(10-28-2014 11:59 AM)Little Dark Wrote:  

(10-28-2014 11:51 AM)jamaicabound Wrote:  You seem a bit too laid back if you're going to sit there and allow someone to go through your friends stuff, steal it and hand it to you. If I go out with a group of friends I'm typically not going to leave things of value laying out but if I happen to leave my Zippo or phone on a table and someone tries to steal it I would hope that one of my friends would clock the guy or at the very least shoo him away.

Not sure if these are casual aqcuantances of yours or what but in my opinion its not white knighting to protect your friends shit. I would be pretty pissed at you that you didn't step in. There's no running to the bouncer telling on the guy you don't necessarily have to get physical but at least be like dude wtf do you think your doing?

YOu don't have to fuck someone up but at least be assertive and let it be known someone isn't going to steal from my friends in front of me.

I agree with you, but see I have a hard time controlling myself and if I were to go in his face I know 100% that it would end with fists. I was trying to avoid this first and foremost, because I have a history of escalating too fast and digging people in the head.