Post: #1

one thing that is on my mind lately is how girls ive met change with me. I met this hispanic chic at my local pool hall, i approached her, but kept it friendly and played a game, lil chit chat here and there, i then said bye.

fast forword a few weeks later im playing in a pool league and she spots me and quickly says hi along with feeling on my arms (I do lift 5 days a week lol) I make chit and leave, afterwords she said hi to me every night for a while then all of sudden she stopped greeting me and coming over to me. She been blowing me off ever since lol .

I never had any rapport with her just chit chat, didnt do nothing really. She s cute but dont care about her my point is i get this alot.

another girl in my previous math class we were friends, but then she blew me off all semester in PE class. I said hi a few times bout it

I dont know if its my body language or something, but girls flip like this on me all the time. Is this what women do? what could i be doing wrong? looking desperate?

Post: #2

What do you expect? Girls have a window of interest. If you don't take action in that window, the interest disappears.

Next time, ask her out on a date.

Post: #3

Exactly.

She gave you a million opportunities to get her number whatever.

She now thinks you are either:

Not interested

or

Too much of a wimp to ask her out.

Post: #4

yeah i agree guys. not worried about this chick time to get out and meet more women

Post: #5

(07-09-2015 10:58 PM)ocantu1987 Wrote:  fast forword a few weeks later im playing in a pool league and she spots me and quickly says hi along with feeling on my arms (I do lift 5 days a week lol) I make chit and leave, afterwords she said hi to me every night for a while then all of sudden she stopped greeting me and coming over to me. She been blowing me off ever since lol .

Dude, what do you expect her to do, bend over the pool table, lift up her skirt and say "ok, this is where you put your penis into my vagina!"

She went above and beyond the call of duty to let you know that she was interested and you flat out refused to take the bait. Women will open doors for you but as a man it's your job to move your feet and legs and walk through those doors!

Post: #6

You make your move sooner than later. Otherwise to women it counts as a rejection or lack of interest. You are not Leo DiCaprio and cannot play the disinterested here. She will move on to other cocks.

Next time you approach and sexualize as soon as humanly possible. Alpha is making his intentions clear very fast - Beta is the one who plays the "long-game" that fizzles out and ends in the friend-zone generally.

Post: #7

(07-11-2015 03:54 PM)Zelcorpion Wrote:  You make your move sooner than later. Otherwise to women it counts as a rejection or lack of interest. You are not Leo DiCaprio and cannot play the disinterested here. She will move on to other cocks.

Next time you approach and sexualize as soon as humanly possible. Alpha is making his intentions clear very fast - Beta is the one who plays the "long-game" that fizzles out and ends in the friend-zone generally.

thanks man, next time i'll make a move.

Post: #8

She's waiting for you to roll up on her, man. Some women will practically draw you a map to them. Aloof does not mean you don't approach or run game....It means you will take it or leave it and don't give a fuck if she stays, goes, or prays.

Post: #9

I completely agree. Alphas escalate fast and seal the deal. I am learning the hard way that women give you an opening and it's up to you to take it. Aftewards, its done. Most guys who are friendzone don't know about this. These guys think its creepy to let your intentions be clear right from the get-go. Actually girls respect you more if you demostrate intent right away-crazy I know.