Post: #51

(04-14-2011 02:52 PM)MiXX Wrote:  Now...I know what most of you are thinking: I did not get a bang! You're right! I did not get to bang her, but I also am not getting to waste countless hours of my time on Facebook with a woman who had no intentions of bangin me. Ultimately, she just wanted another orbiter on her Facebook wall to kiss her ass.

Yup. Bitches recruit orbiter talent into their Facebook rotations like we recruit tail for our rotations. It's disgusting, though I'm sometimes glad so many sausages fall into that trap. More opportunities for me.

Post: #52

(04-14-2011 03:04 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

(04-14-2011 02:56 PM)Lumiere Wrote:  I dont add gırls on facebook usually untıl after ı bang them

Ha! Lumiere, if you do not mind, I am going to borrow this line from you:

Target: "add me to your Facebook!"
Mixx:"Facebook?....wait, sorry, I don't add girls to my Facebook until after we've had sex...not before. House rules!"

lmao!

Mixx

Glad you lıke ıt

Sure you can use ıt

Thats pretty much exactly what I use

And can also add somethıng lıke 'You have to promıse ıf we do have sex and I do add you that you are not goıng to be mean to my other gırlfrıends on there though. You cant stay ın the ınner cırcle ıf you are goıng to be mean'

Post: #53

(04-11-2011 02:41 PM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  I got her data and moved her into my prospect list (when I'm back in her town). Later, through the help of a fake facebook profile I keep for just these purposes, I learned that she has 900+ facebook "friends."

Do you think I can compete or stick out in a crowd of 900? Right now, I'm one of very few who are lurking in the shadows. I still have the blessing of intrigue.

Of course you can. Do you really think she's interacting with 900 people on a daily basis? I have some friends on FB with multiple hundreds of "friends", but if you look at who actually writes on their wall and responds to their updates, it's usually just the same 15 people.

I can't see going without a FB page at this point. The pros far outweigh the cons and it's just too great a tool for staying in touch with people you normally wouldn't call, like relatives and friends overseas. If a girl you meet wants to add you, then just set up a special privacy rule for people you don't know that well so that they can't access your vital information. FB has excellent privacy filters.

Post: #54

Speakeasy,

I'm going to troll you so that you'll reach 2000 posts more quickly. You suck at fb!

Only 69 more to go bro!

Post: #55

You can just create a basic facebook profile that you use just for contacting people. You don't have to put anything on it and you can hide everything. If they ask just say you don't have the time to be messing with it. Personally, I have two profiles. One for women I just want to be friends with and another just for contacts. facebook can work to your advantage also by providing social status and pre-selection. If they see you with some HB that's pre-selection that would be difficult to pull off in the real world.

With that said, I only do facebook if the girl request it. I just give her my clean profile

Post: #56

Hmm I hear people saying don't use it but these days some girls under 25 simply cannot comprehend a person not using facebook, and as a result can view you with suspicion.

Post: #57

(11-15-2012 09:28 AM)lush1 Wrote:  Hmm I hear people saying don't use it but these days some girls under 25 simply cannot comprehend a person not using facebook, and as a result can view you with suspicion.

bullshit, it's only weird if you think it's weird

Post: #58

(11-15-2012 09:39 AM)reino341 Wrote:  

(11-15-2012 09:28 AM)lush1 Wrote:  Hmm I hear people saying don't use it but these days some girls under 25 simply cannot comprehend a person not using facebook, and as a result can view you with suspicion.

bullshit, it's only weird if you think it's weird

I agree but am only going by some of the responses I've had recently..

Post: #59

Just say you had to shut it down because some girl was stalking you.

Post: #60

(11-15-2012 11:21 AM)lush1 Wrote:  

(11-15-2012 09:39 AM)reino341 Wrote:  

(11-15-2012 09:28 AM)lush1 Wrote:  Hmm I hear people saying don't use it but these days some girls under 25 simply cannot comprehend a person not using facebook, and as a result can view you with suspicion.

bullshit, it's only weird if you think it's weird

I agree but am only going by some of the responses I've had recently..

I understand, and I'm assuming you're talking about a girl's response, which does not matter at all. What matters is how you respond, on a subconscious level that you can't fake, to her remark about not being on FB being "weird".

She will know regardless of the witty comeback line you read on RVF if you are insecure about not having a Facebook profile. This pinging phenomenon is obviously ubiquitous in social interactions, but just as an example.

Post: #61

Been off fb for a year. Wouldn't have it any other way. I hate everything about it. I say I knew some co workers got canned for pictures, or someone stalked me, etc. If they get suspicious it's not worth it. Gmac had some good posts earlier in this thread

Post: #62

Correct. NEVER add a girl to FB that you' re interested in. After the bang you do whatever you want.

Facebook KILLS the cat. Avoid as hell. A procrastinator which softly kills your social life.

Post: #63

michelin is right about that though.

i use my facebook to just message close friends and i hate doing that.

My advice would be:
*Make one post a day
*Make the post good in quality so you get likes
*Try to have friends tag you in pictures more often and make sure the pictures are cool
*Get on Facebook for like less than an hour a day.

As for adding new girls to Facebook, forget it. Your Facebook should be as private as possible, but still fun for the people who you know dearly. Until you have the resources to make Facebook help you be cool forget it.

I can't wait until my iPhone comes so I can use Twitter and Instagram. Whats your guys take on those? Is it the same rule for Facebook or no?

Post: #64

(11-15-2012 07:05 PM)Rosca Wrote:  michelin is right about that though.

i use my facebook to just message close friends and i hate doing that.

My advice would be:
*Make one post a day

*Get on Facebook for like less than an hour a day.

As for adding new girls to Facebook, forget it.

This is a serious post?

I would tend to say " You ARE a girl if you spend an hour a day on Facebook."

But I know it's your environment's fault, not yours.

Because of my profession, privacy, and wanting real, raw emotional experience; I shut down my facebook page a few weeks ago. Just more bullshit pseudo-living, like video games and watching reality TV. RVF is bad enough! You only have so many hours 'til the curtain.

Post: #65

It was a dead serious post man. I hate Facebook just as much as everyone else here on RVF, but I just feel that any social networking site can be manipulated to get what you want out of it.

RVF is my player's version of Facebook. I can talk to people here about cool things that are often helpful! I never tell anyone about RVF, but I still like being on here because I get to talk and make good friends.

But I'm saying, social networking sites and forums may be a waste of time, but you can find some very good friends out of it and network like fuck once you get the hang of it. I'd bring a RVF member down to my college so we could try to catch Pokemon on a big school social event. Why? because this is the player's facebook!

It may be my college enviroment or my past highschool internet nerd lifestyle, but I just feel like you can network with the right people anywhere on the internets.

Post: #66

(04-11-2011 04:32 PM)Gmac Wrote:  Said it before I'll say it again, facebook only leads to a DLV. Like some others mentioned, the mystery is gone. It doesn't matter how awesome you are, facebook will only end up disqualifying you. Telling women you don't use FB or won't add them is a DHV...

Interesting. Gmac do you online date?

Okcupid profile vs FB profile, do they not display some of the same material?

Post: #67

I deleted mine at 20 right after I found out about 'game' four years ago- DLV unless you keep up with it. It was ok for a while, its a good way for some girls you loose touch with to easily find you and get at you. You can have girls compete for you. But at the end of the day it is cheesy because your spot can get blown up with out you even being there. Plus family and work and sex life don't mix. and the fact that 20 years from now they'll be able to retrieve anything you or SOMEONE else put on it...

delete it, unless you're Krauser

Post: #68

(04-14-2011 02:56 PM)Lumiere Wrote:  I dont add gırls on facebook usually untıl after ı bang them

Gotta keep some ıntrıgue about you alıve

Also dont lıst your relatıonshıp status at all

This is the exact way I do! plus my profil is very limited to everybody, even friends friends. But the more closed, the better! Gotta keep the hamster spin!

Lumiere, very nice post- almost rap lines

Post: #69

I have two facebook accounts. One for friends and family and one for girls. The one for girls is purely just for communication. They go on there and see some DHV pics etc. but there's nothing much on there about me. Actually I become more of a mystery and get to brag about shit indirectly by posting pics of cool places I have gone to etc.

Post: #70

There was life before FB, there will be life after FB. Even better, there is life without FB.

Post: #71

For traveling (esp internationally), facebook is typically a good tool for keeping up, setting yourself up for the next meetup, etc.

Do I resort to facebook when it comes to domestic girls in my area? HELL NO. Don't do it.

Post: #72

I am one of those young guys who does not use Facebook (21) and it is true that some/most girls my age see this as strange or odd but usually you can turn this view around in a short conversation. I am probably one of five or so guys my age in this city who does not use Facebook and I would say this is generally a positive, you have that intriguing thing going on and girls will spend a bit more time trying to figure you out. Also it makes it clear to the girl that if she wants to see me again in the future she will need to put in a little bit of effort.

Post: #73

One question... I know I can hide newly added friends on my timeline but, can I prevent it from coming up in other peoples news update ?

Post: #74

I fall into the trap once in a while. Somehow i rationalize that "this time" it doesn't matter if she sees my facebook..
But it's almost always the same. It's funny how some aspects of game are so predictable.

My point is. One has to constantly remind himself of not falling into these game killer traps.
I still fall into the trap of responding to texts right away, even though i know it will damage my appeal.
One have to snap back to reality, when these traps appear.. That means, not accepting to be facebook friends

Post: #75

(03-03-2013 08:13 AM)makaveli Wrote:  I fall into the trap once in a while. Somehow i rationalize that "this time" it doesn't matter if she sees my facebook..
But it's almost always the same. It's funny how some aspects of game are so predictable.

My point is. One has to constantly remind himself of not falling into these game killer traps.
I still fall into the trap of responding to texts right away, even though i know it will damage my appeal.
One have to snap back to reality, when these traps appear.. That means, not accepting to be facebook friends

Ya, I only break the no facebook rule if there's no time to number close. So far that's happened only once.