Post: #1

I have been struggling for a little while with approaching. I've always had success in landing numbers be it be with a short interaction or from a girl whom I've sat beside for hours at a coffee shop. I avoid night game because I can never seem to get anywhere and because I am new to it (just turned 19). During day game, I have been dealing with an issue of: "why I should approach them and what does the girl recieve because she barely knows me?". I guess as of late I have hit a dry spell for a month or so now and it has really shot down my confidence. I use to love the magical feeling of closing a number and I just can't seem to get myself in the same state. If you guys got some advice on the matter that would be great.

Post: #2

1) Ease up on yourself.

2) Change the focus of what you're doing. Away from #'s, and more towards fun.

When you talk to a chick, the aim isn't so much to get her #, put your hands on her, take her back to the Autobiography section of the book store for a semi-public bj.

The game is to be so interesting and exciting, that everything else that happens between the two of you you, is a foregone conclusion.

3) Change your environment.

WIA

Post: #3

1) New Recipe for Securing First-Date Bangs - Roosh V Forum

figure out your logistics. have a plan. you're young so no bars yet, but getting some booze and drinking on the beach or park will do. also weed. do you smoke weed?

http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2007/08/gre...-time.html

http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2011/05/the...-time.html

2) ease up on yourself. a girl wants you to talk/court/fuck her because she wants to be with a guy just as much as you want to be with her. she's not more valuable, interesting or whatever else. and she want's the D

The problem is that a 19 y.o girl is getting and entertaining offers from guys up that are going on 40. so you gotta do the work

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Read the entire thread above.. and the stuff below

http://www.rooshv.com/the-fishbowl

http://www.rooshv.com/its-better-to-have...han-brains

http://www.rooshv.com/direct-day-game-for-beginners

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Post: #4

@WestIndianArchie

Thank you for you advice! I will take everything you've said into deep consideration and will attempt to have more fun rather than just make it all about getting a number.

@calihunter

Unfortunately I don't smoke weed, or cigarettes (recently quit on darts). I have briefly skimmed through most of the links you provided me with and I plan of giving all of the threads a good read by the end of tonight. Thank you!

If any one of you could direct me in the way of how to keep a log going that would be great. It would be great to have experts, such as yourselves, dissect my moves and give feed back.

Cheers

Post: #5

Do not derive your confidence from women at any age, but especially at this age. You are 19...understand that at 19 most men have trouble because in your peer group women are much more sexually valuable at that age. Of course continue working on your game and thightening things up but also focus on developing an interesting and successful life and draw confidence from that. Keep approaching, but have fun with it and understand that if you build something great with your life you have a long window of ever-increasing success with women ahead of you...that alone should boost your confidence and make it easier to take the blow outs when they come, which they will.