Post: #1

Do you tend to kiss the girl in the cheek two times, hug, do nothing and keep walking or do you do something else?

Post: #2

I guess it's different depending on your country.
In France, kissing the cheeks 2 times is common and won't alarm the girl.
I believe in Germany it's uncommon, so wouldn't advise it there, for example.

But I think you have to directly show you're not afraid of her and make a physical contact.
Wether it's touching her shoulder or kissing her, it's important to show you're not an "asocial gamer who never talks to girls".

Post: #3

I hug. It's a good in-between.

HSLD

Post: #4

As always.. it depends. If initial interaction was good and there is obvious chemistry [also on the phone] then hug or light short kiss is fine. Otherwise hugging [reaching out hand to hug first] is all I do.

Post: #5

One cheek

Post: #6

Light hug

Post: #7

I always go for a light kiss on the lips if her body language is off then a peck on the cheek. It really take the pressure off and set the tone on date..

Post: #8

Hug open but don't hug close.

Post: #9

Interesting.
I haven't been on many first dates as I'm more of a night-game, one night pull kind of guy.

I am trying to transition into this type of game and I think I quite like the kiss on the cheek greeting.
Simply, classy, dominant. I like it.

Post: #10

In the US, it always pays to go for a deep hug. Get it warm right from the start.

Post: #11

Judge the body language.

If you're new and unfamiliar with women, getting a good hug should be your priority.

As you gain experience, start going for the kiss. Hug her well, pull back and read her eyes. You can tell a lot from how she looks at you. If you kiss her, it will set the tone as fun and sexual from the beginning. After a light kiss, pull back, smile at her, and say "alright let's go!" Keep a positive mood.

Think about what most males would do....they would be shocked to kiss a girl so soon and when you meet them. A true player knows kissing is natural....so when you pull back convey that vibe.

Post: #12

I actually always dislike greeting girls in social settings, with guys it's easy - just a hand shake. It always gets a bit weird when you are greeting girls who you have a professional relationship with in social settings.

Post: #13

As I'm running R selection, the need to minimise social touching/hand holding etc is important. So it varies on the girl, i'll never kiss them but a hug or european cheek kiss

Post: #14

I'v say go for a deep, smooth hug after you have already had put on a good trendy perfume so that she feels a strong masculine touch of you and make a good first impression on you.