Post: #26

(04-05-2015 10:51 AM)Meany Wrote:  Well I'm 25, live in NYC, I recently graduated University (debt free!), and I'm pretty much a skinny nerd with a lot of "stay indoors" experience.

Article: http://therationalmale.com/2012/06/04/fi...g-the-smp/




After you've read that article and absorbed its wisdom, you'll realize that: (1) You shouldn't be whining about your current inability to get pretty 25 year old girls. (2) You shouldn't assume that the solution to your problem is "therapeutic". These is nothing for you to confess. There is no point in us "getting to know you", so that we can offer "friendly advice" for you to follow. There is only, "You are deficient. There are long and painful ways for you to no longer become deficient. You should start doing them."

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Article: http://www.rooshv.com/how-to-be-a-great-man

Check out the three-circle Venn diagram in Roosh's article above and GET TO WORK.

Post: #27

For me, there were a few stages of this feeling, although there was never any sadness.

Around high school and early college, I definitely had pedestalization issues. When I saw a pretty girl, no thoughts would come up, I would just fuckin freeze.

As I grew a little older into college and a bit into game, I started straight up envying bitches for the attention they got. I felt this way because hearing 'wow, you're good-looking, you're so fit, etc etc' was kind of addictive, and I envied that pretty girls got that shit with much less work than I had to put in the gym to get a hundredth of the compliments they get.

Then I started getting kinda angry that bitches really don't realize how fuckin tough it is to be a guy and stand out. To be on the good side of that 80-20 ratio, which is probably greater in my city to be honest. Being a man of value requires work and sacrifice. And they do not want to know what goes on behind the scenes, ever. As Excelsior points out, Today's Disney princesses want effortless attraction.

Finally, I think I'm reaching a stage where I just look at pretty girls with this mindset, and just lament the fact that they don't know what they have. Current society is hell-bent on pushing aging pussy as desirable. Different cultures are somewhat aware of that graph above: girls should tie a high value guy down early, when their pussy can still snag a quality man. But if that moment passes them, they really have almost nothing else to offer.





Guess what? Age is that train accident. Once bitches hit 25, the decline is precipitous, and the great majority are ill-equipped to handle the free-fall. The best women are the ones who had their mothers in their ears constantly telling them as little girls, 'yes, you are pretty. But looks fade, and you must work on other qualities. Look as good as you can, be pleasant, cook, take care of your family.'

All bitches are born with their most valuable asset. They can add a few frills here and there, but society is stripping them of even that.

Men acquire their most valuable assets. Through brute force and sheer will. These assets last longer than pussy does. So no, I don't envy hot bitches anymore. If you're on your way to amassing value as a man, you shouldn't worry much about that shit either.

Post: #28

Only my married friends do

Post: #29

I give this speech to friends of mine whenever they get down.

Swingers:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=feeIOZH7wr4

There's a lot of truth to it. Never be intimidated by a woman. Don't be the guy in the PG-13 movie.

Also, get yourself in shape, get your career moving in the right direction, etcetera and you'll draw extra confidence from within. Some women still won't be attracted to you. That's life. Playing the game doesn't guarantee victory, but you can't win if you don't play at all.

Post: #30

When I see a young, pretty girl...

"Dubai porta pottie."

#facepalm

Post: #31

When I see a pretty girl in passing I don't feel sad, rather "shit I should have stopped her" if she was alone.

I sometimes look at young joyful girls under 10 (no I'm not a pedo) and get angry at modern society because I know that 10 years from now she will probably be an unhappy slut.

Post: #32

It brings a smile to my face to the contrary, and if she jumps into the nearest local coffee shop or Starbucks you can guess where I'm going.

Post: #33

I feel ya. I used to have that feeling, too but to be honest I've learned to live with the fact that I will most likely never get the cream of the crop girls and that's ok with me. I am a lazy sumabitch by nature and I'm just not willing to put in the work required to bag 8s/9s/10s. 5-7s are my bread and butter. Anything above is icing on the cake. The effort that I don't expend on getting the hottest girls I can put towards another endeavor.

That being said, i am also tall and good-looking so on occasion a hottie will fall on my lap, purely based on me being at the right place at the right time. You mentioned you're a "skinny nerd" so as far as that goes, listen to the guys who say you should focus on physical improvement first. Truth is, hot girls wanna fuck handsome dudes.

Oh, sorry. You were probably looking for a motivational speech.