Post: #51

(08-11-2015 12:54 AM)birthday cat Wrote:  rudeBoy - thanks for continuing to follow up your thread a couple months after posting it, not everyone does that but they should

I agree with the earlier post about not getting locked up in self-destructive thoughts. I think you are probably in some kind of phase and I suggest that you think about why you are in that phase and what you need to do to get out of it.

If you are in a good place in life and you are getting laid then why are you so worried about this? Do you expect all your happiness in life to come from women? If not, then what is it that is keeping these negative thoughts in the forefront of your mind?

It seems to me that there must be something more going on. Perhaps you don't feel you are successful with women although you claim to be successful. Perhaps you have a lot of anger about something on a deeper level and you are channeling that negativity towards all women.

Check out this post on Roosh's blog especially the last 3 paragraphs.

i'm currently at fatigue/acceptance.

Post: #52

(06-30-2015 11:46 AM)Don Wrote:  I think we all go through stages, at least I know I did. It's hard not to hate women, most of them are just plain terrible people, I don't think anyone can argue with that. Imagine growing up having hoards of people do anything for your approval: it inflates your ego, it makes you feel superior to everybody and package that with no physical repercussions for your behavior..what you get is a bitch, and this is the reality of the environment that shapes most women of today, from America to Romania.

I think as long as you continue working on yourself and on your game, you will go over it, even if it doesn't seem like it right now. Every interaction with women is an experience, which in turn shapes your consciousness and conditions you based on the results. RSD people always talk about "reference experiences'. I will use this analogy: Think about when you first stepped foot into a club, odds are you felt insecure and a bit overpowered by the environment. Now if that night some dude would of happened to get a grudge on your and say hit you, now you will have a very grim outlook on clubbing, you are biased, you will think that "clubs are dangerous" and stuff like that. But if you were to go out 500 more times you would see that stuff like that rarely happens and you can have fun..that's because you gained more reference experiences, you can now see the whole picture, not only the small part of when you got unlucky.

Maybe you had bad experiences with women until this point. Don't dwell over whether this makes you beta or not, instead, try and change if it bothers you. Fact is the large majority of attractive women today have become nothing more than cum dumpsters - primarily because of their attitudes. I don't think fucking tons of them can kill the frustration we sometimes get from their behavior. I know that I personally feel like killing a litter of kittens after running into a few rotten ones, so let's stop acting like it's ridiculous to go through a stage in which women don't seem like sunshine and rainbows. Feminism, white knighting and social media changed the game a lot, and not for the better.

Everybody talks about accepting women for what they are, but I think it's more about also accepting who you are, including the fact that you haven't had much reason to trust and love women. If you accept that fact and move forward you might just find one that will change that.

Excellent advice Don. Thanks.

Post: #53

Most people become red pill because they love women too much. Not because they hate them. What they hate is the attitude they have. The way they are ruining their own lives. Have no understanding of the decisions they make. That, more than anything else is disappointment.

I think collectively we all want the best for women but it drives you crazy just how badly they behave. You would feel the same way about a kid walking the path of self destruction. You love them but you wish they would get their shit together.

Post: #54

(08-06-2015 09:35 AM)Cobra Wrote:  

(08-06-2015 06:33 AM)rudeBoy Wrote:  

(07-11-2015 02:30 AM)H8BadBoys217 Wrote:  

(06-11-2015 07:53 PM)rudeBoy Wrote:  So these last years I've been swallowing the redpill and look back and ponder on how women have affected my life. They've done considerable emotional damage to the point to even being around them makes me kind of sick. I have sex and I'm out the door. I can't stand to be around them for more than an hour. Now, initially I thought this behavior was 'alpha' but is it?

I think it is beta to just hate them or am I being too hard on myself, or maybe I'm just playing the victim.

have you had a girlfriend before OP? how many girls have you slept with by now?

In the 20s. Longest relationship was 6 months. My goal was to double/triple that number in the last 2 years but I'm training to be a Nuclear Operator for the Navy so those 12 hour work days mitigate my ability to go out and meet women.

I just realized something. You're training now but aren't you going to be stationed on a surface ship or submarine?

I don't think it'll be any easier approaching women in the middle of the ocean where there are none.

Although you will likely visit some decent ports where there are sweet women that will suck the hate out of you, maybe even literally.

That's the goal, lol. I deploy in a couple of days.

Post: #55

(08-11-2015 12:54 AM)birthday cat Wrote:  rudeBoy - thanks for continuing to follow up your thread a couple months after posting it, not everyone does that but they should

I agree with the earlier post about not getting locked up in self-destructive thoughts. I think you are probably in some kind of phase and I suggest that you think about why you are in that phase and what you need to do to get out of it.

If you are in a good place in life and you are getting laid then why are you so worried about this? Do you expect all your happiness in life to come from women? If not, then what is it that is keeping these negative thoughts in the forefront of your mind?

It seems to me that there must be something more going on. Perhaps you don't feel you are successful with women although you claim to be successful. Perhaps you have a lot of anger about something on a deeper level and you are channeling that negativity towards all women.

Check out this post on Roosh's blog especially the last 3 paragraphs.

Definitely something deeper. I'm lucky to have natural game where I attract girls with who I am. (I walk around like I am a celebrity, and always socially engineer the situation to stand out and increase my attractiveness or whatever). I just feel like this is the final thing holding me back to becoming a legend. To becoming the man I always wanted to be.

Or maybe I'm having trouble with accepting female nature.