Post: #1

Every time I take some random one night stand chick home after a night of drinking I can never get it all the way up...

I even fucked my LTR the other day after drinking and taking shots all night and had the same problem.... and I always get it up for her.

Although, solving the problem was easy with her.... I just took the condom off. Then I was fine.

It seems like alcohol + condoms really kills any chance of me getting to 100% stiffy.

Anybody got any tips/ideas for how to combat this?

I'm considering just giving every chick a couple of strokes raw before I put the rubber on.... but are random bar sluts really the kinds of girls I want to be hitting raw?

I was thinking maybe some good lube could do the trick.... thoughts?

Post: #2

You could start by getting her to blow you if it's OK once you're up and running.

Post: #3

This is going to sound very far-fetched and complex but umm.. drink less alcohol? I know it's a stunner...

Post: #4

(05-24-2011 03:15 PM)Caligula Wrote:  You could start by getting her to blow you if it's OK once you're up and running.

This. ^

It also helps if you're really attracted to the girl. But yeah, if you have to... stall with more foreplay or makeout sessions to sober up a bit. That always works for me.

Post: #5

(05-24-2011 03:08 PM)Willy Wonka Wrote:  Every time I take some random one night stand chick home after a night of drinking I can never get it all the way up...

I even fucked my LTR the other day after drinking and taking shots all night and had the same problem.... and I always get it up for her.

Although, solving the problem was easy with her.... I just took the condom off. Then I was fine.

It seems like alcohol + condoms really kills any chance of me getting to 100% stiffy.

Anybody got any tips/ideas for how to combat this?

I'm considering just giving every chick a couple of strokes raw before I put the rubber on.... but are random bar sluts really the kinds of girls I want to be hitting raw?

I was thinking maybe some good lube could do the trick.... thoughts?

Yeah I have this problem too and it really sucks, drinking less always helps, as well as getting head first (but unfortunately not every girl is down or has great skills). It's also obviously more of a problem when you're not that physically attracted to them, and there is a little bit of anxiety because it's your first time with them. As a result of this problem I ended up having sex with a few girls raw that I didn't even know or had just met, and probably should have used a condom with.

Supposedly 1 out of 4 women in the U.S. has genital herpes, I'm not sure how accurate the stat is or how they crunch those numbers, but that shit is a lot more common than we think. It's esp. common amongst the ultra slutty bar hoe types that get belligerently drunk several times a week and hook up with random strangers. So IMHO it's not worth raw dogging some random sluts, better to go limp and lose out on the notch, than to get herpes if you don't already have it.

Post: #6

(05-24-2011 03:30 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

(05-24-2011 03:08 PM)Willy Wonka Wrote:  Every time I take some random one night stand chick home after a night of drinking I can never get it all the way up...

I even fucked my LTR the other day after drinking and taking shots all night and had the same problem.... and I always get it up for her.

Although, solving the problem was easy with her.... I just took the condom off. Then I was fine.

It seems like alcohol + condoms really kills any chance of me getting to 100% stiffy.

Anybody got any tips/ideas for how to combat this?

I'm considering just giving every chick a couple of strokes raw before I put the rubber on.... but are random bar sluts really the kinds of girls I want to be hitting raw?

I was thinking maybe some good lube could do the trick.... thoughts?

Yeah I have this problem too and it really sucks, drinking less always helps, as well as getting head first (but unfortunately not every girl is down or has great skills). It's also obviously more of a problem when you're not that physically attracted to them, and there is a little bit of anxiety because it's your first time with them. As a result of this problem I ended up having sex with a few girls raw that I didn't even know or had just met, and probably should have used a condom with.

Supposedly 1 out of 4 women in the U.S. has genital herpes, I'm not sure how accurate the stat is or how they crunch those numbers, but that shit is a lot more common than we think. It's esp. common amongst the ultra slutty bar hoe types that get belligerently drunk several times a week and hook up with random strangers. So IMHO it's not worth raw dogging some random sluts, better to go limp and lose out on the notch, than to get herpes if you don't already have it.

You'll get herpes with or without a condom. It's contracted through skin to skin contact (i.e. mouth to genitals, genitals to genitals, etc.). That means pubic areas are vulnerable to herpes.

I just leave my boxers on and bang them through the hole if I'm that worried about a certain chick, cuts down on a lot of STD anxiety that way.

Post: #7

Condom use will still decrease herpes transmission risk by about 30%. Not great but better than raw-dogging it.

Post: #8

I used to have the same problems. some solutions:

thinner condoms (definitely recommend)

cockring

less booze

hotter one-night stands

Post: #9

I have the same problem willy wonka. I usually just get head and make her ride me if I'm that fucked up.

Post: #10

You have an LTR?

Post: #11

Do more condom experimentation. It took me a few years until I found the right condom that let me nut even after I had a few drinks. Also consider using lube, even if the girl seems wet.

Buy one of the sampler kits from a site like condomdepot.com.

Post: #12

(05-24-2011 08:26 PM)Roosh Wrote:  Do more condom experimentation. It took me a few years until I found the right condom that let me nut even after I had a few drinks. Also consider using lube, even if the girl seems wet.

Buy one of the sampler kits from a site like condomdepot.com.

This.

I'm still trying different types, I use some I really like but maybe there are more out there that I might find even better.

Also keep in mind that some condoms have substances that you might be allergic too, which in my opinion it can have something to do with killing the erection.

Less booze too, if you keep having the same problem then this is a must.

Post: #13

(05-24-2011 07:10 PM)SFTD Wrote:  You have an LTR?

Kind of, sort of. Nothing official, but I have a girl that I definitely hang out with, talk to, fuck more often than any other girls...

I actually just consider her my main chick, not necessarily an LTR, but she's definitely filling that role though...

Post: #14

(05-24-2011 08:26 PM)Roosh Wrote:  Do more condom experimentation. It took me a few years until I found the right condom that let me nut even after I had a few drinks. Also consider using lube, even if the girl seems wet.

Buy one of the sampler kits from a site like condomdepot.com.

I've actually been through the 100-pack sampler from condom depot twice now. They were really hit or miss. Some were pretty good - I liked the Beyond 7's, and some were just awful.

I've pretty much settled on Crown Skinless Skins now though. They're the best when I'm sober. But, when I'm drunk, they're still a condom... If that makes any sense at all....

I'll give lube a shot though. I just purchased a 10-pack personal sampler of some Wet Warming Sensations.... maybe that'll help...

Post: #15

Ever tried durex ultra thins? Been using those for a while, without much let down. When I can't find those, I usually go for the thinnest condoms available - seem to work well for me.

Post: #16

Use a larger condom, like Magnum XL's. PUT ALOT OF LUBE INSIDE THE CONDOM BEFORE YOU PUT IN ON. You want that greasy feeling inside the condom not just on the outside. Don't worry, it won't slip off.

drink less

keep a viagra in your pocket in case you get too fucked up.

Post: #17

(05-24-2011 08:26 PM)Roosh Wrote:  Also consider using lube, even if the girl seems wet.

And put some lube (a little, like a few drops) INSIDE the condom as well. Easier if you just drop some on your cock before wrapping it up. Makes a whole lot of difference! Just don't use too much unless you want to play the "condom slipped" game.

Post: #18

Two threads and the same end result, apparently I need to buy some lube.

For me I get off going down on a girl, provided the shit is clean, so if I feel that "you're not gonna have a boner in 10 seconds" feeling I pull out and step back to foreplay, munch, finger, then go back for more.

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Post: #19

I've got a different problem but didn't want to make a new thread. Lately I've had some erectile problems I think. I can get it up no problem at all, thing unless I'm in the vag, having it sucked, or touching it in some way, it'll go away rather quickly. WTF is up with that?

Post: #20

(05-24-2011 03:08 PM)Willy Wonka Wrote:  Every time I take some random one night stand chick home after a night of drinking I can never get it all the way up...

I even fucked my LTR the other day after drinking and taking shots all night and had the same problem.... and I always get it up for her.

Although, solving the problem was easy with her.... I just took the condom off. Then I was fine.

It seems like alcohol + condoms really kills any chance of me getting to 100% stiffy.

Anybody got any tips/ideas for how to combat this?

I'm considering just giving every chick a couple of strokes raw before I put the rubber on.... but are random bar sluts really the kinds of girls I want to be hitting raw?

I was thinking maybe some good lube could do the trick.... thoughts?

I find the amount of liquor I drink correlates to the chance I can't get hard with a condom. I would say then, drink less and see what happens. Also, being tired seems to effect it too.

Also, what about finding a condom that fits you better that feels more sensitive?

Otherwise, I would just say drink less, and see if you can still get it up coupled with a more sensitive condom.

Post: #21

(12-10-2012 07:13 PM)_GQ_ Wrote:  I've got a different problem but didn't want to make a new thread. Lately I've had some erectile problems I think. I can get it up no problem at all, thing unless I'm in the vag, having it sucked, or touching it in some way, it'll go away rather quickly. WTF is up with that?

How much porn are you watching? I experienced porn ED for a while, I always have problems with my stiffy if i watch real hardcore shit for days.

Post: #22

(05-24-2011 03:45 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

(05-24-2011 03:30 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

(05-24-2011 03:08 PM)Willy Wonka Wrote:  Every time I take some random one night stand chick home after a night of drinking I can never get it all the way up...

I even fucked my LTR the other day after drinking and taking shots all night and had the same problem.... and I always get it up for her.

Although, solving the problem was easy with her.... I just took the condom off. Then I was fine.

It seems like alcohol + condoms really kills any chance of me getting to 100% stiffy.

Anybody got any tips/ideas for how to combat this?

I'm considering just giving every chick a couple of strokes raw before I put the rubber on.... but are random bar sluts really the kinds of girls I want to be hitting raw?

I was thinking maybe some good lube could do the trick.... thoughts?

Yeah I have this problem too and it really sucks, drinking less always helps, as well as getting head first (but unfortunately not every girl is down or has great skills). It's also obviously more of a problem when you're not that physically attracted to them, and there is a little bit of anxiety because it's your first time with them. As a result of this problem I ended up having sex with a few girls raw that I didn't even know or had just met, and probably should have used a condom with.

Supposedly 1 out of 4 women in the U.S. has genital herpes, I'm not sure how accurate the stat is or how they crunch those numbers, but that shit is a lot more common than we think. It's esp. common amongst the ultra slutty bar hoe types that get belligerently drunk several times a week and hook up with random strangers. So IMHO it's not worth raw dogging some random sluts, better to go limp and lose out on the notch, than to get herpes if you don't already have it.

You'll get herpes with or without a condom. It's contracted through skin to skin contact (i.e. mouth to genitals, genitals to genitals, etc.). That means pubic areas are vulnerable to herpes.

I just leave my boxers on and bang them through the hole if I'm that worried about a certain chick, cuts down on a lot of STD anxiety that way.

Yeah, but using a condom will significantly cut down on the chance of getting herpes, even if it won't outright eliminate it as it would another infection.

Post: #23

(12-10-2012 07:13 PM)_GQ_ Wrote:  I've got a different problem but didn't want to make a new thread. Lately I've had some erectile problems I think. I can get it up no problem at all, thing unless I'm in the vag, having it sucked, or touching it in some way, it'll go away rather quickly. WTF is up with that?

We all peak much younger than we like to think we do. If you want to keep things good, I can give my two cents at a general level:

Exercise, to keep fit and strong and to keep testosterone levels at an acceptable level. It also does wonders for your self confidence.

Eat healthily, as clogged arteries = clogged veins to your penis.

Stretch, for example get in to yoga as this keeps blood flow healthy to all parts including where you want the blood to rush at short notice.

Take supplements if you think they will help, L'arginine and anything that boosts nitric oxide are the away to go.

Relax, maybe even meditate. Anxiety and especially "performance anxiety" can stop people in their tracks.

If you work on these things, that should keep the big picture sorted and condom boner killing not seem to be so much of a problem.

Oh, and by the way, STDs and especially a stigma laden life sentence like herpes aren't worth the risk for condom free sex.

Post: #24

I actually discovered a secret if a girl forces me to use condoms. I get rock hard pretty quick if we're standing up kissing and I'm rubbing my hands all over her ass and squeezing. This is what I have to do if she doesn't give head or just doesn't get me going before penetration.

Post: #25

I went through this shit last weekend, first time with a girl that refused to let me go raw. I was hard, condom on, no more hard. We fucked 4x at various levels of hardness, none of which got to the point of the pre-condom stiffness.

I've been hammered before and still gotten it rock hard so I'm not sure that's the issue. It's the worst feeling in the world because then you start thinking about it and it gets in your head.

I've never tried the lube thing though. Maybe I should...or give up on my Durex Love's since they went to a new manufacturer they kinda suck and it contorts my dick with all the plastic getting caught.