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RE: Countries where women are most eager to please their man
(05-04-2015 09:21 PM)Aliblahba Wrote: The Middle East and DR were the best places for girls eager to please. Cooking, laundry, sex, ironing. But once you learn the 'why' it takes the fun out of it. At least for me.
British, American, Japanese, and German girls are the most eager in a different way. It's not about how they can take of you, but what they can add to the 'pot', to strengthen the relationship.
Personally I don't like chicks doting over me, so I find the 2nd group to be far more attractive for a million reasons. It takes much more game for these girls, however, so the stakes are higher.
Yeah its a tough balance. On the one hand having a woman take care of my lifestyle components (food, laundry, cleaning) I can focus a few extra hours a day on making money. Not anything revolutionary, as this is how the world was until recently.
On the other hand, Anglo women are eager to be a part of things. They have an attitude of how 'we' can solve a problem, or how 'we' can work towards this. I like the teamwork attitude, but I have a hard time working with someone I also want to bang.
I find I can put small business tasks into the hands of most women and they will work diligently on it to please me, but involving them in my day to day is just a no go.
I have mentioned to women plenty of times- if you feed me and fuck me, you will find your life getting significantly better. Most women are natural pleasers and see this as perfectly natural deal.
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RE: Countries where women are most eager to please their man
(05-04-2015 07:28 PM)Blick Mang Wrote: Depends on what "pleasing" is to the man - physical or emotional?
In Europe I find that German girls invest the most in a relationship. It's shit territory for rapid notches and day game, but the typical coldness towards strangers that you can expect from them means they put much more on the table emotionally with close ones.
I'm always impressed with their ability to remain cool and collected during arguments, speak honestly, and know when to self-censor things most men would consider nagging. They stay thin, eat well, dress well, and can form deep attachment despite having high notch counts. It takes a while to realize this, but it's a conscious effort to maintain a healthy relationship rather than a set of cultural traits.
Unfortunately, it's very hard to find girls here who are not career-driven or reluctant to start a family.
I lived with a German woman for many years until we split up in 2013 and I can confirm this. Even though German woman have quite a strong sense of independence and the country is highly modern in a technical sense, traditional gender roles are still observed in Germany in many instances - much more so than is the case in the UK. For example, when my ex's family would gather, the men would always sit together in a group and the women likewise and it was invariably the women who would cook, except when the there was meat to be grilled, in which case it was the man's job. Furthermore, whenever there was electrical work/DIY/heavy lifting to be done, it was assumed that I as the man of the household was responsible, which I had no problems with.
You're right about German society being quite cold towards strangers, but I also found that Germans almost overcompensate when it comes to the significance they attach to cultivating meaningful relationships; the latter aspect is quite a refreshing change compared to the superficial acquaintance "friendships" that are the normal in the UK and other parts of the Anglosphere, which are often quite back-stabbing and hypocritical to boot.
I wouldn't pedastalize German women, though, since they can tend to be rather stubborn and bossy if you cut them too much slack, although I would say that they are a much better bet on average than women from anywhere in the Anglosphere.
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RE: Countries where women are most eager to please their man
(05-05-2015 04:10 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote: (05-04-2015 07:28 PM)Blick Mang Wrote: Depends on what "pleasing" is to the man - physical or emotional?
In Europe I find that German girls invest the most in a relationship. It's shit territory for rapid notches and day game, but the typical coldness towards strangers that you can expect from them means they put much more on the table emotionally with close ones.
I'm always impressed with their ability to remain cool and collected during arguments, speak honestly, and know when to self-censor things most men would consider nagging. They stay thin, eat well, dress well, and can form deep attachment despite having high notch counts. It takes a while to realize this, but it's a conscious effort to maintain a healthy relationship rather than a set of cultural traits.
Unfortunately, it's very hard to find girls here who are not career-driven or reluctant to start a family.
I lived with a German woman for many years until we split up in 2013 and I can confirm this. Even though German woman have quite a strong sense of independence and the country is highly modern in a technical sense, traditional gender roles are still observed in Germany in many instances - much more so than is the case in the UK. For example, when my ex's family would gather, the men would always sit together in a group and the women likewise and it was invariably the women who would cook, except when the there was meat to be grilled, in which case it was the man's job. Furthermore, whenever there was electrical work/DIY/heavy lifting to be done, it was assumed that I as the man of the household was responsible, which I had no problems with.
You're right about German society being quite cold towards strangers, but I also found that Germans almost overcompensate when it comes to the significance they attach to cultivating meaningful relationships; the latter aspect is quite a refreshing change compared to the superficial acquaintance "friendships" that are the normal in the UK and other parts of the Anglosphere, which are often quite back-stabbing and hypocritical to boot.
I wouldn't pedastalize German women, though, since they can tend to be rather stubborn and bossy if you cut them too much slack, although I would say that they are a much better bet on average than women from anywhere in the Anglosphere.
This is a good post. I've found that Germans can be very warm and gregarious once you get to know them. I think there are a lot of good traits to their culture. I find the women definitely more feminine and nicer than Anglo women too and I've never noticed the fiery moods, tempers and jealousies you can find with Latin women. They seem more smart and rational.
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RE: Countries where women are most eager to please their man
After traveling around a decent amount I would say Filipinas are the most nurturing women I've seen. Never before have I heard women tell me how they want to treat their man like a king, and also get this treatment myself. I was literally told by one Filipina that it gives her great satisfaction to make me happy. The best part is that their behavior actually matches their words regarding this.
I don't have any experience from South America though, so I can't give any viewpoints regarding that part of the world.
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RE: Countries where women are most eager to please their man
(05-06-2015 05:23 PM)Gunnar Wrote: After traveling around a decent amount I would say Filipinas are the most nurturing women I've seen. Never before have I heard women tell me how they want to treat their man like a king, and also get this treatment myself. I was literally told by one Filipina that it gives her great satisfaction to make me happy. The best part is that their behavior actually matches their words regarding this.
I don't have any experience from South America though, so I can't give any viewpoints regarding that part of the world.
I've been here in Manila for just over a week and I'm already experiencing this treatment. When I got up, breakfast and coffee was on the table. She cleaned my condo, including the bathroom, and even folded up my clothes.
It's all good of course but it's clear what the expectations are - they want that ring on their finger and pronto. Bear that in mind when dealing with these traditional chicks.
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Some talk on here that latin, asian women etc are aiming to please to try to lock you down, so what, of course, why is this a bad thing? This is what most women in the west want to. Women in general love being in relationships, most women i have met cant handle being alone. The thing is western women have been conditioned to think that if she is to caring, nurturing and not assertive enough that she is some kind of door mat, she will lose the upper hand or equal footing and her power in the relationship; as we all know this is bullshit. When girls are sweet and nurturing, you will reciprocate in kind. When I was in South America, I had to stop myself from playing the stupid power games I have to play in Australia to put bitches in their place, it feels fucking toxic here sometimes, the act I have to put on. Quite frankly I was a better person in SA because of their behavior towards me. We clicked, their femininity with my masculinity.
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RE: Countries where women are most eager to please their man
(05-06-2015 11:53 PM)rungoodinc Wrote: Chinese girls win this one hands down
I agree with you but I kinda think Japanese women edge out Chinese by a hair. At the most it's a tie. Chinese women will feed you literally, are voracious sexually, and have nearly zero hangups sexually. You can make a strong case for a 3 way tie with Filipinas. There is almost nothing they will not do either, like Dreambig outlined. Japanese win on the submissiveness hands down. The differences are little between the 3, but each one has a slight strength the other won't have to compensate that slight weakness.
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RE: Countries where women are most eager to please their man
(05-08-2015 04:48 PM)TravelerKai Wrote: (05-06-2015 11:53 PM)rungoodinc Wrote: Chinese girls win this one hands down
I agree with you but I kinda think Japanese women edge out Chinese by a hair. At the most it's a tie. Chinese women will feed you literally, are voracious sexually, and have nearly zero hangups sexually. You can make a strong case for a 3 way tie with Filipinas. There is almost nothing they will not do either, like Dreambig outlined. Japanese win on the submissiveness hands down. The differences are little between the 3, but each one has a slight strength the other won't have to compensate that slight weakness.
I can't speak for Filipinas but in my experience Japanese beat Chinese. When I've eaten out with Japanese FOB women they would pour me my drinks. Chinese FOB women never did that, but they would cook my stuff for me at hotpot or Korean BBQ restaurants.
Japanese women clean up my apartment and will cook for me without having to ask for it. Chinese women only do it if I ask. I've never had a Chinese woman lay out of my clothes for me or do my laundry without me asking.
I think it's a good idea to NEVER talk about Japanese women to a Chinese women. Chinese women will lose their shit if you say Japanese women are nicer than Chinese women.
Even saying all that, I still prefer Chinese women to Japanese. At least I know where I am with Chinese women. Japanese women are a lot harder to read.
I guess for me the dream combo would be a busty slim Japanese woman with Japanese niceness, and as open with her emotions as a Chinese woman, and who can cook Indian, Chinese and Japanese food!
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RE: Countries where women are most eager to please their man
The funny thing is, in the Philippines, it's not just limited to women who want to treat their husbands/boyfriends better. I have many female friends with no sexual attraction to me who would willingly cut the food on my plate, serve me food or beverage before I even think about it, or perform small gestures and favors. This has been the case even when we were outside the Philippines. I think it has to do with a combination of the Hospitality Culture, Traditional Gender Roles (Machismo & Femininity) and a degree of insulation from Feminist poison. It's definitely in their programming.
Also, I was surprised to find that German girls (at least in the Bavaria region, or maybe away from the big cities) are traditional and nurturing. My friends over there were really into their BFs and would serve them well, though not quite in the same way a Filipina would.
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RE: Countries where women are most eager to please their man
For me, first place would have to go to the middle to upper class Filipina (stay away from the slum dogs at all costs).
She is intelligent, beautiful, holds you as her highest priority, has good family values, and will literally do everything in her power to make your life better, she's a real star, I've been with a few and they are simply awesome (I've settled with one now).
Second place goes to the Japanese, but to subservient for my liking, I prefer a partner not a dependant. Japanese girls do have the tightest vagina's, they will put your cock into a vice grip and scream like crazy which can cause some premature ejaculations when you experience it for the first time, but goddamn, once you get used to it the sex is amazing.
Thankfully, my Filipina girlfriend has Japanese heritage so I get the best of both worlds if you know what I mean
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