Post: #26

(07-27-2015 11:27 PM)cascadecombo Wrote:  Simply being conservative, church goes and still married to this day traditional does not mean they know how to raise a kid. For you or they could know uncle jim-bob could have molested the two when the parents went out for a weekend bed-n-breakfast getaway.

Shit, a guy I know who now teaches University Math courses told me how his female babysitter coerced him (raped i guess) into having sex when he was sub 10 years old or so. And yeah, dudes gay.

I'm willing to bet Matt was abused as a child, and become a bodybuilder to fight his inner demons that were created because of that.

I have a fraternity brother whose babysitter forced him and his sister to get naked on several occasions. Once naked she would make them clean the house saying it was a punishment for being bad and they'd get in trouble if he told his parents. Nothing sexual happened but it fucked him up. His sister, who turned out hot as hell, was a stripper. And even though he got married at 20 (then divorced at 23), everyone thinks that, if I pushed him even a little, he'd blow me.

It only takes a little trauma at the right age to screw people up for life.

Post: #27

(07-27-2015 11:27 PM)cascadecombo Wrote:  

(07-27-2015 10:32 AM)Dr. Howard Wrote:  

(07-27-2015 10:16 AM)Captainstabbin Wrote:  

(07-27-2015 10:05 AM)dog24 Wrote:  Apparently he released a statement:
"First, yes this is really me and yes I am transgender. Second, one does not "become" transgender you are or you aren't. I have known this since I was five years old and it has been a very heavy burden to carry. I never asked for nor did I want this. For most of my life I would have given anything to not feel the way I do and at one point it drove me to consider suicide. Now I am perfectly ....

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A. At 5 years old - 5! - he knew he was a tranny? I was barely aware of the concept at that age.

B. Notice th....

I have an extended family member that was parading around in sequin dresses, in love with Judy Garland and acting super flaming at age 6. His parents (conservative, church goers, still married to this day traditional) didn't encourage it, it was just literally what he gravitated to when given the choice. He never deviated on the path to being 'fabulous'. So yes, it can happen.

Simply being conservative, church goes and still married to this day traditional does not mean they know how to raise a kid. For you or they could know uncle jim-bob could have molested the two when the parents went out for a weekend bed-n-breakfast getaway.

Shit, a guy I know who now teaches University Math courses told me how his female babysitter coerced him (raped i guess) into having sex when he was sub 10 years old or so. And yeah, dudes gay.

I'm willing to bet Matt was abused as a child, and become a bodybuilder to fight his inner demons that were created because of that.

Well what then, do I need to write a detailed account of every hour of time I spent with this family to validate my assertions that they are not weirdos, not did they have weirdo babysitters or live in a weirdo neighborhood? What I'm saying is that there were no large suspicious factors in their environment like a creepy uncle, divorce, alcoholic parent or wiccan rituals.

The answer to every problem is not "must've been abused as a child". That same sort of lazy thinking is why people call CPS on kids playing outside these days. "Kids are playing outside alone...must be abused"

Also, don't get me wrong I've heard my fair share of disturbing actual abuse stories. Its just not always the answer.