Post: #1

Let's say you approach a girl and have a decent conversation, but you are at the point of running out of things to say. What are you go to questions/statements/topics you use to extend the conversation?

Post: #2

(05-13-2015 08:57 PM)Iso Wrote:  Let's say you approach a girl and have a decent conversation, but you are at the point of running out of things to say. What are you go to questions/statements/topics you use to extend the conversation?

If at a bar, I ask what their favorite drink is then go from there.

I have a lot of success by asking "why?"

Doesn't matter what the topic is about, if I run out of shit to say, I ask random questions.

Women love talking about themselves and listening to their own voices. Mix it up, I'm sure you'll be able to think of something that can carry on the conversation.

Post: #3

I ain't a seasoned gamer yet, that's why I stick to what Bang states (hopefully you've read it) and it has never failed me regarding that point. What you basically should have is a small list of topics or threads that you'd maneuver through in order to get the conversation going and raise the comfort level.My list is as follows and yes sometimes I need to tweak it and it still not perfect yet, but I can have a solid conversation going on for an hour or so:

1- "Her life" topic (get her rambling about her life, her work, friends, ect even if she answers in short answers just ask why? ah how come? probably it shouldn't be like that, ect get her engaged)

2- Rumors/Gossip topic (my favorite, because it will easily tell you alot about the girls personality. Drop a comment about the latest trend / critique a trending fashion,ect)

3- Current venue topic (opening this thread after the previous one has always been a smooth transition for me. By that time she is a little bit open, you got her hooked and laughing so instead of talking about rumors, look around you and ask her what does she think about the couple over there? drop a comment about the venue and how you are surprised they don't have any stuffed dead animals for decoration like that bar in Romania..huh? did you say Romania? Hence the other topic....)

4- Travel (pretty much self explanatory, ramble on about your traveling, her traveling drop jokes about you two traveling and how she would be a pain in the ass because of her snoring, tease her, ect..)

5- The Future (another golden topic from Bang and my favorite one to end with before you bounce to another venue/home. It is that simple question of so "how's the future looking for xxx?" and prepare for 15 minute ramble on how she wanted to be a space cowboy, but decided to become a psychiatrist bla bla bla..I just like that topic, because it smoothly helps me drop my routines about palm reading, the question game which all allows you to escalate MORE because you already should've been making subtle touches and so.

Conversational skills is like any other skill, you need to practice it so it will take time depending on the effort you put in ofcourse. I suggest that you practice talking with people you meet daily and not just girls. Talk to the old man on the bus, the floweriest, the tai chi instructor in the park..just ask questions and get the conversation going. Good luck

Post: #4

I think you can talk about anything, even computer programming, as long as it's light hearted and playful. Throw in some jokes and you can make anything interesting.

Likewise you can make a trip to the White House boring, if the tone is dull or interviewee like.

Post: #5

As what was stated earlier it doesn't matter what you talk about. Just make it am interesting conversation. What is interesting to women is DRAMA!!!!

When they talk about themselves, they talk about their DRAMA. When they talk about their friends they talk about their friends DRAMA. That's why teasing and making them qualify to you works. It provides them with a challenge aka DRAMA.

Post: #6

Reminds me of that scene in American Pie where Nova aka Oz joins thr choir. Stifler and the other guys come to see him. Oz says, 'Just ask them questions and see what they have to say and shit.'

Post: #7

I experimented with talking about tattoos with girls that have visible tattoos (I dont have any). It seemed to work fine. There are a lot of ways to go with that conversation. Now I have to find another topic that I will use.