Post: #1

My wingman and I are looking for niches that give us the opportunity to easily lay many girls with as little effort as possible. Therefore we both decided to check out some side jobs that allegeldy lead to more pussy. My wingman recently started working as a fitness coach and I started yesterday as a bartender.

Since I already have a fulltime job I see this barjob just as an experiment. Yesterday was my first night at the bar and I now am looking for some advice in order to convert some numbers from this.

The Bar
It is a well known bar in the party district due to its very low prices (1 beer or 1 shot for only 1 €) which therefore is frequented by many many people on the weekend (so many targets I can practice on). The downside of this fact is that there are a lot of customers that need to be served, which means I am only able to talk a little longer outside of the 'rush hour'

The Approach
I usually come in contact which each customer/girl three times:
1. When they order their drinks
2. When I deliver the drinks in exchange for cash
3. When I give them back their change
This gives me only a little time frame for spitting some game on them (Maybe 4 back and forth sentences during the rush hour).

So what would be your advice for using this frame effectively?
- Tease them on their drink orders/drinking habits?
- Asking if they are under age?
- Some quick cold reading phrase?
- Some Push and Pull?
- Cocky and Funny?
- Or just direct?

I think the key is getting them out of the 'this is a purchase interaction' into the 'this guy is interesting' mode.
I am curious for your suggestions and phrases and I will try them and post the reactions of the girls here

Post: #2

(02-06-2015 05:57 PM)Naughty_Boy Wrote:  My wingman and I are looking for niches that give us the opportunity to easily lay many girls with as little effort as possible. Therefore we both decided to check out some side jobs that allegeldy lead to more pussy. My wingman recently started working as a fitness coach and I started yesterday as a bartender.

Since I already have a fulltime job I see this barjob just as an experiment. Yesterday was my first night at the bar and I now am looking for some advice in order to convert some numbers from this.

The Bar
It is a well known bar in the party district due to its very low prices (1 beer or 1 shot for only 1 €) which therefore is frequented by many many people on the weekend (so many targets I can practice on). The downside of this fact is that there are a lot of customers that need to be served, which means I am only able to talk a little longer outside of the 'rush hour'

The Approach
I usually come in contact which each customer/girl three times:
1. When they order their drinks
2. When I deliver the drinks in exchange for cash
3. When I give them back their change
This gives me only a little time frame for spitting some game on them (Maybe 4 back and forth sentences during the rush hour).

So what would be your advice for using this frame effectively?
- Tease them on their drink orders/drinking habits? Probably not unless you've established a rapport.
- Asking if they are under age? In some areas the drinking age is pretty serious business and you can get the bar fined or yourself fired by serving underage
- Some quick cold reading phrase? If it's REALLY slow? Maybe. You'd probably be better off flirting with her on and off
- Some Push and Pull? Always
- Cocky and Funny? Yep
- Or just direct? Not really. You are the prize and they are chasing you, don't kill their fantasy

I think the key is getting them out of the 'this is a purchase interaction' into the 'this guy is interesting' mode.
I am curious for your suggestions and phrases and I will try them and post the reactions of the girls here

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The ones who want you will get your attention. They won't care about free drinks, they'll be laser focused on flirting with you. The ones who are doe-eyeing for free drinks are the ones who are trying to trick you.

Requires less game I think that your average interaction. My response in bold to your suggestions above.

Post: #3

I think you're frame should be that you're the host of the party
and you start multiple conversations...you've already got built in social proof/value
as the bartender...so you really don't need an approach at all...just
enjoy the party and let the conversations come to you.
You'll find a rhythm that works.

Post: #4

(02-06-2015 06:51 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

(02-06-2015 05:57 PM)Naughty_Boy Wrote:  My wingman and I are looking for niches that give us the opportunity to easily lay many girls with as little effort as possible. Therefore we both decided to check out some side jobs that allegeldy lead to more pussy. My wingman recently started working as a fitness coach and I started yesterday as a bartender.

Since I already have a fulltime job I see this barjob just as an experiment. Yesterday was my first night at the bar and I now am looking for some advice in order to convert some numbers from this.

The Bar
It is a well known bar in the party district due to its very low prices (1 beer or 1 shot for only 1 €) which therefore is frequented by many many people on the weekend (so many targets I can practice on). The downside of this fact is that there are a lot of customers that need to be served, which means I am only able to talk a little longer outside of the 'rush hour'

The Approach
I usually come in contact which each customer/girl three times:
1. When they order their drinks
2. When I deliver the drinks in exchange for cash
3. When I give them back their change
This gives me only a little time frame for spitting some game on them (Maybe 4 back and forth sentences during the rush hour).

So what would be your advice for using this frame effectively?
- Tease them on their drink orders/drinking habits? Probably not unless you've established a rapport.
- Asking if they are under age? In some areas the drinking age is pretty serious business and you can get the bar fined or yourself fired by serving underage
- Some quick cold reading phrase? If it's REALLY slow? Maybe. You'd probably be better off flirting with her on and off
- Some Push and Pull? Always
- Cocky and Funny? Yep
- Or just direct? Not really. You are the prize and they are chasing you, don't kill their fantasy

I think the key is getting them out of the 'this is a purchase interaction' into the 'this guy is interesting' mode.
I am curious for your suggestions and phrases and I will try them and post the reactions of the girls here

This smells heavily of troll, but if not:

Search, search, search.

/thread-15872.html
/thread-20802.html
/post-97935.html
/thread-17234.html

The ones who want you will get your attention. They won't care about free drinks, they'll be laser focused on flirting with you. The ones who are doe-eyeing for free drinks are the ones who are trying to trick you.

Requires less game I think that your average interaction. My response in bold to your suggestions above.

That's true. Eye contact tells you so much...especially if you're the one everyone is looking at all night for their drinks.

Post: #5

Thanks for the quick responses!!!

The IDs will be checked anyway by the bouncers but I could double check if it would help me in the gaming interaction

About the eye contact: In the rush hours it is usually so busy that I won't be able to recognize girls eyeing me from behind the bar, plus I am not able to distinguish between a 'I want to order a drink' and a 'I want to f**k' eye contact.

Another weak point is that the bar is so crowded that after someone received their drinks they usually have to step back immediately from the bar counter because other customers want to be served. This is why I want to get their details as quickly as possible during the short interaction