Post: #76

(05-03-2015 08:06 PM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

(05-03-2015 06:00 PM)Constitution45 Wrote:  To be honest I think the advice given out sometimes to remedy or counter act the problems facing western civilisation is mostly useless. We are talking about some serious forces at work here, mostly the 'free market' which is endorsing all of this anti social behaviour. Whether it is cultural marxism or not, going to the gym five times a week, learning game and banking capital is not going to make you immune from this rubbish.

I have seen guys who are 'alpha' by every definition, making decent money, long standing careers in specialised police/military roles or having their own businesses. They all still suffer from the same issues that the betas who are mocked on here do.
These single mums or feminists aren't inherently bad people, they have just been fed a load of bullshit, day in, day out from a young age and they frankly don't know any different.

Not taking away responsibility from them at all, as there are many who are despicable people. The point being though, that this is what Anglosphere culture is nowadays. I have seen guys who have went through the effort of learning game and being able to successfully lay attractive women on a regular basis. But in the end of the day they are the ones being fucked by these girls not the other way round. You have a society now which automatically displaces any power that men can have away from them. Women can rationalise, even after sleeping with a player that they were the ones in control.

I don't intend to be depressive, in fact its quite the opposite. In the 21st century and with knowledge such as what you can find of this forum. More so staying in somewhere like the U.K or U.S most of your life and being keen on self improvement will actually increase your value by an enormous amount. The point being is that the Anglosphere is in such a state where PUA material and god knows what is simply giving a painkiller for a brain tumour.

Let me add to this. All of this is happening within a specific context, namely the destruction of local communities.

That's come about because of several factors: the collapse of the nuclear family, the removal of mothers from the home into the workplace, and the rise of the corporate state.

In other words, decades ago you couldn't go around behaving like a raging bitch or nasty cad because the local people would call you on it and you'd get labeled and shunned. I know both girls and guys who this happened to.

But now that we're more and more atomized, there's no one to call out people for bad behavior. If you lie to a girl, you no longer get threatened by her dad. If you lie to a guy, you don't get a "reputation" anymore. (In fact, very word "reputation" used to connote something awful, but now means little.)

This is a major reason feminists are trying to expand the definition of rape. Communities no longer socially police behavior so they're trying to get the state to do it.

When you throw the poisonous mainstream media into this mix, you have a disaster for men. That's because you now have women encouraged to live down to their worst instincts but no local influence to reign in that behavior.

I think the community factor in why male/female relations have soured is overlooked, but important. The media does its best to degrade anything with a non-cosmopolitan focus, so intact families and all they conjure are often made fun of in favor of what they term "modern families." But "modern" does not necessarily mean good -- something a lot of people don't find out until after its too late.

Traditions proved a pivotal function in society, but we have now immaturely rendered them obsolete. Women have been tricked and told that this sort of behaviour is sexy and will make men find them attractive. I don't believe it will spread significantly past the Anglosphere however and ultimately things can change.

There is a marriage going on here between corporations and 'progressives'. These feminists have just a large platform in the media and in government, so there has to be something going on.

Even in catholic France there are counter movements and you will find a more traditional mindset when compared to the U.K. Russia sounded like Sodom and Gomorrah in the 90s, now however the place is becoming more and more conservative. I still don't understand why for the life of me, this is never presented to be this way.