Post: #1

So this weekend, the girlfriend was away and I brought a girl for drinks near her place (she told me she lived alone). I used the "first round's on me" trick, and SHE offered to go back to her apartment. We were a bit tipsy (not exceptionally drunk), walk to her place, a single room. Normally, it just means "fuck me".

So I start doing my job, but she throws some LMR (which pisses me off, no matter the reason why). After 20 minutes, she stands up. The conversation goes as follow:

Her: "I'm not that kind of girl. I won't do anything if we are not in a relationship" (shit test, I don't have time so I choose to drop this bang)

Me: "You go on a drink date with a man, and go back to your apartment with him. What else do you expect, play cards?" (based on a true story)

Her: "Well, going to my apartment doesn't mean we need to have sex. We can just cuddle."

Me: "I'm not in the mood for that today. Either you stop blocking yourself, or I'm leaving and I want my money back for the drink I paid you."

Her: "What? You invited me I thought?"

Me: "I invited you conditionally. I pay for the drinks, come back here, and you block yourself while you know that the next logical thing to do is let nature do its job. You owe me 300 baht for the drink I paid you."

She gave it to me and I bounced. I thought, I invite this girl for drinks, trying to pull a Tuthmosis, and she throws heavy LMR. I already knew that I wouldn't be able to see her again, judging by the vibe, so I just tried to minimize losses by getting my money back.

Anyone tried something like that?

Post: #2

No, but your story made me laugh!

Post: #3

Way too wordy.

"I'm not in a relationship with a girl I'm not fucking"

Simpler, to the point, works.

Post: #4

Congrats for doing that. I would not have the balls to do it myself and would just drop, but certainly if you can reclaim your loss, why not.

Post: #5

seems sort of petty. No I have not asked for a refund on a drink.

Also, I am pretty sure you could have got around this if you had not got upset. last minute resistance is never something to get angry about. just agree and amplify. When she says "we can just cuddle" that is usually just her anti slut defense kicking in and not to be taken seriously, you agree to that and pick her up and carry her over to the bed. Keep making out and escalating. Eventually get her clothes off and bang.

If she doesn't want, remember you have a main girl already so no huge loss to you, it's her loss not yours.

Post: #6

If you're going to be that petty over a night's worth of drinks I wonder what would happen if your girlfriend would dump you. I would have responded with what Hotwheels had said and kept going, and if she stayed like that I wouldn't have even brought up the drinks just charging it to the game. It's a sign of weak game as well as frame to be stingy over that.

Post: #7

I just bought a girl a round of drinks and she didn't come to my place. I don't care.

It is petty, but if it works for you that's fine. Girls do a lot more weird things to us than this, so somebody has to teach them.

Post: #8

She probably had every intention of banging but your end game wasn't tight

What did you do to over come her lmr in that 20 mins before you flipped out

Post: #9

I think you should have cuddled for a bit and kept pushing. you got your money back but your time was wasted.

Post: #10

Thinking about it now, I bet I ejected too soon. I wasn't feeling the vibe at all and I thought my chances were low on this one.