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(07-20-2015 04:07 AM)LINUX Wrote:  One of the good things about the crew we had rolling in Colombia a few months ago is that everyone went home and started learning a new trade that would allow us to move to South America permanently. We took different entrepreneurial paths but we all have the same goal in mind. In one year, I'll be bringing in close to $800 a day, and I'll be doing most of my work while sitting in a hot-tub in Colombia or in between fucking a model on the deck of water villa in the Maldives.

What kind of trades are you guys learning?
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Online marketing is my thing, as you can work anywhere that's hooked up to the net. But, it can be quite volatile.
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(07-20-2015 05:32 AM)Druber Wrote:  Online marketing is my thing, as you can work anywhere that's hooked up to the net. But, it can be quite volatile.

Do you have a specialty - i.e. SEO, SEA, link building .. ?
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This has turned into a great thread. I feel like there's a lot of grand scheme wisdom to digest out of this.

One thing is clear though, I absolutely need to put a plan together to go and experience South America.

I'm on board with the no fap thing, I managed to go like 8 days once and I was walking round with a permanent semi on just thinking about fucking everything.

It's like that scene in The Wolf of Wall Street where Mark Hanna talks about how he has to jerk off multiple times a day to 'feed the geese' and keep it 'below the belt'. I feel that. I gotta be banging or jacking or something. When you spend every other day lifting heavy weights, playing competitive ball and being around chicks it's nigh on impossible to not need to bust a nut.

If your test levels are running at a high rate and you take care of yourself it's inevitable. You can't fight the biology. I'm horny as shit all the time.

I don't really know what to tell Linux. I'd just say keep working on your hustle, on your plan and make the move to Colombia. At least if these feelings come back after a while whilst you are living and earning do there you can wallow surrounded by big booty latinas and glorious sunshine whilst you plot your next move.
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Most of us felt that way. You just can't get over it. You don't get tired of fucking girls in your native tongue, you get tired of fucking the same kind of girl over and over. After ~2 years of spinning Thai girls, I'd like to try another nationality.

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The U.S. has women from all over the world. I cannot emphasize enough that you do not have to bang a single American girl if you live in the US if you don't want to (this is what I do). I avoid 90% of the problems with girls in DC by not banging or going after American girls. That's one of the things that makes this country great. Now, there may not be a community of the girls you like where you live, but if that is the case, why don't you just move to where they are?

You like Spanish? I hear there is a state where lots of people speak Spanish and is about a 3 hour flight from Colombia. They have some pretty good mechanics there too if your car breaks down.

Expatriation is fine, but it is not a panacea.
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I have a Mexican and a Colombian that I'm seeing in DC and I don't even live there most of the time. There are surprisingly a lot of Latinas there and of course there is no competition with it being DC and all. I almost had a ONS on Saturday with a Filipina from a Latin club (I thought she was a Latina because she was tall) but she had too many tattoos so I just gave up and invited my Mexicana over for a nightcap.

Why not just move to Miami? $800/day would be more than enough to live there comfortably and there is the added benefit of having many Brasilians there as well.
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(07-20-2015 05:06 AM)Ice Wrote:  
(07-20-2015 04:07 AM)LINUX Wrote:  In one year, I'll be bringing in close to $800 a day, and I'll be doing most of my work while sitting in a hot-tub in Colombia or in between fucking a model on the deck of water villa in the Maldives.

What kind of trades are you guys learning?

I'm curious about this to. That works out to 200k a year. If you can make that kind of money in Colombia you'd have an absolutely unreal time.
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(07-20-2015 09:11 AM)lavidaloca Wrote:  
(07-20-2015 05:06 AM)Ice Wrote:  
(07-20-2015 04:07 AM)LINUX Wrote:  In one year, I'll be bringing in close to $800 a day, and I'll be doing most of my work while sitting in a hot-tub in Colombia or in between fucking a model on the deck of water villa in the Maldives.

What kind of trades are you guys learning?

I'm curious about this to. That works out to 200k a year. If you can make that kind of money in Colombia you'd have an absolutely unreal time.

How would you use that kind of money?

Better apartment, better clothes -> does that translate into things that you can drop little bait for.

Do you magically join a new social circle when your dollars go from 199,999 to 200k?

Break it down.

Or is it not balking at the price for nice restaurants, drinks, cover charges, or table service?

Curious.

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(07-20-2015 07:40 AM)Menace Wrote:  The U.S. has women from all over the world. I cannot emphasize enough that you do not have to bang a single American girl if you live in the US if you don't want to (this is what I do). I avoid 90% of the problems with girls in DC by not banging or going after American girls. That's one of the things that makes this country great. Now, there may not be a community of the girls you like where you live, but if that is the case, why don't you just move to where they are?

You like Spanish? I hear there is a state where lots of people speak Spanish and is about a 3 hour flight from Colombia. They have some pretty good mechanics there too if your car breaks down.

Expatriation is fine, but it is not a panacea.

I definitely agree with this and I try not to mislead anyone with my comments about foreign girls or traveling abroad.

There are plenty of foreign girls in the USA so I wouldn't suggest that anyone travel or move abroad only for the girls. Most of the Latin girls in the US will speak English which is also a plus.

Whatever their location is, foreign girls have their pros and cons just like anything else. You may not have to deal with some the cons that western girls have but there will be obstacles with different cultures and languages.
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How would you use that kind of money?

I'm guessing that question was aimed at Linux but I'll give my response. I recall when he went to Colombia he said he wasn't even making 40k a year. Thats a pretty substantial economic change. A gringo clearing $80 a day is different than a gringo clearing $350 a day. The guy with $350 a day can afford to get a great table at a J. Balvin concert, or Nicky Jam or whatever's popular in Colombia. Guy #1 is an observer.

Guy #2 can have a pair of Gucci's, Louboutin's, Versaces etc without lifestyle sacrifice.

Guy #1 can have Calvin Klein's, Aldo maybe Allen Edmunds.

Guy #2 has a Porsche.

Guy #1 has a 10 year old Hyundai.

Guy #2 can invite a girl out and not have to worry about cover.

Guy #1 will want to avoid paying multiple cover charges.

Guy #2 Can take a group of girls out and use them to enter other groups.

Guy #1 Would be sweating the cost of cover and Aguardiente.

Guy #2 can take a girl away on a weekend getaway whenever he feels like even as a 2nd date or fly girls in to meet him.

Guy #1 would be taking days off to save money for a weekend getaway.

Again Linux seems to be pulling near the peak of whats obtainable in terms of shear numbers with very good quality. But, I can't imagine this wouldn't be remarkably advantageous for the average gringo in Colombia. Threes a point though where the monetary advantage fades. I'd imagine anything beyond 10k / month in a place like Colombia the value of additional dollars becomes limited whereas that number could be much higher in a place like Manhattan or South Beach. If anything the comfort level will be higher allowing you more freedom.
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(07-20-2015 12:39 PM)birthday cat Wrote:  There are plenty of foreign girls in the USA so I wouldn't suggest that anyone travel or move abroad only for the girls.

Why is that birthdaycat? People travel the world to see statues, churches, and paintings. Traveling to have a model riding your dick while you smoke a cigar sounds like an amazing vacation to me. It sounds like a much better time than standing in front of Picasso saying "That's an amazing use of contrast, shall we go sip some tea now?"

I wish I could just pull out of a magic snow globe and show some of you guys what I've seen so you could understand. Words can't even explain it.
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(07-20-2015 05:06 AM)Ice Wrote:  
(07-20-2015 04:07 AM)LINUX Wrote:  One of the good things about the crew we had rolling in Colombia a few months ago is that everyone went home and started learning a new trade that would allow us to move to South America permanently. We took different entrepreneurial paths but we all have the same goal in mind. In one year, I'll be bringing in close to $800 a day, and I'll be doing most of my work while sitting in a hot-tub in Colombia or in between fucking a model on the deck of water villa in the Maldives.

What kind of trades are you guys learning?

I am going to move towards online website and app development. All the material is out there and there are a lot of great people on this forum who have the experience, just have to put it into action.
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(07-20-2015 04:33 PM)LINUX Wrote:  
(07-20-2015 12:39 PM)birthday cat Wrote:  There are plenty of foreign girls in the USA so I wouldn't suggest that anyone travel or move abroad only for the girls.

Why is that birthdaycat? People travel the world to see statues, churches, and paintings. Traveling to have a model riding your dick while you smoke a cigar sounds like an amazing vacation to me. It sounds like a much better time than standing in front of Picasso saying "That's an amazing use of contrast, shall we go sip some tea now?"

I wish I could just pull out of a magic snow globe and show some of you guys what I've seen so you could understand. Words can't even explain it.

I could have worded that a lot better. What I meant doesn't apply to vacations at all. I was thinking more about long term travel, moving, and expatriating - things that will have consequences in many parts of a guy's life.

I still wouldn't proactively go to someone and suggest they move abroad or drastically change their life to travel abroad just to meet foreign girls. That is a decision someone has to make for themselves and it should be an informed decision. I wouldn't suggest against the decision as long as it was informed decision. There are many foreign girls in parts of the US so that is an option. There are difficulties in living abroad but there are a lot of benefits too. Living abroad will probably be more complicated but it will probably be less expensive. A lot of pros and cons.

As I was writing the previous comment and another comment in a different thread, I was thinking about a conversation I had with a friend when I was in the US. My friend is the poster child for "future beta provider". He only dates white American girls and he isn't doing well with them. I suggested that he date some foreign girls in his city but he won't listen. I didn't suggest for him to take a vacation abroad but I will next time. LOL. This is getting into another topic but I'm worried about this guy because he is getting to the age where he is about to start dating the 28-32 year old former carousel riders that are frustrated and looking for a provider and the guy doesn't have a clue.
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Birthdaycat; do you date 'fresh off the boat' girls, or those who have spent a few years integrated (and most likely brainwashed) into western life? Pro and cons for both? Thanks.
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I think the title of this post says it all. Look at what you've written and the solution will become apparent

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If you have nothing keeping you in the US, there's no reason to stay. I'm sure LINUX has been to Colombia enough times to fully know what hes getting into.
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(07-21-2015 12:04 AM)Druber Wrote:  Birthdaycat; do you date 'fresh off the boat' girls, or those who have spent a few years integrated (and most likely brainwashed) into western life? Pro and cons for both? Thanks.

I’m going to answer this in terms of my experiences in the US but I think it is probably similar in the UK.

I've dated a variety both in terms of Asian, Latin, and a few Europeans as well as everything from FOB (fresh off the boat) to girls with Americanized parents who were born in the US. I've dated feminine American black girls who had a preference for white guys - they aren't foreign but they're rare. It's hard to categorize them. It's really a mixed bag because they come from so many different cultures and have so many different experiences once they get to the US. One girl might be surrounded by western women while another girl might be surrounded by a community of people from her home country.

I see a lot of guys online talking about "Asian girls are like this or like that" and I rarely agree with their generalized statements because Asia is huge and very diverse. A Korean girl from Seoul and a Vietnamese girl from a village town can be even more different than a hot stripper in LA and a fat SJW in Washington DC. There is more consistency across the Lain cultures.

FOBs are probably the best if a guy wants to avoid the American attitude but there will be complications with cultural differences and communication since English won't be the first language. Girls who have been in the US for a while or were born in the US to immigrant parents will vary. It mostly depends on if the girl has a diverse group of friends or not. A girl whose family has been in the US for a couple generations can be a lot like dating an American girl. They might have bad attitudes but they might be easy to get into bed. Like Roosh says, there is no shortcut. If you aren't working hard to find the better American girls then you’ll be working hard to understand the nuances with foreign girls.

Here are some very random data points that I thought of.
-Day game at the farmer’s market.
-The girls that haven’t been Americanized yet will be easier to get with in urban areas. The more they get into the suburbs the harder it will be to get them out of their social circles.
- There are some Americanized Asian girls that are completely obsessed with status much more so than white girls. One Korean I dated was like that but another one I "dated" wasn’t like that at all and by "dated" I mean I used to call that girl to confirm her boyfriend wasn't at her place and tell her I was coming over in an hour.
-Most black women in the US will treat a white man much better if they know he has dated black girls. This helped me out a lot with coworkers in a couple of jobs.
-Don’t fuck with southeast Asian gangster dudes. They may not look intimidating but they travel in packs and are ruthless.
-Some traditional southeast Asian girls refer to their boyfriend as their brother or cousin. This is so random. I don’t know why they do it but that is her boyfriend not her brother and she isn’t going to cheat on him.
-If a girl went to Catholic school it doesn’t matter what her race is or what country the school was in. She is probably crazy but she loves the D. I’ve confirmed this several times.
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I remember coming back from Colombia and going on Tinder and wanting to cry.
The first day it would 99% swipe left, then each day I'd get more and more complacent swiping right more and more.

Going back in September at least.
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