely a status thing.)
5. Asians are very social, and tend to have closer and more active groups of friends than whites, in particular. Having an Asian girlfriend means dealing with her crew.
6. Asian girls are all more Red Pilled on average than other races, particularly whites. Most have a better concept of SMV, the Wall, etc. This makes running game on them easier in some ways and harder in others.
7. White guys get, near as I can tell, a 2 point bonus in the eyes of an Asian woman. (A guy who's SMV was an 8 is a 10, a 4 is a 6, and so forth.)
The bad:
1. All the evil, manipulative "alpha fucks / beta bucks" stuff is more prevalent among Asians and more openly acknowledged.
2. Asian girls expect the guy to pay and they care about money more than other populations. There are a bunch of reasons for this, but most Asian girls like to do things and have things that cost money (concerts, restaurants, trips.) In Asian cultures, men generally kiss women's asses. Most Asian girls will try to get you to spend a ton of money on them.
3. Asshole game is less effective. Being white and not being a total pussy is usually enough. This comes from the fact that most Asian women are more focused on relationships than other populations.
4. Asian HB8s, 9s and 10s are used to having their asses kissed, but are also acutely aware of their SMV. They will almost always have a boyfriend, as well as an army of beta orbiters in reserve. Many are quite arrogant.
5. Asians are more status obsessed and competitive than other races, and largely that translates into money. Asian women want their men to be perceived by their friends and family as desirable. (Once again, like 50-60 years ago among whites.)
6. Asian girls are highly influenced by media and pop culture. This tends to mean that they are attracted to the types of men that are leading man types in romcoms and action movies. (Bradley Cooper, Leonardo DiCaprio. Act like a strong character in a movie, a gentle, confident charm works so well.)
7. They care how you dress and will want you to focus on your appearance in a way that most white Alpha types will find a bit effeminate and vain.
8. Asian girls are REALLY fucking clingy. They will text you all fucking day long and pout about how you didn't text them enough.
Considerations
All Asian women have gotten the yellow fever memo and most now tend to see themselves as more desirable than white women. Almost all Asian girls have an complicated relationship with it - one one hand, they like the idea of white men being excessively attracted to Asian women, but on the other, they hear a lot from their male family members and friends about it. Theres a lot of resentment by Asian men of "stealing our women." Even as little as five years ago, you didn't need to worry about it, but it's now a factor that you need to acknowledge.
You'll get asked by any Asian girl on the first date whether you have an Asian fetish. Just say that you've never dated an Asian girl (like you've never dated a Belgian girl) and she'll suddenly see you as a challenge. (Trust me, works every fucking time. Every. Fucking. Time.)
Despite the fact that they're dressed like hookers in movies, and dancing with each other in a way that most white girls would consider scandalous, Asian girls are hard to pick up in clubs. They run in packs and it's really hard to do an approach. Polite, charming persistence is more appreciated by Asian girls than other races, and I've seen that work where I think it would have failed with a white girl or latina. (Once again, think about rom coms and how the hero acts - obviously don't be that guy ,though - he never gets laid.)
Asian girls are more geeky on average, so they are MUCH easier to find on Online dating or at certain activities. Unfortunately, Asian girls are the most desired on online dating, so the HB8s, 9s and 10s (yes, Asian 10s go on online dating - only race's 10s that do that) are slammed by horny yellow fever guys. They tend to view us more closely to how we view them, and have higher physical standards. Asian girls like muscles (because Asian guys generally don't have them without supplementation.)
Asian girls are less likely to shit test, and are easier to but rapport with on the first date. Manners go a long way, as the reputation that white guys have with most Asians, FOBs and others, is that we are gentlemen. Demonstrating unpracticed manners will carry you a long way.
To appeal to the broadest number, it's best to project an image that's pretty much as absolutely white as possible. Depending on what type of Asian girl your trying to get, that means either projecting the image of a Southie or, more likely, an Ivy League type. Generally speaking, most Asian girls want a WASPy, tall, clean cut, successful husband material-type boyfriend who could protect them in a fight, will impress all their friends, and will fuck them hard with their big white cock daily. Be that, and you'll drown in tight Asian pussy.
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