Post: #26

Lol.

My friend told me his uncle's quote:

"The pussy will always getchya!"

No way out the only way to tame pussy is more pussy.

Man oh man.

Sometimes I wonder why we are the minority and the incels, P4P, and beta with plain n chubby are the vast.

Stuff like this is like a telescope on it. Bitches are just a gigantic hassle all the way around. You gotta be crazy to keep dancing all the time.

It's a spectacle if you really think about it.

Post: #27

(01-13-2015 06:35 AM)Rutting Elephant Wrote:  

(01-12-2015 09:24 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  I always follow the ideology of: If you think she's going to get fucked, she is going to get fucked. And if you think she is not going to get fucked, she is going to get fucked.

Which is fucking stupid.

It's "fucking stupid" to assume that a chick will get touched when you are not around? I think the only thing fucking stupid here is yourself.

Post: #28

If she's a girl you really want to keep around for awhile, before she goes on the ship, pull some Christian Grey lines and completely let her know that you view her as your property. "You're mine and only mine, don't ever forget that".

Post: #29

I can't say if she will get fucked or not, but I know one thing, you can't do anything about it. She will never confess, whether it's true or not.

So just look at the facts: you have 9 days to bang as many girls as you want before she comes back.

Post: #30

Fidelity is not about trust, it's about temptation. It's about removing ourselves from situations where temptation can occur. Real humility, and wisdom, comes from acceptance that we (human beings) are naturally very prone to it.

I think it's misguided to use her trip as an "opportunity" to test and see if she will be faithful and resist temptation. Neither she, nor 99% of anyone else would be able to.

The real test that's occurring now is if you are going to be man enough to reign her in and make her submit to you. Will you be man enough to make the rules and lay down the law? A woman going away on a girls holiday or girls night out, or whatever is a huge shit test to see if you'll be man enough to make a stand.

Women do this all the time. My advice, if you really think she's "The One" and want to be exclusive with each other, is to have a conversation about how you are not cool with her living the single life when she has a made a commitment not to.

This is the real test. An opportunity for her to see what you're made of and for you to see what kind of woman she is. If she chooses to go on the girls-gone-wild trip or doesn't but makes you feel fault about it....then reduce her to Fuck buddy status.

You'll find out rather quickly if she's truly marriage material or not.

However, if you're not comfortable having that conversation with her and reigning her in, but just want to know if she fucked someone while she was gone, then do this....get together at your apt when she gets back, sit her down, look into her eyes and say calmly, but firmly. "Now tell me, (pause) what did you do?".

Michael Corleone's demeanor when interrogating his sister's husband (Carlo) in the movie, "The Godfather", is a good example.

Then watch how she responds and listen to the little birdie inside you (your gut). It's a good type of question because it's open ended and ambiguous so you can see her hamster run.

Post: #31

(01-17-2015 11:43 AM)coverdoc Wrote:  

(01-13-2015 06:35 AM)Rutting Elephant Wrote:  

(01-12-2015 09:24 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  I always follow the ideology of: If you think she's going to get fucked, she is going to get fucked. And if you think she is not going to get fucked, she is going to get fucked.

Which is fucking stupid.

It's "fucking stupid" to assume that a chick will get touched when you are not around? I think the only thing fucking stupid here is yourself.

That's an incredibly defeatist/pessimistic attitude to have. Yes, we all know that women can be disloyal and hamster away fucking someone for a myriad of reasons.

But what if she "doesn't get fucked"?

Then you were wrong, and wrong to adopt that attitude from the outset. Find some middle-ground.

Yes, of course she may get fucked, and it might be comforting to your ego to assume the worst, but there are no absolutes.