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Dating older woman - how to proceed?
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Dating older woman - how to proceed?
Long story short - got drunk and got a number for a hot woman in the 7-8 range. I thought she was 25, turns out she's closer to 40. Manosphere warnings all around. Probably rode the carousel. Is divorced. Now wants hubby and kids. After first date she said that we could be "friends" but I was having none of it. I tried to convince her that I could be a responsible provider. Since then we've not been on any dates, and conversation is sort of lackluster. How do I manipulate her to get in her jeans, without spending too much money?
03-12-2015 12:17 AM
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03-12-2015 12:24 AM
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(03-12-2015 12:24 AM)PrimeTime32 Wrote:  NO

You're right...but I've had a long dry spell and there is a chance. So far I've only spent about $5 on her. I guess it could be worse.
03-12-2015 12:29 AM
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(03-12-2015 12:17 AM)Prince_Rex Wrote:  Long story short - got drunk and got a number for a hot woman in the 7-8 range. I thought she was 25, turns out she's closer to 40. Manosphere warnings all around. Probably rode the carousel. Is divorced. Now wants hubby and kids. After first date she said that we could be "friends" but I was having none of it. I tried to convince her that I could be a responsible provider. Since then we've not been on any dates, and conversation is sort of lackluster. How do I manipulate her to get in her jeans, without spending too much money?

I don't like any of this!
03-12-2015 03:24 AM
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RE: Dating older woman - how to proceed?
(03-12-2015 12:17 AM)Prince_Rex Wrote:  Manosphere warnings all around. Probably rode the carousel. Is divorced. Now wants hubby and kids.

Those are not your problems, buddy. You're not going to marry her or date her long term. You're just going to have sex with her, just be smooth about it and she will give it to you. She has done this many times in her life and is most likely already getting her needs met through a booty call. Your job is to give her the spark and excitement of a young cock while getting your needs met.

Quote:After first date she said that we could be "friends" but I was having none of it. I tried to convince her that I could be a responsible provider.

WTF? You don't have to say all that, it will just take you away from her pussy. She will not fall for that. With an older women, its she who has to do the selling not you. Just show up, tease her a bit, let her qualify herself then escalate. You're the prize her so don't fall into her frame and don't verbalise your intent. It will only turn her off. She already knows what's going on here.

Older women are much easier than younger ones, but you still have to know what you're doing.

Did you try to atleast kiss her on the date? You absolutely have to do that, regardless of the woman's age or she would lose all attraction. These days, even kissing is becoming irrelevant so one must try to close the deal, but still kissing is the minimum you must do.

Quote:Since then we've not been on any dates, and conversation is sort of lackluster. How do I manipulate her to get in her jeans, without spending too much money?

You don't have to manipulate, lie or try any special tricks to get into her jeans. Just keep things flirty, light and playful and she'll do the rest for you. Remember, older women have been through all the games and do know whats going on and any extra attempts from your side are only going to hurt your chances.

This topic has been discussed many times before so search the forum and you'll many threads that discuss what to do with older women.

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03-12-2015 03:43 AM
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Women above 35 merit one kind of Game: "Your place or mine?" - after a 15 minute token conversation.

If your thirst is greater add some more conversation, but faking Beta Provider for a 40 year old?


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03-12-2015 03:59 AM
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haywire said it all. Don't let the other posters scare you away from older women, personally I find them refreshing because they skip a lot of bullshit unlike their younger counterparts who tend to play more games. But do everything you can NOT to fall into the beta provider role, especially if she said she wants kids. Just wine her up and take her to your place.
03-12-2015 07:24 AM
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Anything short of a lay-up isn't worth your time. She should have been sucking your cock on the way to the parking lot Laugh

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03-12-2015 09:00 AM
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