Post: #1

A 24yo blonde with a tight body has been giving me some signals recently.

I have organised a couple of social events and nights out and she hasnt' been able to go due to having a course to do in evenings. The course is over in 4 weeks and she said she will be free after that. So after a bit of teasing she is going to go for a night out, with just me.
The normal consensus is stay away from work women. However I have circumstances which might work in my favour.........

I am currently saving money to take a 1-2 year trip travelling from Europe to South America to wherever I want and I can easily get another job in my field if I wanted to switch jobs/company.

So with this in mind should I go for the bang, use her as social proof for other women or just forget her?

Post: #2

Just bang her, you're not going to learn otherwise

Post: #3

When are you going out with her, very soon or in more than 4 weeks?

Post: #4

Bang her. In my experience it does you good to work amongst girls you've banged because you can really keep your frame strong whilst they are all awkward and shy. Its very easy to gain dominance over them in this way. and if you can demonstrate this dominance over some hot girl at work then other hot girls will notice and guys will too and will respect you more, whether they realise it or not. Regardless of whether this gets you tangible benefits in the work place or in the bedroom I feel it really helps with your inner game.

You fuck a girl you work with believe me she's gonna be feeling that awkwardness. Revel in that.

BAng as many as you want and be in control of the situation and you shouldn't have any problems, IME. I wasted too long not crossing te invisible line and wish Id done it earlier.

Post: #5

I believe in not mixing business and pleasure. If you have a professional job and think of moving up in the company or just want references DO NOT bang any of your co-workers (unless you're a woman) as a bad bang or fling can play havoc down the line in your professional life.

Post: #6

"She hasn't been able to go " is the death knell.

Never believe excuses
They never say what they mean

Post: #7

(06-04-2015 05:05 PM)Cheetah Wrote:  When are you going out with her, very soon or in more than 4 weeks?

Probably the day after her exam. I think I'll go for the bang on the night as she will be on a high from it being over. She also said to me "what happens outside work doesn't count" so its her own fault if she complains.

Post: #8

(06-04-2015 05:05 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Just bang her, you're not going to learn otherwise

What WIA said above. It might work out well, but the low-hanging fruit isn't a good idea

Risk > reward

Post: #9

Never shit where you eat? I thought this was part of the basic teachings of life, let alone game.

Post: #10

I have one rule and Nightwing just said it "Never shit where you eat."

I remember when I was studying and I was seeing this girl there. We stop seeing each other just before the exams and both nearly failed. A totally nightmare when we had to sit the same exams basically right next to each other. Same thing with work... she end up leaving the job and she came back once I went overseas for 1 year.

I was stupid enough to ask the girl at reception at my gym out. Now every time I see her, it just makes me feel like shit before my workout cause she rejected me. Same applies to room mates. Totally nightmare....

If there is a place you go regularly and you don't want to upset your peace of mind, it's a no bang zone!

The only exception is if you going to leaving your job, study, etc.. hit it up 2-4 weeks beforehand!

Post: #11

In Europe the workplace is considered to be an option to build a social circle and maybe also find some girls in that social circle. In the US it's the mantra 'don't shit where you eat'.

Post: #12

Don't shit where you eat is a great motto. If you have any plans to stay with your current company and grow professionally, stay away from work pussy. If you just don't give a fuck or are changing jobs/careers soon, go for it. Otherwise just interact with her as practice.