Post: #1

So this girl I'm now seeing is claiming to be bisexual and she keeps dropping little hints about a threesome. Things like wondering in thought about sex and saying "hmm I could ask (friends name) if she wants to join us" and so on.

Now I've just played it off, saying "interesting" at the most. I dont want to give her the cards by getting a excited and letting her hold that over me.

Now my question is, if this is plausible, whats the best way to bring about this happening?

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Post: #2

Good luck man, I made a thread a while back about threesomes. I still haven't had one yet

Post: #3

Haha, that's doesn't sound like just a "hint".

You're definitely right about not letting her hold it over you. Next time she says something like that I'd just tell her to "make it happen". Don't act excited about it or anything. If she gets ambivalent, drop it.

Post: #4

(04-19-2011 09:32 PM)Chad Daring Wrote:  So this girl I'm now seeing is claiming to be bisexual and she keeps dropping little hints about a threesome. Things like wondering in thought about sex and saying "hmm I could ask (friends name) if she wants to join us" and so on.

Now I've just played it off, saying "interesting" at the most. I dont want to give her the cards by getting a excited and letting her hold that over me.

Now my question is, if this is plausible, whats the best way to bring about this happening?

The way to think about this is: If she really is bisexual (as oposed to a "I kissed a girl" attention seeker) she is the one who is "scoring" the threesome. By participating you are doing her a favour!

But from the limited amount you have written I would guess she is of the "I kissed a girl" school.... If not, and her friend is hot, well, you are one lucky guy.

Post: #5

I wish a girl would offer a threesome with another girl. Surprisingly often a girl I am with will suggest a threesome with another guy.

Post: #6

I saw an episode of Seinfeld like this, only Jerry was hoping that asking for a threesome would end the relationship. Instead both girls were into it.

Chad, you've got to ask yourself this:

"Is this the girl I plan on marrying?"

Obviously, she is not, or you wouldn't be at this forum. I'd go all out here, take risks, not worry what this girl may or may not do, and make this threesome happen. You'd remember that threesome a lot more than anything else in this relationship, I guarantee! This is really a win-win situation for you.

Next time she drops any "hints" start telling her you're beginning to take her seriously about this threesome business. Then playfully ask what her type is. Try to match it up from there, good luck!

Post: #7

Just make sure you are the center of the action, not watching it from the side.

Post: #8

You should really google Patrice Oneal who is a philosopher on threesomes.