Post: #51

Don't do it, period.

Do you really think she will be working for you if she moves back to the states with you? Once she arrives there, she will leave you and move on to greener pastures.

I don't care how decent she seems to be, she saw your weakness and is playing on it.

Prostitutes usually lack good moral values, she won't have no problems fucking you over and moving on. Avoid future problems man and forget this girl. Hopefully you really listen.

Post: #52

(09-06-2015 10:34 AM)travolta Wrote:  NEVER bring a girl back to the U.S. with you unless you're planning to get her pregnant. I'm currently dealing with an annoying situation that involves me bringing a foreign girl to live with me. I might make a post about it when it's finally finished. Long story short, it's an awful idea to live with a girl, ESPECIALLY if she's foreign, unless you want to marry her and have kids. Remember this: living with a girl is amazing until you want to fuck other girls, then it's the stupidest decision you can make.

travolta,

If you would up for sharing that would be great. Always appreciate the info shared on here.

Post: #53

IF the situation was such, that she was marrying YOU, in Columbia, and the marriage, was IN Columbia; and you intended to stay there, and fuck her, then, of course, it may be worth consideration. Keep this in mind (and I'm paraphrasing the Odyssey): everyday, someone, or something, WILL be after YOUR kingdom (i.e YOUR money, YOUR time, things that are require great labor to achieve, someone will always be after them! do NOT loose them, or cede them, unless YOU are sure YOU are exploiting/benefitting from them). Sorry for the long winded response, but I'm very passionate about helping my fellow man NOT make a hasty decision.

You're going to hate what I say, but it's the truth: You are being played. You're already paying her for sex, and like ANY good business person knows, the REALLY good customers, get special treatment, hell, give them the phone number; that she has done. Strike number one, was her giving you a phone number, and you calling it (and her getting your number!) You have opened the gates to being manipulated, by her (if you have not already pounded through them already). A few points, and then I'm off.

If she comes to the states, big sugar daddy government, can and WILL, give her benefits: food, shelter, clothing - your marriage will mean nothing, when she divorces you via no-fault. Her plan is simple: marry the dumb american, get citizenship through marriage, her child will ALSO be included on that. Once she watches the ceiling for a few years, she can divorce, and claim whatever - and then, you will have to forfeit MORE of your property, and money, to settle that. DON'T DO IT! She is desperate to get a better life, and is using you (CAPTAIN SAVE A HO! DOES THAT RING A BELL?)

Also, I don't know about you, but if I did happen to use a prostitute, I would NEVER give out my name, or phone number. If Gandalf can have four different names in LOTR, there is NO reason, you can't also use different names, for different regions in the world. In any event, I would NOT do something rash, that would fuck me up for a long time. Get back stateside, I would forget her, and just chalk her up as another rental vagina, nothing more.

As a mid-20 something, believe me when I say: people/things are ALWAYS looking to steal your 'kingdom' do NOT let them!

Post: #54

(09-06-2015 01:37 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  

(09-06-2015 10:34 AM)travolta Wrote:  NEVER bring a girl back to the U.S. with you unless you're planning to get her pregnant. I'm currently dealing with an annoying situation that involves me bringing a foreign girl to live with me. I might make a post about it when it's finally finished. Long story short, it's an awful idea to live with a girl, ESPECIALLY if she's foreign, unless you want to marry her and have kids. Remember this: living with a girl is amazing until you want to fuck other girls, then it's the stupidest decision you can make.

travolta,

If you would up for sharing that would be great. Always appreciate the info shared on here.

Soon I'll make a post that'll be a must read for all guys in their 20's. I'm still dealing with the situation and it's not over yet. I'm not looking for advice so I'm not going to post about it fully until it's 100% finished. I don't want the thread to turn into a soap opera since I'm not sure what's going to happen next before it finally ends. Feels like I'm going through a fucking divorce right now trying to get her to move out. Glad I didn't end up getting married to her, which was a high possibility for a while.

Post: #55

didn't read any replies, but you mentioned "what could go wrong?"

here's just one of many possible terrible outcomes that could arise...

she takes out loans and credit cards and runs up a huge amount of debt behind your back, doesn't pay and bails on you, leaving you, her partner, to legally be responsible for that debt.

do not do this, this is a horrendous idea.

Post: #56

(09-08-2015 11:24 PM)travolta Wrote:  

(09-06-2015 01:37 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  

(09-06-2015 10:34 AM)travolta Wrote:  NEVER bring a girl back to the U.S. with you unless you're planning to get her pregnant. I'm currently dealing with an annoying situation that involves me bringing a foreign girl to live with me. I might make a post about it when it's finally finished. Long story short, it's an awful idea to live with a girl, ESPECIALLY if she's foreign, unless you want to marry her and have kids. Remember this: living with a girl is amazing until you want to fuck other girls, then it's the stupidest decision you can make.

travolta,

If you would up for sharing that would be great. Always appreciate the info shared on here.

Soon I'll make a post that'll be a must read for all guys in their 20's. I'm still dealing with the situation and it's not over yet. I'm not looking for advice so I'm not going to post about it fully until it's 100% finished. I don't want the thread to turn into a soap opera since I'm not sure what's going to happen next before it finally ends. Feels like I'm going through a fucking divorce right now trying to get her to move out. Glad I didn't end up getting married to her, which was a high possibility for a while.

Understood. Hang in there champ. Hope it all works out with as little damage as possible to you.

Post: #57

(09-05-2015 01:38 AM)slappy-hintz Wrote:  If she left me i could care less. Also how could she fuck me? If she tried anything ide just send her packing.
I'm starting to think this isn't thread worthy. I just wanted to ask people who have no idea who I am. I'm starting to think this is a terrible idea.

It is. That line sounds strangely familiar.

Ah yes!

(11-15-2014 09:06 AM)Little Dark Wrote:  This thread is not going in the direction I was hoping for.

Post: #58

Gents the troll has been banned so its safe to assume that he was most likely making up the entire story

Post: #59

(09-06-2015 02:27 AM)Rutting Elephant Wrote:  

(09-05-2015 10:37 AM)Rawmeo Wrote:  Trolling aside, some people actually marry prostitute single moms, and even pay a huge dowry for that. This is common in Thailand.

Isn't it mostly Japanese and Korean guys doing that? Read about it somewhere.

Is that some weird japanese fetish, or just white-knighting on a cultural level?