Post: #51

(05-19-2015 09:12 AM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

(05-19-2015 07:50 AM)StrikeBack Wrote:  My sister lives in NYC and is in this age group, so she has lots of friends and acquaintances like them.

Except that my sister has 3 children and is married to a rich guy. She's also a Harvard grad who dropped her career like a stone after choosing to listen to our mother over her career mentor (a childless feminist boomer who's miserable and psychotic these days).

Imagine the hate. lolz

Women need constant love and attention. They're not going to get that from a man. They can only get that from children who depend on them.

Women are highly suseptable to self absorption. Their navel gazing often becomes pathological. Having children forces them to take the gaze off their own navel and focus on other human beings, obviating some of the insanity of extrem self absorption.

Look at how many barren womb spinsters turn their vaginas into art or science projects. That's run away self absorption.

Post: #52

Women are attracted to men who are worldly, experienced, wealthier (from putting their time in), and self confident (often comes from having the previous qualities). These women think they must be attractive when they have these qualities.

The fatal flaw for feminism is that men and women are not the same. If they were the same men would be attracted to these women. They are not. It must be very confusing for them. The have the reality that their value for long term relationships with men they value is very low conflicting with their reality that men and women are the same. It takes a lot of courage to admit you squandered your most valuable years-more than most people and especially most women have.

I pity them in a way. Most people are not original or critical thinkers. They just took what they were told and lived by it. I bet more women like them read this forum than we think, not looking for ways to skewer us on Jezebel but out of genuine confusion and a desire to hear somebody explain it correctly. Sometimes the truth hurts, especially when the truth is that the best days are over.

Post: #53

(05-18-2015 07:09 PM)Vitriol Wrote:  3. As you pointed out, there seems to be an unwillingness to change. Even from a practical standpoint, you think some of these women might realize living in a major city where people work some of the longest hours in the world isn't really conducive to starting a family, and maybe they should relocate or make other changes if they're serious. There's no actionable advice given about how these women can change their situation, even though it's obvious.

They do realize it, but again the mentality of being a child in an adult's body materializes. The teenage "it won't happen to me" mentality pops up in spades and they believe that somehow they will be different and succeed in marrying a hot, rich, alpha male within a few months of when they decide to settle down (usually age 30 is what they have in mind).

It doesn't work that way. Even at your prime it can take years to find the right person and get to know them well enough that you're ready to commit to them.

The other problem with the high quality guys who want marriage and kids? We've already married young, pretty, feminine girls that we plucked either from good blue collar families or within a few weeks of when they showed up to college looking for the Mrs. Degree(and yes, we know when girls are going to college to husband hunt). Every guy I know like that was married to their college sweetheart within a few months of graduating....no we all are going on 30 and none of the "career" womyns are married or even happy in their relationships whereas the ones who got married right out of the gate are all doing well. The sole exception being the one who married the masculine career woman.

Post: #54

(05-19-2015 07:26 AM)Teedub Wrote:  I'm of the opposite opinion. I knew some pretty 'liberal' girls from when I was at university and I would be extremely surprised, shocked actually, if they had a notch count of even 20 at the age of 21, let alone 30. Unless you were perhaps counting getting fingered in a toilet cubicle as a notch.

I'm intrigued to where you went to Uni foolsgold, because at both Uni's I attended - girls pretty much kept it all to social circle, and it got out when stuff happened. They absolutely weren't fucking about with local guys - none of them. A lot of them had boyfriends in Uni as well.

I just find this 30 number completely staggering and completely at odds to who I know. Only the trashiest of sluts have that many different sexual partners by 21.

That said, if I knew more girls who were on sports teams and shit - I could probably believe those numbers. I did know one girl on the hockey team though, really hot, and even she had slept with a total of less than 10 guys by 21. Maybe it's a class thing.

...and yes, I was in the fucking friendzone.

A lot of girls from northern towns and cities. The two girls I knew were from Bradford and Manchester which if you knew the places were entirely tart central.

Sheffield is where I went. Very liberal. I made a habit of going out on Friday and Saturdays and select thursdays which is where the playing field of local men would cramp the Uni guys style.

I came across a second year one friday night, crazy and possibly high on something. She was saying on the way home (red alert incoming) how she was horrified being above 15 notches. This was your typical 6 with a very cute face and high sex drive. And yet we had sex and that was that. She was higher than 15 notches thats for sure.

Larger metropolitan Universities such as Leeds, Manchester, Birmingham and London would absolutely decimate your faith in female students where it isn't even funny. Sheffield has a compact social scene but cities make it boring in comparison.

Many guys go on the hunt for a girl to lock down but it is only for sex. It usually comes to light when exams are current and summer is around the corner. People break up and the girls go fucking wild back home or on holiday.

Post: #55

(05-18-2015 02:28 PM)polar Wrote:  Top cities like NYC will never have a shortage of young, willing taxpayers who are trying to "make it." NYC is an IQ shredder:

Yes, but eventually there will be a shortage of high paying jobs for those young, willing taxpayers. A lot of other cities are already experiencing the slump where they built up anticipating influxes of millenials....and when the millennials got there most of them ended up working $10/hr retail jobs. The tax windfall never materialized.


And remember economic trends typically follow a contagion model: it first manifests itself in isolated areas that are tangential to economic activity, then you see it spread to a few moderately well off areas, and then it catches fire and everyone experiences the effect. The Great Depression is a good example of this and we're already seeing the next one happen as 4th tier munipalities and tangential countries like Greece get ready to default.

Post: #56

(05-17-2015 09:34 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  When someone thinks they are fabulous or amazing it means they are deluded. If any guy here said "I am amazing" he would get an earful from a bunch of guys.

I am amazing.

Post: #57

(05-19-2015 11:06 PM)Suits Wrote:  

(05-17-2015 09:34 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  When someone thinks they are fabulous or amazing it means they are deluded. If any guy here said "I am amazing" he would get an earful from a bunch of guys.

I am amazing.

You so are. And you're brave. You gooooooooooooooo boy.

Post: #58

(05-19-2015 11:06 PM)Suits Wrote:  

(05-17-2015 09:34 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  When someone thinks they are fabulous or amazing it means they are deluded. If any guy here said "I am amazing" he would get an earful from a bunch of guys.

I am amazing.

I FEEL amazing too! Frankly, I think we're all AMAZING on this forum OMG!!!

Post: #59

Come on, guys. I'm SOOO proud to be here with my amazing bros. It chokes me up. We ARE fabulous, and strong!

Post: #60

(05-19-2015 06:34 PM)Foolsgo1d Wrote:  

(05-19-2015 07:26 AM)Teedub Wrote:  I'm of the opposite opinion. I knew some pretty 'liberal' girls from when I was at university and I would be extremely surprised, shocked actually, if they had a notch count of even 20 at the age of 21, let alone 30. Unless you were perhaps counting getting fingered in a toilet cubicle as a notch.

I'm intrigued to where you went to Uni foolsgold, because at both Uni's I attended - girls pretty much kept it all to social circle, and it got out when stuff happened. They absolutely weren't fucking about with local guys - none of them. A lot of them had boyfriends in Uni as well.

I just find this 30 number completely staggering and completely at odds to who I know. Only the trashiest of sluts have that many different sexual partners by 21.

That said, if I knew more girls who were on sports teams and shit - I could probably believe those numbers. I did know one girl on the hockey team though, really hot, and even she had slept with a total of less than 10 guys by 21. Maybe it's a class thing.

...and yes, I was in the fucking friendzone.

A lot of girls from northern towns and cities. The two girls I knew were from Bradford and Manchester which if you knew the places were entirely tart central.

Sheffield is where I went. Very liberal. I made a habit of going out on Friday and Saturdays and select thursdays which is where the playing field of local men would cramp the Uni guys style.

I came across a second year one friday night, crazy and possibly high on something. She was saying on the way home (red alert incoming) how she was horrified being above 15 notches. This was your typical 6 with a very cute face and high sex drive. And yet we had sex and that was that. She was higher than 15 notches thats for sure.

Larger metropolitan Universities such as Leeds, Manchester, Birmingham and London would absolutely decimate your faith in female students where it isn't even funny. Sheffield has a compact social scene but cities make it boring in comparison.

Many guys go on the hunt for a girl to lock down but it is only for sex. It usually comes to light when exams are current and summer is around the corner. People break up and the girls go fucking wild back home or on holiday.

Haha I think I gave the wrong impression....I grew up in Manchester, and the first uni I went to was Sheffield Hallam! I didn't grow up in some quaint village in Sussex.

I'll PM you as don't want to derail the thread with endless shenanigans!

Post: #61

(05-19-2015 11:06 PM)Suits Wrote:  

(05-17-2015 09:34 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  When someone thinks they are fabulous or amazing it means they are deluded. If any guy here said "I am amazing" he would get an earful from a bunch of guys.

I am amazing.

Amazing and special in your own amazing super special unique awesomeness! Hugs! Lets take a selfie!

Post: #62

this thread is getting gay