Post: #1

I am a beginner so I think I get some beginner problem. I am good at the early game some how but the problem comes when I see her agian and stuff. When few of them see me thay are so excited and shit and they want me to do some shit and stuff like singing to them I do not know how to handle the excited girls when I see them excited and it makes me nerves and I cannot do shit. Plus if the girls like you and ask you to do the things like singing to her should I do what she tell me to do or I can have the other way around to build attraction on that.

Post: #2

THis is interesting.

Do you feel like they expect you to do something?

Well, the basic rule is don't give them what they want. Don't be compliant. There are exceptions to this, but if you're just straight out their entertainment-guy and you just collapse into compliance they're not going to think of you sexually as a potential mate.

Post: #3

I don't understand your question.

Post: #4

These are classic "shit tests" from women. Or, as Twig said, compliance tests. I agree completely with what he said about "generally" not doing what a woman wants you to do. The second you do what she wants, you've lost the game. Game over. Be mysterious, interesting, funny, and noncompliant. YOU should be the one giving the compliance tests. Not her. You are qualifying HER. That's it in a nutshell...

But yeah, I don't really understand your question either.

Is it just me, or is the art of using complete and coherent sentences lost on the youth of today?

Post: #5

(01-29-2009 01:34 AM)X-Factor Wrote:  Is it just me, or is the art of using complete and coherent sentences lost on the youth of today?

I think Francis said he was French or something like that in another thread.

The next time a woman asks you to perform for her tell her she has to earn it. If she asks you to sing say "I don't know have you earned it?" or "We only just met!"

In other words, don't just give it to her.

Post: #6

(01-29-2009 02:27 PM)Trotter Wrote:  I think Francis said he was French or something like that in another thread.

That explains it. Mea Culpa...

Post: #7

Good one Trotter.

The most basic form of not complying is to say "No" in a strong male voice. You can just do this if you can't think of anything witty. Its a good thing to do just to learn to say No.

More playful is "Kiss my ass". "Maybe after we're married". But I like Trotter's suggestions better.

Post: #8

(01-30-2009 07:36 PM)twigman Wrote:  Good one Trotter.

The most basic form of not complying is to say "No" in a strong male voice. You can just do this if you can't think of anything witty. Its a good thing to do just to learn to say No.

More playful is "Kiss my ass". "Maybe after we're married". But I like Trotter's suggestions better.

I will personally vouch for Trotter's response too. It's something that I've used in the field, personally, with average to above-average results. In fact, I used it in Guam on one of the dancers from my travel report. I can say that I've been using that line for many a moon now, and it gets results. Bottom line.

@ Twig,

I don't know about the marriage line. I'm sure it would work, but it just goes against every element of my being to use the words "we" and "married" in the same sentence when talking with a woman. ; )

Post: #9

(01-31-2009 03:01 PM)X-Factor Wrote:  

(01-30-2009 07:36 PM)twigman Wrote:  Good one Trotter.

The most basic form of not complying is to say "No" in a strong male voice. You can just do this if you can't think of anything witty. Its a good thing to do just to learn to say No.

More playful is "Kiss my ass". "Maybe after we're married". But I like Trotter's suggestions better.

I will personally vouch for Trotter's response too. It's something that I've used in the field, personally, with average to above-average results. In fact, I used it in Guam on one of the dancers from my travel report. I can say that I've been using that line for many a moon now, and it gets results. Bottom line.

@ Twig,

I don't know about the marriage line. I'm sure it would work, but it just goes against every element of my being to use the words "we" and "married" in the same sentence when talking with a woman. ; )

I'm not in the youth movement but i completely understands what he saying..... He runs out of material when they meet a 2nd time and he goes all AFC!
I don't have an answer cause im a complete non player noob but i get the question.