Post: #1

Hi guys,


I currently reside in Toronto. One of the worst places in North America and probably the world for dating. About a month back, as soon as I left and hit up Pittsburgh my success with women sky-rocketed. When I went over to Vancouver last year, I also noticed the girls were a lot more friendlier compared to Toronto. In addition I notice girls who haven't been in the country for very long tend to be more friendly and warm towards me, especially East Europeans. I've had a lot of crap going on in my life this past year especially recently. I'm looking to go away from the country for about 1.5-2 weeks just to clear my head and have some fun so when I return back to this godforsaken city I can start fresh again. I'm hoping some day I can move out of this city to either another province, city, or country.

Some details about me: 6' tall built asian guy. I'm fit and muscular but not ripped (only have a 2 pack at the moment). I'm pretty westernized and white washed. Over these past few years I've been trying to transition my social circle from being mostly asians to more whites or a mixture. I also tend to not hang out with fobby asians because I believe this has a negative effect on my ability to improve with women. I completely revamped my fashion sense and wardrobe last year and most of my classmates didn't even recognize me when they saw the new me. Nowadays I get plenty of complements from both men and women on how well dressed I am. I would rate my gaming skills at about advanced beginner level.

I'm planning to go to Paris plus another European country in about a few weeks once I get my school situation sorted out. I'm thinking Germany at this point unless you guys have another suggestion? I've been taking french lessons for a few weeks now as well as self studying on my own. I won't be proficient and fluent in French when I go on my trip but will probably be able to ask simple questions. I'll be going solo on this trip as well. I'm thinking about spending 1 week in each country. My plans are to do 1-2 touristy things each day + 1-2 hrs of daygame + night game 2-3 nights while in each city. I don't want to make this trip solely for gaming but instead want to experience the local culture and history as well.

Post: #2

Check out Buddha's relocation threads as he moved first to EE and now is living in Vienna:

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http://www.shonnyjin.com/

Post: #3

(05-29-2015 12:01 AM)thunder_god Wrote:  Hi guys,


I currently reside in Toronto. One of the worst places in North America and probably the world for dating. About a month back, as soon as I left and hit up Pittsburgh my success with women sky-rocketed. When I went over to Vancouver last year, I also noticed the girls were a lot more friendlier compared to Toronto. In addition I notice girls who haven't been in the country for very long tend to be more friendly and warm towards me, especially East Europeans. I've had a lot of crap going on in my life this past year especially recently. I'm looking to go away from the country for about 1.5-2 weeks just to clear my head and have some fun so when I return back to this godforsaken city I can start fresh again. I'm hoping some day I can move out of this city to either another province, city, or country.

Some details about me: 6' tall built asian guy. I'm fit and muscular but not ripped (only have a 2 pack at the moment). I'm pretty westernized and white washed. Over these past few years I've been trying to transition my social circle from being mostly asians to more whites or a mixture. I also tend to not hang out with fobby asians because I believe this has a negative effect on my ability to improve with women. I completely revamped my fashion sense and wardrobe last year and most of my classmates didn't even recognize me when they saw the new me. Nowadays I get plenty of complements from both men and women on how well dressed I am. I would rate my gaming skills at about advanced beginner level.

I'm planning to go to Paris plus another European country in about a few weeks once I get my school situation sorted out. I'm thinking Germany at this point unless you guys have another suggestion? I've been taking french lessons for a few weeks now as well as self studying on my own. I won't be proficient and fluent in French when I go on my trip but will probably be able to ask simple questions. I'll be going solo on this trip as well. I'm thinking about spending 1 week in each country. My plans are to do 1-2 touristy things each day + 1-2 hrs of daygame + night game 2-3 nights while in each city. I don't want to make this trip solely for gaming but instead want to experience the local culture and history as well.

What was so different about Pittsburgh that made your success rates skyrocket? Where were you gaming? When I was in Pittsburgh, I wasn't really so attracted to girls other than areas around CMU.

Post: #4

Germany is a great country to visit but my impression was that German women are either very open or incredibly cold when approached, but more often cold (differs between regions I suspect). Anyway, in my experience they rarely get involved with foreigners on short notice but solid daygame can get numbers and then meetups and possibilities for lays. Not many east Asian guys there. Visitors with solid nightgame should do alright in some cities, in others the nightlife seemed really insular because everyone sticks to their social circle even in bars and clubs. In some of the backpacker cities (Berlin especially) you could probably meet up with other travelers though...travelers who aren't strong intermediate in German usually do that naturally and you can try to get some flags (mostly European) that way.

Paris in the summer is hugely given over to tourism, and a massive chunk of the local population is on vacation then...it's still a fantastic city that deserves its reputation, but an awful situation for meeting local women. Even outside of Paris, if you aren't fluent in French, French people treat you like you can't speak it at all. I only daygamed a bit there but I think that adds another barrier to getting anywhere. Still, France is an awesome country to visit for the sights and culture and lifestyle. Just don't be surprised at the touristy and non-local atmosphere of Paris if you get there July-August.

Post: #5

I get a feeling that Eastern Europe is good, but the asian player in question who had fun there is filipino, so I'm not sure if he's necessarily indicative of how you will do. He confirmed my suspicion that romania is good.

Post: #6

I second [b]Fortis']/b] impressions. I think anywhere the French are esteemed, your exotic good looks will be prized. Include Romania on your list, for example.

(Granted, I'm not Asian.)

But my understanding is that you will strike an interest in females that, for example, the Turk will not. And - as per Buddha - something that even a "White God" won't!

Places that Eastern and Confucian stereotypes will bring benefits (as steady, possible provider, material), as well as simply an interesting and different man for young women.

This may well include Greece, I think (since this is a newsworthy destination, currently).

"In addition I notice girls who haven't been in the country for very long tend to be more friendly and warm towards me, especially East Europeans."

You might help us here to expand upon these encounters for us, here! (More data is good grist for the online mill, right?)

Bon chance, and please report from time to time!

PS a buddy of mine was born in South Korea. His parents were protestant and moved to Denver, CO - where he grew up, when tto HS and graduated in Comp Sci, employed as a Software Engineer for many years since. During his 30s, he married a beautiful Catholic girl, who did her MA in social work (without being too stereotypically Leftist, amazingly enough)! "Rick" is a hardnosed striver, someone I admire. He also looks after his parents. His brother served in the US Navy.