Post: #1

I've been gaming a bit since I made my first post in the newbie forum. I don't have massive approach anxiety or anything, my interactions tend to be pretty poor but I do them.

I have this fear of getting thrown out of places for bad appoaches though. This is only a problem for places I frequent regularly, I don't care about other spots.

Am I being irrational here?

edit: To clarify, if I were to repeatly make approaches (on different days/weeks whatever) in one location (indirect,) am I risking blowing up one of my spots? This is day game I'm talking about.

Also, my approaches aren't THAT bad and I would be going indirect. I'm not some jackass walking up to girls saying "wanna fuck?"

Post: #2

Short answer: Rotate venues so that you don't end up being "that guy."

Long answer (courtesy of Dusty et al.): /thread-28873-...51266.html

Post: #3

I resonate this fear of yours, though to a lesser extent; I've never feared being thrown out of an establishment before.

If you want to minimize the risk of being seen gaming other women by women you've already gamed, don't game in the same location.

Other than that this fear is rather irrational. If you get seen, you get seen, it's out of your control.

Post: #4

you just have to be more undercover to blend in. for example in daytime instead of trying to stop a girl you can chat her up over the shoulder and walk with her if she talks back. stuff like that.

Post: #5

Need more info