(05-11-2011 06:16 PM)GrumpStar Wrote: Here's our text message thread from today:
Me: hey it's <grupstar>. how are you?
Her: which <grupstar>... I don't have u in my contacts.
Me: the handsome and strong one
Her: That's helpful.
Her (5min later): O right. WF. I'm good. On the road with rainbow to hoop convergent (dancing festival).
Me: Is that your dog? let's climb and(or) get drinks next week. wed or thurs are good.
Her: Im out of town for several weeks. Have fun though. Ciao.
Me: Hmmm... Ok. why the agro?
Her: because I have a boyfriend and your being pretty forward and I was just trying to be polite while driving. have a nice day.
Me: no worries, let's hang when you get back, you can show me your new dance moves...no pressure. is rainbow a person?
Her: yes, rainbow... he goes to your gym I think.
Me: well then I won't mention your mastery of flirtation.
Her: What is your last name?
Me (2 hour delay): McLovin
Here's how I would do it. I have put in my type of response into the text messages.
Me: hey it's <grupstar>. how are you?
Her: which <grupstar>... I don't have u in my contacts.
Me: the handsome and strong one
Her: That's helpful.
Her (5min later): O right. WF. I'm good. On the road with rainbow to hoop convergent (dancing festival).
Me: That sounds alright, where's that?
Her: <She may respond where's it at>
Me: Let's get together on Wednesday. I wanted to find out something about a particular dance.
Her: What dance?
Me: It's hard to explain over text. So I'll see you on Wednesday for about 8pm.
She may either agree or reschedule for another day. If she takes the wrong approach such as below..
Her:Im out of town for several weeks. Have fun though. Ciao.
Me: Alright, hit me up when you are back. I might be in Brazil, helping my friend with a festival so leave a voicemail with your number and I'll get back to you.
Now, the Brazil line is a lie that I would design. I actually constantly have travel designations so when I usually use a line it is true and I have lived in many countries so I can actually legitimately leverage the exotic angle. However, I don't think it matters whether it is true or not. You want to fcuk so who cares? You have to make her believe that you are step above the rest of the dweebs out there. If you don't actually have higher value then you have to convince her that you have higher value.
Use a lie you can get away with. Don't use some porsche lamborghini line if you have a bicycle because she is just going to call you on that bullshyt before you get the puzzy.
Some guys on the forum may disagree with the lie. My response is open to further analysis.
The purpose of the exotic lie is to show that I have other exciting shyt that women love to do that I will be doing and I don't have time to wait on her attention whoring ass.
There may be better ways of dealing with that but that's how I deal with the Toronto chicks.
Me: Hmmm... Ok. why the agro?
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This line shows that you actually care. I would only use this if the woman is being openly nasty and I have to put her in her place. I will try not to exhibit emotion and just treat her like the immature child that she is.
Her: because I have a boyfriend and your being pretty forward and I was just trying to be polite while driving. have a nice day.
Me: no worries, let's hang when you get back, you can show me your new dance moves...no pressure. is rainbow a person?
Her: yes, rainbow... he goes to your gym I think.
Me: well then I won't mention your mastery of flirtation.
Her: What is your last name?
Me (2 hour delay): McLovin
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This is flogging a dead horse and saving face. It's understandable because we've all been there. I've done it myself so I totally understand.
But this is all about improvement so there you go..
Keep posting!