Big Man on Campus by Seth Rose is a book about how to be successful in college. I read this book to learn more about the intricacies of social life in college, and to get tips on how to get laid in a college environment.
Fortunately, that’s the primary focus.
Every kid who wants to get laid in college should read this.
This is a free e-book, so there is no excuse not to read it if you’re interested in fucking college girls whether or not you’re a student.
The book contains advice on being sociable, creating the right vibe, and whether or not to join a fraternity. The author, like most Red Pill guys, is a late bloomer. I think most readers can identify with passages like “I wanted to go to the parties the cool kids were going to. I wanted to be popular in school. I wanted to get laid, or at the very least kiss a girl! So I set out to change things.” This was my mindset after high school, though I didn’t truly apply it for another 3 years.
It’s the practical advice section that, for me at least, really delivers. I’m slightly older than the target audience, so I’ve already got the vibe and energy part down.
A couple of examples of actionable advice: First, before even starting the school year he recommends to search for a Facebook group with your graduating class and start sending friend requests and messages to people. Second, is if you’re living in a dorm room, leave your door open all the time. It will draw people to you, making it that much easier to be social. If you see other doors open, walk in and introduce yourself. I can guarantee that the 18-year-old version of myself would never have done any of these things unless I’d read something like this.
Seth repeatedly states that you must take charge, be the facilitator.
The most important thing though is that you take action.
Don’t wait for shit to happen, make it happen. I know that this might sound intimidating to an 18-year-old introverted guy, but it’s repeated for a reason: It will separate you from the other guys who are beating off and playing league of legends or whatever the fuck. A good rule of thumb from the book: When in doubt, go out. I actually used this rule myself right after I turned 21 and wanted to pull a girl from a bar. There might only be a 1% chance of getting laid, but those are far better odds than the 0% from staying in.
There is a breakdown of college social cliques, and extensive advice on how to join a frat.
The author offers a list of Dos and Don’ts for the aspiring frat boy (Do: have cool stories; Don’t: wear cargo shorts) and a pledge survival guide. Seth’s love for frats is made clear and to be honest, it sounds great. The guys sound like normal dudes, not the type to get easily offended. The author classifies and examines four males (including himself) who were successful with women in college. Each friend represents a sort of archetype based on style, personality, and the sorts of girls he pulled in order for the reader to identify with, and mold himself accordingly.
There were disapproving remarks from the author about guys using PUA-style game on girls in college. For any guy who frets about not having a model to follow, don’t panic. The author offers his own, unrefined (in the best sense of the word) method for college bangs.
1.) Find DTF Girl
2.) Isolate her
3.) Relentlessly push the interaction towards sex
4.) Bang
Each step is unpacked with more information within the book. After reading, even a virgin will have the tools he needs to pull a girl. Again, the most important step is taking action.
The book definitely has aura of being written by a frat boy, and it's pretty funny.
On the morality of fucking drunk girls
“As you can see, banging a girl when drunk is significantly easier than when sober. So does that mean I am encouraging you to hit on drunk girls? You bet your ass I am.
“Omg you’re so immoral saying to take advantage of drunk girls blah blah blah…”
Shut up pussy! While alcohol does lower inhibitions, unless you drink absurd amounts drinking alcohol won’t make you do something you don’t want to do.”
Along with the informal frat boy tone, there are some genuinely insightful messages. One that comes to mind is a brief, reflective interlude on the merits of alcohol, and why people who are drinking don’t like to be around people who are not.
The secondary purpose of the book is to share tips on other aspects of college life. These include internships and work, balancing your schedule, and setting yourself up for a successful career after college. Most people aren’t reading the book for this but I found it all interesting. Most popular college majors are discussed and the author explains what sort of path each field leads to.
Overall the book was a concise, information-packed guide for how to be successful in college. Highly recommended.
Free download here:
http://www.sethroselife.com/big-man-on-campus/