Post: #1

At some point she might become a militant feminist as well, only after the beauty fades though.

Post: #2

Aaron Clarey wrote a really good article aboutthis a while back:
Where the Good Men Are

Post: #3

(03-26-2015 04:48 PM)RickyGP Wrote:  Aaron Clarey wrote a really good article aboutthis a while back:
Where the Good Men Are

Quote:Now you would think "this is a great situation" and he is having the time of his life. But alas, my 43 year old friend is starting to suffer from "Player Burnout." He no longer is excited about the prospects of a new date. He no longer has the giddiness and hope of taking out yet another 26 year old. And when they text him their naked pictures he merely shows me and the others guys and says, "meh." In the past year I have seen his interest in other hobbies supplant his interest of women, and if you were to ask him today if he'd rather smoke a cigar than go on another date with a girl he met online. In short you are witnessing the last dying moments of a player, much like watching the final stages of a star gone supernova, before it collapses into nothingness.

When he does go "supernova," however, there will be no more players, let alone men looking to date in my crew. And with his resignation from "the game" he will pull himself out of the dating market and there will be one less "good guy" out there for the ladies. It then dawned on me that the answer to:

"Where have all the good men gone?"

was staring me right in the face. I can answer that question by simply explaining what all my single male friends do.

Bloody hell this is me right now.

I am wondering if my dating days are over. I no longer have that mix of excitement and nervousness when I leave for a date. I feel like I am leaving for work in the morning.

Post: #4

^ These MGTOW's quitting are:

1) not getting dates with hot or young enough girls
2) lowered T levels
3) don't have the player gene to keep rolling in the punches and filter for chicks they enjoy

These aren't guys to be learned from in my mind. They are the financially successful equivalent of spinster cat ladies.

Post: #5

(03-27-2015 12:59 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:  ^ These MGTOW's quitting are:

1) not getting dates with hot or young enough girls
2) lowered T levels
3) don't have the player gene to keep rolling in the punches and filter for chicks they enjoy

These aren't guys to be learned from in my mind. They are the financially successful equivalent of spinster cat ladies.

I think this is a huge part of this. I notice my own willingness to cut through bullshit and pursue women is directly related to activities which have an effect on testosterone. When my nutrition, sleep and exercise are on point I still feel like I'm in my 20s. If I let those slip I notice a huge drop in motivation when it comes to picking up chicks. My guess is a lot of guys march into their 30s without adjusting their lifestyle and wonder why their libido suddenly vanishes.

Another possibility is that these dudes were never that good with women to begin with and were putting on a show. It's pretty easy to give off the vibe that you're successful with women (and you should - because women find it attractive) but it can become exhausting in dry spells and some dudes might eventually give up if the spell lasts long enough.

Post: #6

I guess some members of this forum would call putting up with a <7's bad behaviour and chasing her as 'thirsty' while others would see this as a sign of good testosterone levels.

I haven't consciously gone MGTOW but I have found that my motivation at work and with hobbies has increased lately while my desire to appear pleasing to women has collapsed.

I don't think that bachelors are the equivalent of spinsters as feminists would not have preferred bachelorette.

Post: #7

(03-27-2015 12:04 PM)N°6 Wrote:  I guess some members of this forum would call putting up with a <7's bad behaviour and chasing her as 'thirsty' while others would see this as a sign of good testosterone levels.

I haven't consciously gone MGTOW but I have found that my motivation at work and with hobbies has increased lately while my desire to appear pleasing to women has collapsed.

I don't think that bachelors are the equivalent of spinsters as feminists would not have preferred bachelorette.

I've smashed 65+ women, and have been to China recently where the women were infinitely better than Western women, albeit, not white.

I have no strong desire to seduce sloots in Canada anymore. Having said that, I still get multiple texts per weekend from my previous conquests asking to hang out (ie, to bang) and I've been declining left and right so I can study Russian, work out, or just relax.

I've slayed so many dragons especially in the last few years... I wouldn't call it MGTOW but it's definitely player burnout and disgust with the state of current affairs. I'll try to keep my game sharp enough so when I go to Russia I can still cold approach effectively, but thats it, mane.

Post: #8

(03-27-2015 12:17 PM)Jneg Wrote:  

(03-27-2015 12:04 PM)N°6 Wrote:  I guess some members of this forum would call putting up with a <7's bad behaviour and chasing her as 'thirsty' while others would see this as a sign of good testosterone levels.

I haven't consciously gone MGTOW but I have found that my motivation at work and with hobbies has increased lately while my desire to appear pleasing to women has collapsed.

I don't think that bachelors are the equivalent of spinsters as feminists would not have preferred bachelorette.

I've smashed 65+ women, and have been to China recently where the women were infinitely better than Western women, albeit, not white.

I have no strong desire to seduce sloots in Canada anymore. Having said that, I still get multiple texts per weekend from my previous conquests asking to hang out (ie, to bang) and I've been declining left and right so I can study Russian, work out, or just relax.

I've slayed so many dragons especially in the last few years... I wouldn't call it MGTOW but it's definitely player burnout and disgust with the state of current affairs. I'll try to keep my game sharp enough so when I go to Russia I can still cold approach effectively, but thats it, mane.

That's the thing though. Once you have experience the full femininity of non-western women you are basically spoiled. I was in my early 20s when I realized this. I still got laid but it just seemed empty compared to the non-western women I hooked up with. Every year since then I have gotten more and more fed up with western bitches.

Post: #9

(03-27-2015 12:59 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:  ^ These MGTOW's quitting are:

1) not getting dates with hot or young enough girls
2) lowered T levels
3) don't have the player gene to keep rolling in the punches and filter for chicks they enjoy

These aren't guys to be learned from in my mind. They are the financially successful equivalent of spinster cat ladies.

I dunno - I consider myself to be red pill as they come with game. And I definitely find myself less and less interested in dating new pill. It comes in waves.

I read once "as I get older, I no longer have need to meet yet another of the same archetype"

Females just aren't that diverse.

There is a point of diminishing returns to each new lay.