Post: #1

I've been a bad boy. I've been fucking everything. Well, everything female. And it's great.

I've started analyzing my love life and believe for me there are three categories of women. ( This is in my case specific to the Philippines.)


SLUTS: I've had sex with some girls who were quite easy, because they were unfortunate in some way -- appearance, illness, clumsy social skills--and had to get their affection where they could. I don't really like the label, because to me they are individuals who are not at all malevolent. I guess the really damaged girls my antennae warn me off of I could add as a monsters category but it's not useful.

I want to emphasize from what I saw they weren't mean individuals. I guess the tragic defining characteristic with these girls is that I don't want to have a kid with them.

One girl reported being abused in some way, I'm embarrassed to admit I can't remember exactly how, but as a result she would become nauseous during sex, but could still orgasm and liked it. She wasn't very attractive, but she was very submissive and not vain at all. It was obvious she would have sex with me whenever I wanted. These girls might marry you but you don't want them, or they might be so damaged they are keeping everyone away, even might be hooking semi-pro.
Maybe the saddest thing is they don't follow up, as they feel they don't really have a chance with me.

The Machiavellian truth is I need these girls to help me battle the delicious, indifferent Unicorns--I need to have reliable sex available to continue to properly distance the Unicorns, so I can tolerate only occasional sex with them.

SPECIALS: These are the girls that are within my reach if I treat them well, and I wouldn't mind having a kid with them, but they don't totally intoxicate me. They have something very attractive about them, but also a human flaw of some kind that keeps me from being head-over-heels for them. One girl has a lovely figure but has an edge of feminist bitchiness-- I have yet to find out if she is submissive in bed, that could make up for it. Another is very cute and smart but had a severe illness that probably made her infertile.

However, I am finally mature enough to love one of these girls and have a family with them. In the past, I would hold out for the below Unicorns, exceptional sex machine beauties who have always been out of reach for me, and are even more so now as I pass 50.

These girls respond to Nice Guy game with some humor and teasing, which is my natural state. They will marry you , and I'll probably pick one eventually.

UNICORNS: The other night I was in bed with the hottest girl of my whole life. Smooth skin, beautifully proportioned, elegant feminine face, odorless, soaking pussy, sweet kisser with a tight rosebud mouth who continued to press gentle, loving kisses on my mouth for hours. Hundreds of soothing kisses from this luscious girl. The kind of girl who as soon as I look at her I'm in a delicious trance.

SHE'S a fucking unicorn. Erratic, making excuses all the time, just has NEVER had to be accountable to anyone or anything but her beauty. Can't hold a conversation.
My form of game with them is to push the "I don't judge" game and make sure not to get possessive as they have become sensitized to that, and most importantly to have reliable regular sex lined up with Sluts and Specials to prevent myself from getting depressed over the fact she will not be my slave as I desire.

I was actually down in the dumps for a couple hours yesterday about a Unicorn who cancelled on me. Once someone cancels early in a relationship they almost never turn out to be reliable.

But then one of my Specials messaged me "I wish you were my boyfriend," it was so sweet I felt fine again. Hardly thought about the Unicorn until she messaged me later apologizing for canceling. I don't take her apology seriously. She isn't really sorry, she doesn't need to be. there will always be more guys-- until she's 32 or 33.

I don't think these girls will marry you unless you are a local hero/same ethnic group or famous etc. If you do marry one, I guess you start to see her flaws and probably hate her for misuse of power of her beauty.

For me now the key is to be nice to the Specials, they are neither too low nor too distant for me to form a real bond with. They have weaknesses and insecurities that merit mercy. I've been cruel and hurt them and lost them due to my arrogance, and don't want to keep doing that.

Post: #2

(03-31-2015 07:21 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  The other night I was in bed with the hottest girl of my whole life. Smooth skin, beautifully proportioned, elegant feminine face, odorless, soaking pussy, sweet kisser with a tight rosebud mouth who continued to press gentle, loving kisses on my mouth for hours. Hundreds of soothing kisses from this luscious girl. The kind of girl who as soon as I look at her I'm in a delicious trance.

IKE, so did you fuck this girl or not?

Post: #3

Have you ever met a girl who was low in terms of attractiveness or social skills yet made up for it in bed in such a way that you would marry her? When I was in High School I dated this 14 year old girl who was below average in looks and generally clumsy with a leg shorter than the other. I popped her cherry but she caught on quickly and was a fucking nut in bed. I lost contact with her for several years but reconnected recently and hooked up. She was freaky in bed and seemed like excellent mother material (meekest thing I have met in my life) but at the same time didn't want to commit to a girl that will turn into a hag. I probably won't go for her as I have my eye on Chinese women, but she is still on my list.

Post: #4

(03-31-2015 08:28 PM)NevisHunter Wrote:  Have you ever met a girl who was low in terms of attractiveness or social skills yet made up for it in bed in such a way that you would marry her? When I was in High School I dated this 14 year old girl who was below average in looks and generally clumsy with a leg shorter than the other. I popped her cherry but she caught on quickly and was a fucking nut in bed. I lost contact with her for several years but reconnected recently and hooked up. She was freaky in bed and seemed like excellent mother material (meekest thing I have met in my life) but at the same time didn't want to commit to a girl that will turn into a hag. I probably won't go for her as I have my eye on Chinese women, but she is still on my list.

We don't discuss sex with minors here.

Post: #5

I was thrown off by the unicorns. Unicorn is typically a single women who hooks up with couples and does threesomes.

Post: #6

(03-31-2015 08:23 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

(03-31-2015 07:21 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  The other night I was in bed with the hottest girl of my whole life.

IKE, so did you fuck this girl or not?

No unfortunately--ED-lol. Getting old sucks, and I've always had ED trouble with women whom I have a poor emotional bond with even when I was 16 and masturbating 2-3 times a day.

I really need to feel relaxed and that they like me. Is that beta?

It's really hard to get this woman to talk AT ALL, it's a problem some Pinoys have -- you ask questions and they just smile and look away, i you pressure them they hate it.

Post: #7

dude, get viagra.(or the generic equivalent). you are what, like 60? no shame, I am about to be 40 and use viagra to have superhuman sex, I would not suggest this for the younger guys, but at 60, why the heck not?

Post: #8

(03-31-2015 07:21 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  SPECIALS: These are the girls that are within my reach if I treat them well, and I wouldn't mind having a kid with them, but they don't totally intoxicate me. They have something very attractive about them, but also a human flaw of some kind that keeps me from being head-over-heels for them. One girl has a lovely figure but has an edge of feminist bitchiness-- I have yet to find out if she is submissive in bed, that could make up for it. Another is very cute and smart but had a severe illness that probably made her infertile.

However, I am finally mature enough to love one of these girls and have a family with them. In the past, I would hold out for the below Unicorns, exceptional sex machine beauties who have always been out of reach for me, and are even more so now as I pass 50.

These girls respond to Nice Guy game with some humor and teasing, which is my natural state. They will marry you , and I'll probably pick one eventually.

For me, the true unicorns are more likely to be within the group which you call Specials. Look for the special who continues to improve in your view as you get to know her better.

This is based upon the fact that you seem to be evaluating the girls as marriage material. In that mode, a 10 with a fucked up attitude or psychological damage is actually a 0.