Post: #51

Get to a stage where I run active game as opposed to 'don't fuck up game'. At the moment I am basically playing stand up and be counted game (which isnt really game at all), where I'm mainly dealing with slutty girls who are below me in SMV (5s and 6s) approaching me or being overly friendly off indirect approaches and banging them but not really feeling great about it.
In more actionable language:
- Get 12 notches.
- Go on dates with at least 6, and have repeat bangs with 4 girls. (My notch count is 10, but I have probably busted my nut in/ on a girl around 30 times- I almost never get repeat bangs, and have never been in a situation where I'm consistently having sex).
- Completely work through my boner problems (been having a lot of problems getting it up for ONS). I think that alot of this comes from relying too much on pulling girls on ONS (you've often been drinking and the quality is often pretty low). I know it sounds soft, but I feel like I'd have better sex with girls I'd spoken with a little pre bang and who make me work for it a little bit. (I don't even know the name of some of the girls I fuck). Also, I find there is too much pressure when having sex with sluts, as you know they have seen it all before.
- Get a girl who is into me. Instead of fucking girls once and basically pulling a hit and run, I want to have at least one hot girl (7 or above) actually looking for the dick.
- Fuck two girls who genuinely 'never do this'. I'm tired of banging sluts and want to have sex with a couple of good girls.
- Make girls (and guys laugh) a lot more.

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Thats my active game (which is really lagging).
I also want some improvement in my passive game (physique, style, etc).
I hope to hit 230lbs @ 10bf next year, train on 120 kgs on the bench, 190 kgs on squat. I'm already reaching the point of diminishing returns from fitness and am getting a little bored, but feel like I might as well press home my advantage here.

I know it sounds like I'm trying to improve a million different things, but its basically a lot of measurable facets of the same goal and should be achievable.

Post: #52

Just stop giving a fuck. Every single day. It is a "game". After all

My results are phenomenal when I just enjoy myself and do what I want with no stress

Post: #53

- Focus on my studies
- Work on my Dutch and Farsi
- Experiement social circle game with upper class girls

Post: #54

stop relying on the internet and approach women to get my notches

Post: #55

I have hit my notch goal for this year but what I really wanna do 2015 is to get into day game and stop being so heavy on booze and to build an actual harem and hold it for two or three months.

Night game suits me great but I'm tired of fucking the sloppiest girls all the time. It would also be nice to meet some girls I don't get the chance to spit at in the bars and clubs.

As I will be 21 in February I am going to lock up some venues other than the the two Prole bars in my neighborhood. The good clubs in my city await and I have alreaded learned how to seamlessly lock a place up from my travels abroad.

Lastly I need to find a game plan for business. I want to find a partner who has experience in the service industry, because I have an idea that I think would be solid but I need someone who's worked in a bar restaurant if I can hope to make it work. If not I was thinking about franchising out a place.

Post: #56

(12-18-2014 09:13 PM)The Reactionary Tree Wrote:  stop relying on the internet and approach women to get my notches

Actually one of my goals is the opposite. I'm trying to get on some of the dating apps but I'm trying to make sure that when I do it, I do it right, so I'm preparing for it.

I want to increase my online and especially social circle game in 2015, and be less reliant on cold approach to meet women. It might not be a popular thing to say around here, but cold approach is overrated. It is not by any means a bad thing as it will work tremendous wonders for your confidence like nothing else will, but it is a rather inefficient way to get pussy. Ask guys that get laid a ton like Chris at GLL, who outright said that the most successful guys don't get the bulk of their pussy from cold approach.

In other words it's not the only well you want to draw from, and for the most part it's been my only well, so I want to "diversify" if we want to go along with that analogy.

Post: #57

(12-19-2014 09:52 AM)Libertas Wrote:  

(12-18-2014 09:13 PM)The Reactionary Tree Wrote:  stop relying on the internet and approach women to get my notches

Actually one of my goals is the opposite. I'm trying to get on some of the dating apps but I'm trying to make sure that when I do it, I do it right, so I'm preparing for it.

I want to increase my online and especially social circle game in 2015, and be less reliant on cold approach to meet women. It might not be a popular thing to say around here, but cold approach is overrated. It is not by any means a bad thing as it will work tremendous wonders for your confidence like nothing else will, but it is a rather inefficient way to get pussy. Ask guys that get laid a ton like Chris at GLL, who outright said that the most successful guys don't get the bulk of their pussy from cold approach.

In other words it's not the only well you want to draw from, and for the most part it's been my only well, so I want to "diversify" if we want to go along with that analogy.

Chris from GLL is an extremely attractive looking guy. He is in great shape. Using online sites for a means of hooking up works very well for guys who are very attractive. If you are only average or above-average looking, it can be more difficult. I am not knocking him by any means but this is the reality of whats going on. So more power to him & guys like him who can utilize their looks in that manner.

I'm beginning to think that a lot of the free dating sites/apps like OKCupid, POF, and Tinder are just extensions of social media for women to receive validation from men.

I'm a fairly decent looking guy. I'm 28, cute face, a little chubby (workin on it) but have a muscular build as well. I'm kind of short 5'9". I have had a lot of success with online dating though soo many of the women on those sites are broken omegas with inflated egos.

I'm not knocking online game since a lot of my notches have been from online game but I am getting pretty sick of it. I think I came to this conclusion after two things:

1. Tinder experiences in the USA vs The Philippines. Night & day in terms of both quality and quantity. Over there, I was literally a king. Here, even the decent looking chicks I match here with in the US dont even bother to reply (they swiped right on me so they must at least think I'm attractive?). Over there, they were opening me.

2. I recently created an OKCupid account. This was my first time on OKCupid and holy shit, what a bunch of trashy broads. It really turned me off. I haven't yet procured a date from OKCupid. The women there seem like a waste of time who are using it for validation. The women there seem to be low quality.

I just finished Daygame Nitro by Krauser (and read Day Bang earlier this year). I think I am going to hit the streets to get my notches. It's a worthy goal and I think this is a step I need to take as a man to improve who I am as a man. I can't go my whole life without doing this. I have done a few approaches in my life so I think this will be good for me to do 100+ approaches.

I'll keep my online dating profiles but I dont plan to expend any further energy in that arena. How did guys in the pre-internet days meet women? They approached them in person.

Post: #58

(12-19-2014 10:26 AM)The Reactionary Tree Wrote:  I'm beginning to think that a lot of the free dating sites/apps like OKCupid, POF, and Tinder are just extensions of social media for women to receive validation from men.

Oh it's not that I don't agree, it's just that it can be much more efficient.

Your quality level will be much higher with cold approach (which is its strongest point), but it can be pretty inefficient even if you are good looking. That's what Chris was basically saying and I can also confirm it.

Of course there's a difference between night game and day game too.

Just don't be too reliant on it. The pre-internet analogy is pretty bad because social skills and attention spans are almost nonexistent these days. The internet has fucked up real game but there's nothing we can do about it, sadly.

Post: #59

One thing to consider is that cold approach is actually fun, whereas typing messages to dumb wenches on a computer, while maybe more efficient, is pretty awful.

Post: #60

- Increasing online game presence, crafting the art better.
- Dropping as little bait as possible to maintain the same or better results, (big bait too early fucks the interaction, women are constantly trying to validate themselves, don't do it too with your bait, to mimic their validation schemes. which leads to..
- Upping the daily grind, more self improvement.. shooting for +15-25% in next year.
... finances are a sore spot for me and need much effort.
- Reducing clown game and increasing depth of wit, and solidify frame.
- Build stronger social circles.
- quality over notch count. I've the got notches, but not from enough 8-9s.

Post: #61

Well this thread seems to be trending toward general goals rather than just game, but I'll bite.

Game:
-Double my notch count- Currently at 10, so +10 notches.
-Build a bigger social circle/improve social circle game
-Build a harem- my biggest problem is getting sex consistently, most of my lays have been ONS or with girls I only see a few times.
-Figure out how this Tinder thingamajig works
-Improve quality- no more girls below a 6, ever.
-Improve day game/ramble abilities.
-Stop falling out of the game, be CONSISTENT.

General:
-Travel to Peru for 3 months (just booked ticket)
-Conversational proficiency in Spanish
-Build a bigger social circle/improve social circle game
-Drink Ayahuasca
-Bodyweight at 160lbs by 3/15
-Establish my own freelance/copywriting business
-Build a successful Youtube channel (working with a partner on this)
-Improve camera/video production skills
-Resume wrestling/jiujitsu training in June 2015, add boxing as well.
-Figure out exactly what I want to do with my blog and set a monthly traffic goal.
-Direct a short film

Some of these need to be refined to fit S.M.A.R.T. criteria but that's what I've got going on next year.

Post: #62

Gamewise:
Get more than 1 notch
Dress Better
Build better social cirkels
Get out of the house
Approach more women sober

Post: #63

- Move closer to the city (better logistics).
- Get better wingmen to go out with.
- Raise my standards (I want younger, skinnier girls).
- Limit fapping to once a week to motivate me more.
- Spend more time working out and reading.

Post: #64

I have come to an end of very insightful time period which is clearing away now. It was a hiatus from pursuing pussy, or rather approaching, which was much needed to understand my desires which lead to some of the goals I will be listing down below. During this intervel, I found it crucial to stop approaching to better understand some issues at hand.

Here are some of the goals I would like to successfully accomplish:

- Four notches throughout the year, I am only sitting on 1 at the moment, and I am not talking about ONS. It is more of four mimi-relationships where I have constant supply of pussy.
- Maintain my non smoking ritual.
- Limit to very minimal fap sessions. I will try to abstain myself to less than 2 handful of times.
- Reach 180 pounds of lean and somewhat bulky body by the end of March. I have broad shoulders and good muscle tone already so ton of cadio with bodyweight exercises I should be set. After 180, climb down to 170 by the end of 2015. I am currently 190, standing at 5'11" at the age of 19.
- Read 50 books. Although this may vary because of my 7:00 to 5:00 job.
- Quit drinking for a year, the year being 2015. If anyone can advise me on this, that would be great.

Post: #65

(12-22-2014 07:43 PM)Raccoon Wrote:  - Quit drinking for a year, the year being 2015. If anyone can advise me on this, that would be great.

The link below is from the Lifestyle thread, should be helpful. Good luck! I know I'll have a hard time doing a year, but I looked into doing a few months to lose weight and to possibly see a difference health wise. With January and February being boring winter months and no holidays to get sloshed or eat like a pig, that looked to be the perfect time to get fit.

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Post: #66

Really master day game in 2015.

Approach whoever I want. Not waiting/thinking, just going for it.

Post: #67

Next year, I want to bang half the number of girls I banged this year, but significantly increase the quality and reduce time/money/effort spent to bang them.

I hope I've paid my dues this year: learned the basics, got some good experience and improved my game. Now it's time to make additional improvements and perhaps slow down rather than go for quantity.

Post: #68

One of my goals is to do more zero date bangs, get the girls to come straight to my apartment for sex.

Also to take my fitness to another level. It is good now, I am a yoga instructor, but I could be superhuman if I put in the work.

I will also look into juicing, maybe get a vitamix reconditioned juicer.

Post: #69

The start of 2014 was pretty rough for me, but now that I've got my mind right I want to focus on:

making at least double my expenses
long term financial plan
mess around with a few side hustles
figure out what to do with the money in my bank

live in a nicer place
make an effort to get a social circle going

consistently game and don't fall into FWB situations for too long (I went hard with my game efforts and fucked 3 girls my first 2 weeks in my new city then have just been seeing one of them ever since)

get more into cooking and cook neaEly all my meals
start hitting the gym again.


My problem is that Im great at c focusing and being obsessive over things but without proper planning it ends up being detrimental.

so my number 1 goal Will be to consciously make an effort to plan what I can and steer myself in the right direction.

Post: #70

(12-23-2014 08:52 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  The start of 2014 was pretty rough for me, but now that I've got my mind right I want to focus on:

making at least double my expenses
long term financial plan
mess around with a few side hustles
figure out what to do with the money in my bank

live in a nicer place
make an effort to get a social circle going

consistently game and don't fall into FWB situations for too long (I went hard with my game efforts and fucked 3 girls my first 2 weeks in my new city then have just been seeing one of them ever since)

get more into cooking and cook neaEly all my meals
start hitting the gym again.


My problem is that Im great at c focusing and being obsessive over things but without proper planning it ends up being detrimental.

so my number 1 goal Will be to consciously make an effort to plan what I can and steer myself in the right direction.

If I could provide constructive criticism, these goals are too vague to be executed.

Perhaps:
- Making $X at $Y expenditure
- Complete 1, 2, and 5 year financial plan
- Execute 3 ideas for supplementary income which earn more than $X
- Research and then Invest X% of my money in at least two additional asset classes
- Move to a place which has improvement X (e.g. pool, closer to city center, has a view etc)
- Make at least one new friend from at least 5 other walks of life in order to build social circle
- Maintain harem of at least 1 steady girl, 1 side girl, and 1 ONS per month (example). Will be achieved by X,Y,Z... (e.g. how many approaches via which avenue per week)
- From January cook 1 meal per week, increasing to X meals per week over Y weeks
- From January go to gym once per week and complete routine X, escalating to 3 times per week by March

Post: #71

(12-08-2014 03:23 PM)RURALGAMER Wrote:  I posted before about having a girl friend.

My focus is going to be the ongoing gaming necessary in this situation.
At the same time I've got some personal inner game type work and value increasing to do.

Maybe list some specific goals pursuant to this? E.g. where is your attractiveness lacking and what goals would you use to improve upon it, and where is your meeting of girls lacking and what goals would you use for this.

Post: #72

Good thread.

here's my list:

1. go back to my house in greece when i finish my jobs here and got more time.
Then i need nothing but time to re-think my situation, 'singleness' etc. that is...to see where i suck and what i am doing wrong, what to improve etc.

2. travel at some point to at least one of those places: Israel, Brazil, Hungary, the Baltic countries.

3. Learn a new language (possibly hungarian, portuguese, hebrew depending on my luck in said countries).

4. Couldn't care about count: i only care about quality and hope to land anything over 7.


What i am NOT interested in though:

1. forcing myself to like girls i've heard are easy but not attracted to them otherwise (russian, japanese, SEA).
2. travelling to place where the girls overlook guys like me (england, scandinavia, holland, belgium etc.
3. improve my daygame (frankly i have none), my only counts come from nightgame (10%) or so and dating site (the vast majority).


That for now, but yeah there are more things i guess...just too lazy to type now...

Post: #73

Smash 2 good looking (7/10+) white girls. If I accomplish this task early enough in the year, then I am going to push it to 4. It is a challenge I have yet to conquer other than one SNL I had with one who was in a black girl sorority. I exploded onto the scene in 2014 with 22 bangs and don't care too much about notch count anymore. Gaming women goes to the back burner while earning more money ascends to become my primary focus.

Post: #74

Not give a fuck (really and truly), get laid with an 8, no fucks given, get blown out by a 6, no fucks given!!

Completely banish one-itis, no more thinking that a girl is so amazing, no more believing their bullshit, no more tolerating bullshit!

Pump and dump any chick that isn't worth the investment, no more overlooking red flags in order to keep getting my dick wet from a hot chick, if she's not a genuinely quality chick, she's going in the pump and dump bin.

Post: #75

I have no idea how to set game goals for myself.

Any pointers?

Serious question.

Right now I am happy with my sex life. Sure there is always room for improvement, but I don't know how to quantify that. I barely know if the last girl I banged was an 8, or was she a 9? Maybe some guys would say she's a 7.

Don't get me wrong - my sex drive is incredibly high, and my dick can barely keep up with me most of the time.

But how do I set goals around that? I'm going to actively pursue sleeping with new and good looking girls in the coming year, but beyond that I'm conflicted with setting a specific direction for myself.